"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women having Fruit Loops for Friends

Desdinova

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Is it normal for women to have Fruit Loops for friends? No not the cereal, but just other women who are fvcked up. My woman is fantastic, but some of her friends are seriously fvcked in the head. What's been your experience with this? I personally think it's the drama of their friends that keeps them entertained.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJDamage

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Misery loves company. Every woman I ever knew had at least 2 Nutty friends. Women enjoy having those friends because it validates that they themselves are not fvcked up and it gives them something to do, such as listening to the drama and try to solve it.

One must be careful in associating for a long period of times with people with problems. Their negativity is contagious.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You're absolutely correct in saying it's their need for drama. It's probably the most potent stimulus for a woman's emotions and we all know what drives women...
 

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I don't agree with Super's assertion that we should keep our mouth closed about the fruit loop's behavior. It's your obligation to acknowledge any disrespect shown to you by either your girlfriend, or her friends. If your GF has a problem with you standing up to her friend's disrespect, tell her to get lost.

It shows a lot about her character if she will allow her friends to act this way towards you, and then blame you for not putting up with it.
 
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