Women helping us to be the best we can be?

[glass half full]

I'm proposing that you are who you are. Just beacause she has tets and azz don't make her a queen. I'm saying don't change who you are, to make her happy. I know from experience, once you go down that road, it never ends.

 

[glass half full]

I say this because you can bet your azz that she won't change who she is to make you happy. If she's that nice, and Her friends find out the situation and you will be in trouble. They take care of their own in the world.

 

[muscleman]

I let this sink in for a while and decided to write a post on women as motivators. Within the right context, it's a powerful (and positive) force.

 

[glass half full]

you know after reading all this I realize that is why I had problems with my last wife. Thing is, she was from a very poor family, while I was from an average middle-class family. Over the years, I ran into a couple of bosses who did not like me and would not let me advance in the workplace ( only 5'6" tall, and good looking, but a nice guy is not a sucessful combo in a factory). While my wife on the other hand is good looking and nice, but her female boss people at work convinced her she could do better than me. Eventually it happened. While you guys are right that men have to be successful in order to attrract and keep women, that does still not make it right to me, for a woman to forsake a good man just because her "friends" convince her that she outgrew me and can do better. While I have learned a lesson from all this( all the pressure resulted in my having a fvckin stroke at work 4 years ago), I have learned that in order to be a successful man in this world, we need to shoot for the top. So that is what I'm doing now. I am taking classes to get an office job so i don't have to sweat my azz off at work, and be degraded by all the women for being a hard-working nobody. I still think it all fvcking sux, but it is a way of life nowadays.

 

[zekko]

Over the years, I ran into a couple of bosses who did not like me and would not let me advance in the workplace ( only 5'6" tall, and good looking, but a nice guy is not a sucessful combo in a factory). While my wife on the other hand is good looking and nice, but her female boss people at work convinced her she could do better than me. Eventually it happened. While you guys are right that men have to be successful in order to attrract and keep women, that does still not make it right to me, for a woman to forsake a good man just because her "friends" convince her that she outgrew me and can do better.

I've seen this before. Falls under the category of changing circumstances. A woman outperforms her husband in their career paths, suddenly she can't look "up" to him anymore. So she leaves him, hypergamous creature that she is. You're correct, it may not be right, but it happens anyway.