"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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women growing out of wanting bad boys and wanting nice guys when they're more mature?

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PigAdlemPimp said:
It is possible for a dude to have a good income and be a DJ at the same time, not every dude who makes money is an AFC.
An AFC is a dude who can't live without sex and becomes so desperate to get it that he lets any hot babe walk all over him to get it.
Oh I understand all that to a T, but I wasn't implying only AFC's have money, at least if you read it the right way. I meant it to be an AFC who just happens to have money. I don't think she'd see too much in a broke AFC.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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backbreaker said:
Close... but not quite

Actually, AFC's and Bad Boys'/Jerks share alot in common. They are bot
h extremely insecure.

The difference between the sterotypical AFC and the sterotypical Jerk is how they mask it (if at all).

Both of these male problem types are that they are insecure about themselves. They are afraid of either being single (AFC's) or being hurt ( Jerks). It's only once you get rid of these fears, that you become a Good Guy, which is what a DJ should strive to be.
This one.

Know how fleas always pick the weakest animal? Bad boys are the same, that's why they get lots of sex. Part of his technique is simply finding out what girls have the lowest self esteem and going in for the kill. The chump is a low self esteem male who makes a fitting long term match for a low self esteem female. Or he can be a sitting duck for the short term golddigger, who like the bad boy, makes up the second rung from the bottom on the seduction ladder. Unlike those on the very bottom, they are getting what they want. They still cannot attract the higher up folks because they have no interests beyond bucks and f.ucks.
 

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aftershock said:
You can get women easy being an AFC. Really easy.

Problem is, they aren't QUALITY women.
when you say quality what exactly do you mean?
 

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