Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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women have too many standards grrrr

joe45

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having a car, great job, tall, this and that ewww seems like women these days have so many high standards and picky about everything and if u do have a car -then its what type of car bmw or just a older honda.
you don;t hear men having these high standards of this and that

i don;t have a car and i'm 25 no wonder i'm screwed and if i get one its a cheap honda.


why isn;t it beeter to have a cas encouter-you hear it on the online dating -intimate encouters or cas encouters. where else other than online can u find women who just want cas encoutners-bars adn clubs-how can u spot a women by looking at her if shes into the cas encouter or not. do u ask em or do u just get the e mail and then later ask for the cas encouter-what are ur secrets.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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El MonoLoco

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Stop complaining and get some standards of your own...

Car, No Car
Job, No Job

What does it matter as long as you do what you want...


Who cares...

Grow a pair and deal with life...

:rockon:
 

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El MonoLoco said:
Stop complaining and get some standards of your own...

Car, No Car
Job, No Job

What does it matter as long as you do what you want...


Who cares...

Grow a pair and deal with life...

:rockon:
Amen.


Its DJ's who have high standards! Have you ever seen ugly guys with beatiful women. Style, Mystery, etc. all got girls before they made it big being broke and such.
 

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wah wah wah... holy sh!t, man. First thing's first. Stop complaining.

Keep tabs on any time you start to complain about anything. The second you feel yourself starting to go off on a spiel about something that p!sses you off, stop imediately. No one wants to hear a guy complain. It shows lack of foundation, and a victimized sense of self. Once you stop complaing, then it's time to move on to things that are more important and better to spend your time on.

No woman wants a lazy ass, "content with whatever rut he's in" kinda guy. They want the guys who are driven and motivated. Guys who are progressing and growing.

If all you can afford is the cheaper honda, then buy it... but make goals to make more money, work harder and eventually earn the bigger, better car/house/boat... whatever.

People are so brainwashed into seeking the quick cash.. the overnight success. You're so busy dreaming of greatness that you're spending no time actually pursuing it.

Put in some elbow grease and earn the material things...... if you think that's what will land you the babes. I can tell you right now that it won't.... and if it does, and that's the only thing keeping them around; you wouldn't want those chicks, anyways.

Stop being a whiner and put together a plan of action.

or don't....

It's your choice. Don;t hate girls because they have "standards"... everyone should. Raise yours and eventually you'll meet theirs.
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
wah wah wah... holy sh!t, man. First thing's first. Stop complaining.

Keep tabs on any time you start to complain about anything. The second you feel yourself starting to go off on a spiel about something that p!sses you off, stop imediately. No one wants to hear a guy complain. It shows lack of foundation, and a victimized sense of self. Once you stop complaing, then it's time to move on to things that are more important and better to spend your time on.

No woman wants a lazy ass, "content with whatever rut he's in" kinda guy. They want the guys who are driven and motivated. Guys who are progressing and growing.

If all you can afford is the cheaper honda, then buy it... but make goals to make more money, work harder and eventually earn the bigger, better car/house/boat... whatever.

People are so brainwashed into seeking the quick cash.. the overnight success. You're so busy dreaming of greatness that you're spending no time actually pursuing it.

Put in some elbow grease and earn the material things...... if you think that's what will land you the babes. I can tell you right now that it won't.... and if it does, and that's the only thing keeping them around; you wouldn't want those chicks, anyways.

Stop being a whiner and put together a plan of action.

or don't....

It's your choice. Don;t hate girls because they have "standards"... everyone should. Raise yours and eventually you'll meet theirs.
I couldn't have said it better myself. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I kind of skipped reading but let me tell you this...

There is this fat guy, not good looking. Yet every girls seems to want to touch him. I work at Cinnabon, the manager has called me a moron a lot. Yet she touches me and has talked about taking off my clothes. Money may help, but in the long run it is a mind set.
 

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Screw money, screw standards, just be happy in yourself and eventually you'll find a true mate.
 

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Dude, you're 25 and don't have a car? What's wrong with you? Do you think the girl is suppose to cart you around?
 

Flabbergasped?

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You phail at life if you're 25 with no car. Rummage together a few grand and go to a used car lot, you loser.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Forget about what they say.

you may want to switch your "scene" to another one where the girls are less superficial.

In my town, there are a couple of streets with clubs where women are very dressy and such.

Yet, a few blocks away is an area where the chicks are less stringent and party more!

Also, do you have ANY IDEA of how many women you could potentially meet in the bus? This was my holy grail a few years back.

But yes, you will get that from time to time and it's something happening here too and I hate it.

Buy ANY INEXPENSIVE CAR, make sure it's not rusty. The BMW wont help you, trust me. Elsewise, go for girls who take the bus and use the taxi more often while with them.
 
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