I have read the “Women in Bar” remarks coming and going for quite some time. Here is my view as a man that used to party a lot and do the Happy Hour from time to time and as a Man that have lived or worked or visited big cities such as San Juan, D.C., Chicago, Madrid, London, Barcelona, Miami, New York City, Las Vegas, Houston, etc. And had my share of small and “country” cities too.
From a single’s woman perspective:
Lot of professionals, males and females do the Happy Hour. Many times that’s a way people network. There is nothing wrong with women doing the Happy Hour from time to time. This is common in big and medium size cities with high educational level.
Now, going out to a nightclub once in a while is not that bad either if she is single.
Now…if she is a single woman, but have children…and she frequents the Nightclubs and Bars then I have serious doubt about that woman. If she goes to the Honky Tonk bars frequented by truckers, etc…well, I have doubts too.
Going to bars and nightclubs is not the thing that makes a woman high or low quality for lack of better terms. It is how she behaves in that environment.
You meet a woman at church on Sunday morning and you are going to see her with her BEST POSSIBLE FACE and BEHAVIOR. And it could be very deceiving too. But beware…that same woman might be the one that is DRUNK and grinding strangers on Friday nights.
I know some VERY good women that do the Happy Hour from time to time after work with their peers and co-workers.
That said…meeting DRUNK women is not advisable. But no every woman that goes to a nightclub is a drunk. Some simply go because they want to have a good time with their friends.
Now...that's for SINGLE women.
If she is married or in a committed relationship...then my opinion might change considerably.
From a single’s woman perspective:
Lot of professionals, males and females do the Happy Hour. Many times that’s a way people network. There is nothing wrong with women doing the Happy Hour from time to time. This is common in big and medium size cities with high educational level.
Now, going out to a nightclub once in a while is not that bad either if she is single.
Now…if she is a single woman, but have children…and she frequents the Nightclubs and Bars then I have serious doubt about that woman. If she goes to the Honky Tonk bars frequented by truckers, etc…well, I have doubts too.
Going to bars and nightclubs is not the thing that makes a woman high or low quality for lack of better terms. It is how she behaves in that environment.
You meet a woman at church on Sunday morning and you are going to see her with her BEST POSSIBLE FACE and BEHAVIOR. And it could be very deceiving too. But beware…that same woman might be the one that is DRUNK and grinding strangers on Friday nights.
I know some VERY good women that do the Happy Hour from time to time after work with their peers and co-workers.
That said…meeting DRUNK women is not advisable. But no every woman that goes to a nightclub is a drunk. Some simply go because they want to have a good time with their friends.
Now...that's for SINGLE women.
If she is married or in a committed relationship...then my opinion might change considerably.
) but if you get some numbers in a decent area odds are these girls are normal and there is nothing wrong with them. I also know where to go if I want to find some crack head with 3 kids and 3 different baby daddies.