women hints in public

[kelv]

Hi people,

I have a question to ask. Since years ago, I have occasionally experienced in public, women coming into close proximity of me. I am sure you have that kind of situations in which you can use your eye peripheral vision and see the girl looking at you and minutes later, she just happens to move really really close to you or be in your direct line of sight. I read somewhere that this is women's way of saying "Come chat me up" but they expect the men to be man up and approach them. Anybody care to share such scenarios you have experienced personally and what's your take on that? I feel all these while I have been missing such opportunities although I tend to tell myself not to read too much into it.

 

[kentgraham10]

Yes this happened to me at the bookstore today. I was in a section of the bookstore called local history and the girl started looking at the same shelf I was and didn't really think anything of it. Then I go on the other side of the store to the biography section and there she was again. At local history I didn't realize what was going on but by biography I knew I had to make my move now or never. Chose never, would have been good practice though.

 

[kelv]

Ha ha. Me too buddy. One thing is that everytime after not bracing up the courage to talk to that girl, I wished I could kick myself in the nuts, replaying the scenario over and over again. ****!!

 

[kentgraham10]

My problem that since I'm a history major at college I am always looking at the past so I have a problem with replaying scenarios since its in my nature. Another way being a history major hurts me is I have trouble living in the moment, my mind is always somewhere else. So when I see a chick suddenly come up next to me looking at books on local history I never go, "hey, why is this cute chick looking at local history books? Oh she wants to talk, let's do this!" Realizing things five minutes after they happen doesn't hurt you when writing a history paper, but damn does it hurt you with potential approaches...

 

[PapiChulo]

yeas yeas and yeas, it's all buying signals, even a prolonged eye-contact will do. Sometimes they just check you with no intent of doing anything with you later on. (I check out women all the time, all sorts of women, so do they)

 

[RSanders219]

I was browsing at a music store with a few friends once and this cute girl working there walked by me and gave me eye contact, then I turned around to look where she was going and she just gave me a wink. Feels good when girls give you that kinda attention haha.

 

[kentgraham10]

I was browsing at a music store with a few friends once and this cute girl working there walked by me and gave me eye contact, then I turned around to look where she was going and she just gave me a wink. Feels good when girls give you that kinda attention haha.

Yeah it really does feel good man! Happened to me too!I had a really cute girl look up and smile at me as I walked passed her. I really really need to get my head in the game when I'm out in public! I'm still really new at this so I'm sure it'll eventually come more naturally but do you for example like do some planning beforehand on how you will react to different situations? Because I don't and then I don't realize that anything is going on until like 30 seconds after it happened and by then its too late.

 

[SeymourCake]

I never had a girl wink at me. ;_;

I don't wanna over analyze certain situations, but have any of you walked say in a neighborhood or store and you see women bend over? From my egotistical point of view I'm like, "Yeah she wants me to bang her so bad", but maybe I'm just in a sexual state of mind? I've had that happened to me twice today...One at the super market. I was walking down a isle and I see a women bending over to get something from the bottom shelf. The other happened in the neighborhood when I was walking and I saw a lady bend over to pet/adjust the collar for her dog(?). Note: These women saw me coming from before they bent over.

In 2004, my middle school English teacher (sexy Italian by the way) jokingly told the female students in my class not to purposely drop their pen or pencil just to bend over in front of a male student for obvious reasons on the first day of class. Does anyone here have an input on this?

 

[Ice882]

- girl drops something after seeing me, or walks over near me unnecessarily, I chat her up. Improved success rate?


Will field test and report back with results.

 

[SeymourCake]

- girl drops something after seeing me, or walks over near me unnecessarily, I chat her up. Improved success rate?


Will field test and report back with results.

How did it go?

 

[comic_relief]

yeah, it happens from time to time. As soon as I see it, I start the chat up. I am usually already in a relationship but I could easily get the numbers.

- comic_relief