SteR
Master Don Juan
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It seems there are a lot of threads involving guys being cheated on, hurt by women, dumped for another guy etc. Naturally this leads to a lot of negative thoughts and bitterness about women and their loyalty.
This has got me thinking though. Surely, if the residual emotions from these experiences are channeled into making ourselves better, then shouldn't we be thankful for them? Because really these women are driving us to step up our game.. to be the best we can be. It seems a lot of people feel angry (and I can understand that) but rather than sulking and blaming women, shouldn't we be working on developing ourselves so we become the top dogs that the women are chasing? If you're constantly working on yourself to be the best possible man you can, then surely this reduces the chance of a woman cheating on you?
Speaking from my own experiences, the times I've been hurt the most by women are also the times where I've learned a huge lesson and improved to a whole new level.
Thoughts?
This has got me thinking though. Surely, if the residual emotions from these experiences are channeled into making ourselves better, then shouldn't we be thankful for them? Because really these women are driving us to step up our game.. to be the best we can be. It seems a lot of people feel angry (and I can understand that) but rather than sulking and blaming women, shouldn't we be working on developing ourselves so we become the top dogs that the women are chasing? If you're constantly working on yourself to be the best possible man you can, then surely this reduces the chance of a woman cheating on you?
Speaking from my own experiences, the times I've been hurt the most by women are also the times where I've learned a huge lesson and improved to a whole new level.
Thoughts?