"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I found this article online about women on an Island that choose the men. I have the link. http://www.usatoday.com/news/world/2007-02-02-ladies-choice_x.htm?csp=24. This to me seems redudant. Women except in some third world countries are the ones who choose. Contrary to popular belief. Yes, men do choosing too but it's usually the women who decides if they will reproduce, and by reproduce I mean have kids.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chosen1 said:
I found this article online about women on an Island that choose the men. I have the link. http://www.usatoday.com/news/world/2007-02-02-ladies-choice_x.htm?csp=24. This to me seems redudant. Women except in some third world countries are the ones who choose. Contrary to popular belief. Yes, men do choosing too but it's usually the women who decides if they will reproduce, and by reproduce I mean have kids.
...this doesn't really make sense...a relationship between a man and a woman is MUTUAL, therefore they are both choosing. So I have to disagree with your thread's concept entirely.
 

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dynamicallyidle said:
...this doesn't really make sense...a relationship between a man and a woman is MUTUAL, therefore they are both choosing. So I have to disagree with your thread's concept entirely.
I would say don't be ridiculous, but you seem like a nice guy. And it's to early or late to be arguing.

In most relationships one person holds more leverage then another. For instance usually have the breast legs and @ss and men have the money,power,security. Nothing is entirely mutual. Sometimes women go nuts over guys and sometimes guys go nuts over women. There is usually not a mutual exchange of interests going on. Like I said if there is no interest from another women she will prbably not reproduce with "you". Then you end up on Maury.
 

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I would say don't be ridiculous, but you seem like a nice guy. And it's to early or late to be arguing.

In most relationships one person holds more leverage then another. For instance usually have the breast legs and @ss and men have the money,power,security. Nothing is entirely mutual. Sometimes women go nuts over guys and sometimes guys go nuts over women. There is usually not a mutual exchange of interests going on. Like I said if there is no interest from another women she will prbably not reproduce with "you". Then you end up on Maury.
One person is not choosing the other in a relationship. They're both choosing each other. Otherwise, it wouldn't be a "relationship." It would be "stalking."

Silly Chosen.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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