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Women have Over-Abudance by default!

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As said,

It is no secret that women of today have access to a plethora of sexual options. From dating apps to social media, the internet has made it easier than ever before for women to connect with potential partners.

With this new-found freedom comes an over-abundance in terms of sexual options. Women are now able to choose from a variety of partners, explore their sexuality, and experiment with different sexual experiences.

Too long, didn't read version: When it comes to having sexual prospects, women of today are having an Over-Abundance by default. Any 5/10 (in terms of looks) woman doesn't have to do anything other than checking her phone every 5 minutes to pick one guy from an army of 100 thirsty simps to give her some free food and attention for the day.
This is old news, it has been that way since the dawn of man.

Even in the animal kingdom, males fight each other for the right to mate with the female, while the female sits back and chill like an entitled diva.

The only way for a man to combat this is to..

1. Ignore these brawds: Use my ignorement strategy. Long story short; females thrive off attention, so dont give it to them.

That will draw them to you.

2. Mode One: The answer to everything. Long story short, tell her you want to smash and if she doesn't reciprocate, then she immediately vanishes off your radar.

Guys spend too much time trying to work from the inside out, instead of from the outside in.

And that is the problem.
 

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You better have the experience to back up that type of language. Chics will sniff it out real quick if you don't.
What if you don't, then how would you go about it?

I'd tell them...."look here sweetie....I've been around the block, I could write a book on how this all works. I am looking for someone that checks all the boxes, If that's you then I am down for something serious, but
I'll need to be convinced you are the real deal.

If she can't check all the boxes then you guarantee she'll have a good time with a solid dude.
What was your experience level and age once you reached this point?
 
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It's even better for men.
You have FREE easy access to all kinds of HD porn. Just let that sink in for a moment.
Depending on location, there's more or less easy access to escorts.
In these conditions, to prostrate oneself to hoes on swipe apps seems like a mix of insanity and masochism to me. :oops:
Any 5/10 (in terms of looks) woman doesn't have to do anything other than checking her phone every 5 minutes to pick one guy from an army of 100 thirsty simps to give her some free food and attention for the day.
Yeah, that's like a guy checking his email's Spam folder and seeing all kinds of offers to minimum wage jobs. Wow, such an 'abundance' of money.
 

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From Rollo's book, I thought this forum would be beneficial..but now I see 99% of posts and threads men whining about reality and evolutionary biology..
look at the recent threads in this forum, tell me honestly, how many of them actually deserve to be up there? What are the mods doing??
 

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I’ve never been one to flaunt my wealth, I’m afraid of attracting parasite users who might be better at a making me a walking walker than I am detecting they are. What’s funny is most women have no clue that I have money but yet guys can tell I’m well off for some reason. My guy friends are always “you got the money! You’re just cheap! Spend some of it!”. I don’t buy over the top fancy expensive clothes, my truck is just a normal truck even though it’s new, I had an apple watch but lost it so haven’t replaced it. I buy land, I own thousands of acres. Women could care less when they find this out, men know the value of land though. I’d probably get alot more women if I flaunted my money but it would be the wrong type of women.
Real money that is smart is “quiet”. It does not need to be flashy or showy. Quiet money is what generational wealth is built with. Precisely because if you are flaunting it, people are wanting it, as in to take it from you.

I know the value of land, however undeveloped land can be a huge risk as I’m sure you are aware. But what you say is true.

You need to always determine if someone likes you for who you are or what you have. And it’s always better that they do not know what you have until you know they love who you are. Even then it can be dicey.
 

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I’ve never been one to flaunt my wealth, I’m afraid of attracting parasite users who might be better at a making me a walking walker than I am detecting they are. What’s funny is most women have no clue that I have money but yet guys can tell I’m well off for some reason. My guy friends are always “you got the money! You’re just cheap! Spend some of it!”. I don’t buy over the top fancy expensive clothes, my truck is just a normal truck even though it’s new, I had an apple watch but lost it so haven’t replaced it. I buy land, I own thousands of acres. Women could care less when they find this out, men know the value of land though. I’d probably get alot more women if I flaunted my money but it would be the wrong type of women.
Well that’s the risk you take. Keep in mind women won’t care about your money if you behave in a way that says “I’m thrifty” So it becomes useless for gaming.
 

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Well that’s the risk you take. Keep in mind women won’t care about your money if you behave in a way that says “I’m thrifty” So it becomes useless for gaming.
You’re never going to keep the gold diggers away. I can think of two I’ve known who came hard after my money, you know the type. “Omg I’m gonna be evicted if I don’t pay my rent and I was sick all week and didn’t get paid and I’m so worried what to do! Guess I’ll have to live on the street”. When that didn’t work they’d come right out “is there any way you can let me borrow $100? Please! I’ll pay you back”. Those types are out there and they’re abundant.
 

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You’re never going to keep the gold diggers away. I can think of two I’ve known who came hard after my money, you know the type. “Omg I’m gonna be evicted if I don’t pay my rent and I was sick all week and didn’t get paid and I’m so worried what to do! Guess I’ll have to live on the street”. When that didn’t work they’d come right out “is there any way you can let me borrow $100? Please! I’ll pay you back”. Those types are out there and they’re abundant.
I met one recently who was giving me this sob story about how her furniture is rented and she can't afford the monthly payment this month. I didn't even know furniture could be rented. Anyway, my response was "that sucks".
 

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I met one recently who was giving me this sob story about how her furniture is rented and she can't afford the monthly payment this month. I didn't even know furniture could be rented. Anyway, my response was "that sucks".
If you’re renting furniture you are in a mess. It can be rented but mostly it’s people with crappy financial situations that do it. She showed you she’s not responsible with her money, she sure wouldn’t be with yours. I’m surprised she didn’t come back after you said “that sucks” with “can you please help me? I promise I’ll pay you back next week when I get paid!”. At least she took the hint and didn’t press any further. These two women wouldn’t take a hint much less no for an answer. It went from sob story, to begging, to anger.lol
 

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You need to always determine if someone likes you for who you are or what you have. And it’s always better that they do not know what you have until you know they love who you are. Even then it can be dicey.
True.

But in reality no woman past the age of, let’s say 27, is going to like the man for “who he is”. She is going to like him for what he “has”. Not right or wrong, just reality. Too many men here think women like them for who they are. They also confuse the time a woman spends with them as intimacy.

The only way a woman likes a man is if she has sex with him. And even then, the relationship past the woman’s age of 27, is transactional.
 

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True.

But in reality no woman past the age of, let’s say 27, is going to like the man for “who he is”. She is going to like him for what he “has”. Not right or wrong, just reality. Too many men here think women like them for who they are. They also confuse the time a woman spends with them as intimacy.

The only way a woman likes a man is if she has sex with him. And even then, the relationship past the woman’s age of 27, is transactional.
Yes. This is part of why I say regularly that every man pays for sex indirectly or directly.
 

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True.

But in reality no woman past the age of, let’s say 27, is going to like the man for “who he is”. She is going to like him for what he “has”. Not right or wrong, just reality. Too many men here think women like them for who they are. They also confuse the time a woman spends with them as intimacy.

The only way a woman likes a man is if she has sex with him. And even then, the relationship past the woman’s age of 27, is transactional.
My relationship is not transactional. I understand your life experience has taught you that, but that is not always true. Frankly your belief is shortsighted and reflects your experience but not reality at large in all instances.

You are jaded. That’s ok. But my relationship is not the way you describe at all.
 

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My relationship is not transactional. I understand your life experience has taught you that, but that is not always true. Frankly your belief is shortsighted and reflects your experience but not reality at large in all instances.

You are jaded. That’s ok. But my relationship is not the way you describe at all.
You are right. Your relationship may be based on love and trust and mutual respect and is not transactional.

How do I know.
 

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From Rollo's book, I thought this forum would be beneficial..but now I see 99% of posts and threads men whining about reality and evolutionary biology..
look at the recent threads in this forum, tell me honestly, how many of them actually deserve to be up there? What are the mods doing??
Men in 2023 are weak and instead of fightning like their forefathers would rather complain on internet forums and youtube video comment sections.

Guess what since the beginning of time there is a group of men that couldn't procreate in 2023 it's easier than ever to get laid if your'e not getting laid it's because you're

  • Not fit
  • Don't know how to have witty/banter engaging conversations with women
  • low confidence
  • No money to even take a girl out for a few drinks
  • Self-defeastist menatliy
When I saw my 5'5 140 pound, bus pass wingman pick up chicks every other weekend from regular chicks to models It reaffirmed that there some men who will defy the odds by any means and some men who won't do shyt

I don't keep losers in my circle I don't care if you're "redpill aware" or "alpha" if you're the type of guy to cry, moan and whine than I don't have nothing in common with you. I have things in commonw ith men of God, men who want to work towards the solution and figure out how to rise on top not men who are willing to get pegged
 

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Men in 2023 are weak and instead of fightning like their forefathers would rather complain on internet forums and youtube video comment sections.

Guess what since the beginning of time there is a group of men that couldn't procreate in 2023 it's easier than ever to get laid if your'e not getting laid it's because you're

  • Not fit
  • Don't know how to have witty/banter engaging conversations with women
  • low confidence
  • No money to even take a girl out for a few drinks
  • Self-defeastist menatliy
When I saw my 5'5 140 pound, bus pass wingman pick up chicks every other weekend from regular chicks to models It reaffirmed that there some men who will defy the odds by any means and some men who won't do shyt

I don't keep losers in my circle I don't care if you're "redpill aware" or "alpha" if you're the type of guy to cry, moan and whine than I don't have nothing in common with you. I have things in commonw ith men of God, men who want to work towards the solution and figure out how to rise on top not men who are willing to get pegged
A question..If you're "rising" you know "self-improvement" to show women you're better. Would you have improved if women were not present? If you're improving to be the "man" women want? Are you not improving to be accepted or acceptable to women?
Honestly, as someone who went this route.You'll or I found no happiness.
 

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Guess what since the beginning of time there is a group of men that couldn't procreate in 2023 it's easier than ever to get laid if your'e not getting laid it's because you're
  • Not fit
  • Don't know how to have witty/banter engaging conversations with women
  • low confidence
  • No money to even take a girl out for a few drinks
  • Self-defeastist menatliy
This is old school thinking. A lot of men have all this and cant do anything.

To get laid in 2023 a man just needs height, hair and money to take a women out.
 

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I’ve gotten to a point where I enjoy the psychological challenges. Yea I’m toying with some women, shame on me.

It’s usually ones that are conceited that I enjoy teaching lasting lessons to, specifically in my large west coat metro where women are pedestalized to a degree that used to frustrate me to no end. Nowadays something will pop into my mind with one of them I probably shouldn’t say, but then I’m like f it let’s see what happens.

When you get to ZFG mode it’s amazing what you can actually get away with like plating a chick you told to pound dirt because she was pushing too hard. All it takes is balls of steel and good ole standing on principle.

Widowmaker, has a good sound to it.
 
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