"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women in Cars

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Not sure what kind of responses I'm even going to get from this because, well, what can you really do? But anyway...

I'm sure the weather has something to do with it. Women wearing less clothes, windows rolled down, whatever it may be. I feel like the number of attractive women that I see driving on the road next to me has skyrocketed. It's like, I used to see some every now and then, but I feel like every single time I get in my car now, I see multiple 7.5-9s. Just now, I went to grab lunch and was in my car for 6 minutes total. I saw 4 chicks I would have wanted to approach.

I just keep thinking to myself that this is literally the worst possible time to see someone you are interested in talking to. In many cases, it's simply impossible without stalking them, and I can't picture a scenario where you could successfully talk to a women in her car without looking like an absolute psycho.

Anyone ever attempted this? What did you do? Is it a complete lost cause? I was resigned to the fact that it's just a sh!tty situation with no solution, but the frequency of this happening made it worth it in my mind to get some opinions.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What kind of car do you drive, first of all.

I drove a tricked out 1998 Nissan Sentra. It got a lot of attention from females, most likely because it looked more like a BMW.

Nod your head to some music. I played R&B music loud so that the viewers could hear. Did get lots of female attention, and there was some sexual looks too. Stuff I didn't get when I had the car stock (not tricked out at all).
 

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I drive an '01 silver BMW 330xi with chrome rims and tinted windows. But my windows are usually all the way down in the summer (not even sure if my A/C works).

I listen to hip hop and R&B, and usually pretty loud.

But even still, if a girl is interested, you are both driving. How would you even initiate contact? Smile, and if she smiles back tail her for 30 miles until the cops stop you? I just don't see how to make it work.
 

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That A/C problem is gonna hit you in the hundreds!

Bearing in mind that's a 11 year old car, you're gonna have to get these girls in city driving.

She sees you in a BMW. That's one set of Alphabets that women love. If you catch her looking, make a move.
 

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Haha, I don't actually have an A/C problem. I meant that as a joke that I never use it, so I wouldn't know if it worked. Truth is, most girls hate the windows down on hot days, so I do use it when someone else is in the car.

Anyway... I guess that's really my whole question. How the hell do you 'make a move' in this scenario?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PDubb75 said:
Anyway... I guess that's really my whole question. How the hell do you 'make a move' in this scenario?
The only way this would work is when if you are stopped on a red light. If you make eye contact, smile and go direct. If she gives you IOI's I would tell her to pull over and then say something along the lines of "listen, I have somewhere to be, but let's exchange #'s & I'll catch up with you later" or go for the instant date if you both of you don't have anywhere to be.

Very few men do this, so you will stand out right off the bat. Some of them will be flirts, though and some will be AW's. In the end, if you don't get any results just shrug it off.
 

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I've waved at girls from cars, honked to get their attention and said hi, and my favorite is to try to have a conversation while driving down the road, then having them pull over so you can exchange numbers. It's hit or miss, but I like taking opportunities when they present themselves.

The car you drive also can influence their reactions: my car wouldn't be as effective as my friend's lifted truck with the train horn (the truck is a "fun" car, music, train horn, nice wheels), and my other buddy's Porsche would turn heads and make it even easier to open.

The key is to be a cool dude and JUST OPEN.

One thing though, if you drive a nice car, DO NOT DRIVE FAST OR BUMP LOUD MUSIC.

Why?

Because driving fast does not impress people. Pressing a gas pedal with your foot does NOT impress anyone, and only annoys people. It also does not allow girls to check you out in a parking lot if you just tear through it. The faster and more high performance the car, and the more modestly you drive it/show self control, the better. Police also love to pull over douchebags that do this kind of stuff.

The loud music won't give girls an opportunity to say anything if the music is too loud.
 
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