Women have Over-Abudance by default!

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As said,

It is no secret that women of today have access to a plethora of sexual options. From dating apps to social media, the internet has made it easier than ever before for women to connect with potential partners.

With this new-found freedom comes an over-abundance in terms of sexual options. Women are now able to choose from a variety of partners, explore their sexuality, and experiment with different sexual experiences.

Too long, didn't read version: When it comes to having sexual prospects, women of today are having an Over-Abundance by default. Any 5/10 (in terms of looks) woman doesn't have to do anything other than checking her phone every 5 minutes to pick one guy from an army of 100 thirsty simps to give her some free food and attention for the day.
 

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You have to take care of logistics, like choosing a venue for the date and paying for the drinks or food, and then if everything goes so well that you get to fvck her afterwards, you have be really good at sex... The entire process from approaching to fvcking, to a man, is fvcking resources consuming and not every guy gets to the final stage aka sex.

Meanwhile, during the process, what does she do? Literally NOTHING. Nothing at all.

Why? Because the broad has too many options to care.

Think about it, brothers. Think about it.
 

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Really? When did this happen?

(Notice how the chad/chadlites are now starting to complain? First it was incels such as myself and broken-record normies like "you know who", now these people too. That's how you know its really bad.)
 
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As said,

It is no secret that women of today have access to a plethora of sexual options. From dating apps to social media, the internet has made it easier than ever before for women to connect with potential partners.

With this new-found freedom comes an over-abundance in terms of sexual options. Women are now able to choose from a variety of partners, explore their sexuality, and experiment with different sexual experiences.

Too long, didn't read version: When it comes to having sexual prospects, women of today are having an Over-Abundance by default. Any 5/10 (in terms of looks) woman doesn't have to do anything other than checking her phone every 5 minutes to pick one guy from an army of 100 thirsty simps to give her some free food and attention for the day.
No big deal, stick your dihk in them and run. Don't commit. They can have 100 dudes lined up, but they all struggle to pick the right one and find one that wants to love them. At the end of the day that's what they are after(love and commitment). Use it to your advantage, just like they do their sexuality.
 

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No big deal, stick your dihk in them and run. Don't commit. They can have 100 dudes lined up, but they all struggle to pick the right one and find one that wants to love them. At the end of the day that's what they are after(love and commitment). Use it to your advantage, just like they do their sexuality.
Agree, few women are genuinely worth committing to nowadays to begin with. I used to abhor the pump and dump mentality, but it has its place. The girls who struggle juggling their options are screwy anyways and haven't a clue what is proper compatibility.
 

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Agree, few women are genuinely worth committing to nowadays to begin with. I used to abhor the pump and dump mentality, but it has its place. The girls who struggle juggling their options are screwy anyways and haven't a clue what is proper compatibility.
Any first date chic that ended being below my SMV, and gave me some sort of bullschit, I made sure to fuhk them really good then never see them again. Basically girls that had 100 dudes lined up and had an overinflated value because of that. I helped them figure out reality. Lol, I'm a dihk.
 

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Any first date chic that ended being below my SMV, and gave me some sort of bullschit, I made sure to fuhk them really good then never see them again. Basically girls that had 100 dudes lined up and had an overinflated value because of that. I helped them figure out reality. Lol, I'm a dihk.
Maybe to some, but I see nothing wrong with going after your preferred sexual strategy. It isn't like you hurt these girls, you just came (literally) for what you wanted and left, didn't promise em jack.
 

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Any first date chic that ended being below my SMV, and gave me some sort of bullschit, I made sure to fuhk them really good then never see them again. Basically girls that had 100 dudes lined up and had an overinflated value because of that. I helped them figure out reality. Lol, I'm a dihk.
During the dates, did you sell the the idea that you were looking for "something serious"?
 

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As said,

It is no secret that women of today have access to a plethora of sexual options. From dating apps to social media, the internet has made it easier than ever before for women to connect with potential partners.

With this new-found freedom comes an over-abundance in terms of sexual options. Women are now able to choose from a variety of partners, explore their sexuality, and experiment with different sexual experiences.

Too long, didn't read version: When it comes to having sexual prospects, women of today are having an Over-Abundance by default. Any 5/10 (in terms of looks) woman doesn't have to do anything other than checking her phone every 5 minutes to pick one guy from an army of 100 thirsty simps to give her some free food and attention for the day.
The TL DR version is longer than the actual version.

Commit to any hot girl between 18-27. Once she turns 30. Leave. Rinse and repeat.
 

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Maybe to some, but I see nothing wrong with going after your preferred sexual strategy. It isn't like you hurt these girls, you just came (literally) for what you wanted and left, didn't promise em jack.
I always tried to be respectful.
During the dates, did you sell the the idea that you were looking for "something serious"?
No. I finally reached a point in my dating that I had solid value and I was totally aware of my value as well as whatever random chic's value was.

I'd tell them...."look here sweetie....I've been around the block, I could write a book on how this all works. I am looking for someone that checks all the boxes, If that's you then I am down for something serious, but
I'll need to be convinced you are the real deal.

If she can't check all the boxes then you guarantee she'll have a good time with a solid dude.



You better have the experience to back up that type of language. Chics will sniff it out real quick if you don't.

They will put you in a special place and respect you if they think you really are that experienced.

Women assign value to men that understand them. A man doesn't become an expert on women until he has been with a lot.
 
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This is reality. Women are given value with zero effort required. Wonder what it’s like to hit puberty, grow some lumps on your chest, have a nice behind and the entire opposite gender losses its mind and comes after you. A completely different experience being a man. Granted if you didn’t win the genetic lottery and things don’t go as well, you can color your hair purple and start hating men. But for the most part, yeah, don’t become a land whale and you’ll have a wide selection of choices at your finger tips. The hotter the chic the more offers she gets. Most guys on their best day are invisible, it’s just how it is.
 

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You better have the experience to back up that type of language. Chics will sniff it out real quick if you don't.

They will put you in a special place and respect you if they think you really are that experienced.

Women assign value to men that understand them. A man doesn't become an expert on women until he has been with a lot.
Yes that is all a man can really do these days value himself above her and command respect

Unfortunately in todays world that will mean willingly walking away from her for poor behaviour / lack of respect

It is tough being a man but when the wins do come they are usually a lot sweeter and offer more satisfaction
 

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And those simps dry up her pvssy faster than the desert air. Most of the default men they don't want
 

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And in other news:

Water is wet, and bananas are yellow.


As said,

It is no secret that women of today have access to a plethora of sexual options. From dating apps to social media, the internet has made it easier than ever before for women to connect with potential partners.

With this new-found freedom comes an over-abundance in terms of sexual options. Women are now able to choose from a variety of partners, explore their sexuality, and experiment with different sexual experiences.

Too long, didn't read version: When it comes to having sexual prospects, women of today are having an Over-Abundance by default. Any 5/10 (in terms of looks) woman doesn't have to do anything other than checking her phone every 5 minutes to pick one guy from an army of 100 thirsty simps to give her some free food and attention for the day.

Water is wet, and bananas are yellow.
 

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Was gonna make a similar type of mogtow thread.

I am serioulsy considering going mgtow. Get a job working with friendly ppl, young girls aka hospitality sales, etc. Develop a social group from that. Keep women at a distance and keep it friendly and productive.

Too many loser guys are getting laid and tbh it aint worth it for me. Loser guys dont understand this and still wanna get laid. Its literally demeaning for me to want sex from women when I knw what I am providing them other guys cant. I honestly hate myself for valueing sex and having valued sex and love for so long in my life. It all lost value but something inside me still imagines ****ing a woman who looks sexy and I hate myself for it. I think that will go with time and sex wont be on my mind anymore. But currently even tho sex is on my mind I dont actually want to do it. The women are just not sincere enough. But mostly it is because I have such close emotional bonds with women, whcih happened outside of sex, and so outside of game-playing and narcissism and negativity from women that I would rather just interact like that. When you interact with women either at the start, or without explicit romantic connotations, they can be really nice and friendly, but that really changes when you get closer to a romantic or phyical relationship and then that friendly positive person turns into a nasty narcissistic and the amount of negativitity increases and hence her unattractiveness.

Honestly I dont even find women much attractive. I hate look at them. They are all lies and manipulation, makeup and high-heels. They are nothing and have nothing.

Fools are the other men out there and boomers who overvalue women. Simps make it tough for everyone.

Losers dont understand getting laid is not the answer, just like more drugs is not an answer to dependance. The answer only comes from the inside. Respect your fellow man and learn the beauty and joy of life outside of sex and romance.

MGTOW may be honestly the most Alpha of choices. Why? It simple, dealing with women from a distance allows you to see more of their sincerity and positivity, therefore you can appreciate positive interactions and socialisation. Getting romantically close means you ALWAYS have to watch out for manipulation and narcissism. That leaves you with a very negative view of women.

When it comes down to it, women value relationships alot. They also need Alpha males and the correct socio-political order because they are really suffering in the modern world. For their own benefit they need to work sincerely with top quality guys aka Alpha Males to fix their lives and the larger society. But they are too narcisstic and our current marriage patriarchal ie trad setup which is so deeply ingrained does make women beleive they are the prize and that men should bow down to them aka get on one-knee. But only a Beta Male would do that never an Alpha Male. Too many Beta Males and payers aka trad guys who have no clue about how to live life without marriage and kids cause an imbalance in the market. The guys paying and getting on one knee for sex, marriage, kids, companionship are now the biggest problem. The better males will exist this system and over time and losers will be left. As things get worse in the general socio-economic sphere along with only submissive men available to narcisstic women, things will change and women will become more sincere, but that may take longer than we can benefit from, but still I am sure we will see big changes in our lifetime as things seem to be movign fast due to greater connectedness and unified modern consciousness.
 

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What women dont understand and where lies the problem.

There are TWO types of guys. Those will get on one-knee and pay, and those who wont. Women dont understand that and they will try really hard to make EVERY guy pay and get on one knee. It dont work like that. Alpha and Beta is the way of the world. If the normie standard form of relationship in society is the Beta type aka paying and getting on one knee and being submissive, then what is the Alpha. In todays world no man can get to the position of Alpha in society, and therein lies the problem.

For me I can never allow myself to be seen as a payer one-knee guy, nor a 'fun' hooking guy. It is all about respect, sincerity and status. But mostly I cannot be seen in any way similar to either of those guys. So which type of guy that currently exists and which type of relationship with women can I be in? There is none. All relationships women are having with men is with men at BEta Male status. Dont let the fake Alphas aka players with high-notches fool you, they pay the biggest price for their delusion of being temporarily validated by a female but recieving no long term respect or status, just another dildo on her carousel, along with the fake compliments of sexual performance, stripping him of all dignity while in his delusion of having alpha status the woman will tell her friends how funny it way that the dildos pride and self-esteem swelled so much from her little fake compliment.
 

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What women dont understand and where lies the problem.

There are TWO types of guys. Those will get on one-knee and pay, and those who wont. Women dont understand that and they will try really hard to make EVERY guy pay and get on one knee. It dont work like that. Alpha and Beta is the way of the world. If the normie standard form of relationship in society is the Beta type aka paying and getting on one knee and being submissive, then what is the Alpha. In todays world no man can get to the position of Alpha in society, and therein lies the problem.

For me I can never allow myself to be seen as a payer one-knee guy, nor a 'fun' hooking guy. It is all about respect, sincerity and status. But mostly I cannot be seen in any way similar to either of those guys. So which type of guy that currently exists and which type of relationship with women can I be in? There is none. All relationships women are having with men is with men at BEta Male status. Dont let the fake Alphas aka players with high-notches fool you, they pay the biggest price for their delusion of being temporarily validated by a female but recieving no long term respect or status, just another dildo on her carousel, along with the fake compliments of sexual performance, stripping him of all dignity while in his delusion of having alpha status the woman will tell her friends how funny it way that the dildos pride and self-esteem swelled so much from her little fake compliment.
Yes, and some guys don't believe in msging a girl twice, or asking a girl out on a date twice, if she said no the 1st time.
 

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You have to take care of logistics, like choosing a venue for the date and paying for the drinks or food, and then if everything goes so well that you get to fvck her afterwards, you have be really good at sex... The entire process from approaching to fvcking, to a man, is fvcking resources consuming and not every guy gets to the final stage aka sex.

Meanwhile, during the process, what does she do? Literally NOTHING. Nothing at all.

Why? Because the broad has too many options to care.
This is a great point and it's something I've felt over the years participating in the mating environment.

Yes, men have to do all the things you detailed and it is exhausting. I'd like to add that it's also time consuming to even get to the point of arranging logistics for a date. To even get to that point, you're either doing a lot of swiping & texting, sending many social media DMs, or doing multiple in-person approach sessions, either in non-bar venues or in various bar/nightlife venues. Both in-person approaching methods and tech-based methods are a big effort.

There have many times when I've been on dates and been unimpressed with how little a woman contributes to a conversation after all I've done to arrange the dates from my approaches/swipes, to sometimes researching venues and planning a good day at a venue, and the things you've highlighted. Sometimes they might not even bother to show up on time, or flake before the first date, or go a first date and flake prior to a 2nd date when I'm still interested.

The worst behaviors I've seen from women occurred when I arranged the date on a dating website (pre-swipe apps) or a swipe app. This is where women have the most abundance.

Commit to any hot girl between 18-27. Once she turns 30. Leave. Rinse and repeat.
When you say 'commit', that sounds like a shorter term non-marital commitment if you're urging men to leave when she turns 30.

My local area social circle is rather blue pill in ideology. I saw men in the local area social circle make exclusive girlfriend commitments to women in the early to mid-20s, often making it a legal commitment via a marriage when the woman was 27-30.

Most guys on their best day are invisible
I have felt this. I have had my photos rated and been rated in the high 6 to low 7 range. I'm a solid prospect and have been for a long time.

There have been many times where I would go and do outdoor approach sessions and feel invisible. I've felt invisible at bars, invisible on the general gym floor, and sometimes even invisible at fitness classes where women outnumbered men.

The worst feelings of invisibility come on the swipe apps and I even felt those in the late 2000s/early 2010s at times when I used dating websites. In more modern times on swipe apps, most men rarely get right swiped on. It's typical for men to only get a mutual match some fraction of 1% of all swipes. Getting so few mutual matches would make most men feel invisible.


Invisibility is why a lot of men do things like consider buying Rolexes, luxury car brands, motorcycles, and boats to attract women.

 

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This is a great point and it's something I've felt over the years participating in the mating environment.

Yes, men have to do all the things you detailed and it is exhausting. I'd like to add that it's also time consuming to even get to the point of arranging logistics for a date. To even get to that point, you're either doing a lot of swiping & texting, sending many social media DMs, or doing multiple in-person approach sessions, either in non-bar venues or in various bar/nightlife venues. Both in-person approaching methods and tech-based methods are a big effort.

There have many times when I've been on dates and been unimpressed with how little a woman contributes to a conversation after all I've done to arrange the dates from my approaches/swipes, to sometimes researching venues and planning a good day at a venue, and the things you've highlighted. Sometimes they might not even bother to show up on time, or flake before the first date, or go a first date and flake prior to a 2nd date when I'm still interested.

The worst behaviors I've seen from women occurred when I arranged the date on a dating website (pre-swipe apps) or a swipe app. This is where women have the most abundance.



When you say 'commit', that sounds like a shorter term non-marital commitment if you're urging men to leave when she turns 30.

My local area social circle is rather blue pill in ideology. I saw men in the local area social circle make exclusive girlfriend commitments to women in the early to mid-20s, often making it a legal commitment via a marriage when the woman was 27-30.



I have felt this. I have had my photos rated and been rated in the high 6 to low 7 range. I'm a solid prospect and have been for a long time.

There have been many times where I would go and do outdoor approach sessions and feel invisible. I've felt invisible at bars, invisible on the general gym floor, and sometimes even invisible at fitness classes where women outnumbered men.

The worst feelings of invisibility come on the swipe apps and I even felt those in the late 2000s/early 2010s at times when I used dating websites. In more modern times on swipe apps, most men rarely get right swiped on. It's typical for men to only get a mutual match some fraction of 1% of all swipes. Getting so few mutual matches would make most men feel invisible.


Invisibility is why a lot of men do things like consider buying Rolexes, luxury car brands, motorcycles, and boats to attract women.

I’ve never been one to flaunt my wealth, I’m afraid of attracting parasite users who might be better at a making me a walking walker than I am detecting they are. What’s funny is most women have no clue that I have money but yet guys can tell I’m well off for some reason. My guy friends are always “you got the money! You’re just cheap! Spend some of it!”. I don’t buy over the top fancy expensive clothes, my truck is just a normal truck even though it’s new, I had an apple watch but lost it so haven’t replaced it. I buy land, I own thousands of acres. Women could care less when they find this out, men know the value of land though. I’d probably get alot more women if I flaunted my money but it would be the wrong type of women.
 

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I’ve never been one to flaunt my wealth... What’s funny is most women have no clue that I have money but yet guys can tell I’m well off for some reason..... I’d probably get alot more women if I flaunted my money but it would be the wrong type of women.
Flaunting your money would be a way to break through the competition with female abundance. You might be a bit overly concerned with attracting the wrong women.
 
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