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Ok so what is it with some women?, sometimes (not all the time) they grab my ass or try to touch me when my back is turned, i turn around to them, and they're either walking off or completly not intrested.

I'm pretty good with game but this confuses me.At first i thought it was them trying to grab my attention or something but it's not.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Attention wh@ring. Just ignore.

Sure she might well have some attraction, but it's also a trick just to get a rise out of you.
Thanks appreciate the advice, so i figure i should'nt really acknowledge it then?.
 

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are these random women grabbing your ass in the street? are they drunk women in a bar setting? what environment are we talking about here.
 

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Maybe your butt is so hard to resist to? I grab women just for fun and to see how they would react, or because I like what I see. Other than this, it's AWing.
 

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Demonicale said:
Ok so what is it with some women?, sometimes (not all the time) they grab my ass or try to touch me when my back is turned, i turn around to them, and they're either walking off or completly not intrested.

I'm pretty good with game but this confuses me.At first i thought it was them trying to grab my attention or something but it's not.
In my experience its to get your attention but the walking off part... i dunno. As a matter a fact i was out in some bars last night and a girl did that to me but when i turned around she was walking off with her friend.
 

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PapiChulo said:
Maybe your butt is so hard to resist to? I grab women just for fun and to see how they would react, or because I like what I see. Other than this, it's AWing.
I think the same, however i dont grab the ass unless its a strip bar lol since bars and parties can be crowded sometimes, ill see a girl i like and when im walking past her, ill put my hand around her waist and look at her and if she likes it.. ill start convo.
 

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Demonicale said:
[T]hey grab my ass or try to touch me when my back is turned, i turn around to them, and they're either walking off or completly not intrested.
I have this happened to me before. It is definitely an IOI. However, most girls are omega and lack the guts to face you and admit that they grabbed you, so you have to be aggressive and open her. On the other hand, some women just want to feel like they still "got it" and get your attention. In the latter case, I call them out on their bullsh!t.

You have to develop sharp skills in terms of gauging the girl's intentions, though. When AW's touch me, I say "woah, woah, no touching...touching costs money, dude! :nono: Some of them freeze and others get really worried/apologize. Depending on her reaction, I decide to diffuse the situation by cracking a joke and engaging them in a conversation or just walk away.

Keep being money,

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Mike32ct said:
Attention wh@ring. Just ignore.

Sure she might well have some attraction, but it's also a trick just to get a rise out of you.
+1. This has happened to me 2 or 3 times, in all cases the girls turned out to be attention hores who were a waste of time. The trick, as with everything attention hores do, is to play their attention to your advantage. It is my experience that these girls, with all their (ultimately leading nowhere) touching and flirting, are the best girls for social proof. Use them to bag hotter, higher character girls- all girls appreciate a man with female sexual attention, whether it's given disingenuously or not.
 

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Im proud to say i've had my ass grabbed twice at a bar. Both times im pretty sure the girls were leaving and just liked what they saw. I tried to grab the girl back on time but she just walked away. I assume they were just drunk and feeling extra frisky.
 

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