I'm yet to meet a woman that hasn't responded well too ****y / funny and push / pull
I've met plenty of women that have been immediately turned off by a guy that is obsessed with them and will give them the earth this is what nice guys tend to be all about
"I'm a good guy women should love me"
No bro it doesn't work like that, its like saying "ah yea I go to the gym so I should have a 6 pac" when in reality theres a **** load of factors in-between that determine the final outcome
You don't need to be "toxic" to be attractive to women for most women you just need to be calm, interesting and If you want guaranteed pu$$y then be witty & mysterious.
Attraction for women plays out a lot differently than it does for men.... men can look at a chick and immediately want to have sex with her
for women the physical part is merely enough to get on their radar, from there she will observe and test to see what type of guy you are if you come across to generic she will know you have no experience with women and she has the upper hand.
There is so much inspiration in this post that I'm taking the time to answer you, because it would be very interesting and curious to know more.
I've yet to meet a woman who hasn't responded well, too ****y / funny and pushy / pull
I've met plenty of women who have been immediately turned off by a guy who is obsessed with them and will give them the earth; this is what nice guys tend to be all about.
Point 1. This is why many men who behave this way, the so-called naturals, don't get along with other men, because they do it naturally with everyone and men understand that they aren't "serious." They might be successful with women, though.
For women, the physical part is merely enough to get on their radar. From there, she will observe and test to see what kind of guy you are. If you come across as generic, she will know you have no experience with women and she has the upper hand.
Point 2. Absolutely true and tried, but once you get past her "external attractiveness," it doesn't mean you'll get past her personality, or that you as a man should try to do so. Every woman is attracted to something different, and maybe it's the way you laugh, or your voice, or the way you move your mouth.
These are unconscious things that we can't explain and that change over time.
That said, the thing about the radar (phase 1) and the test (phase 2) is all true.
Going back to point 1, I'm a calm, quiet, sociable man, curious about other people.
At the same time, people don't disrespect me, but when men project or push and pull with me, I immediately know who I'm dealing with.
As I said, there are men who constantly test your limits, and you can tell for yourself that they're the ones women like.
Just because they're built that way, and therefore "successful" with women, doesn't mean you have to behave that way.
Push and pull creates instability; it's ideal for seduction.
It should be used very delicately in a long-term relationship, rarely, and only if you know what you're doing.
It should be used aggressively with women on dates or at the beginning of a crush.
It shouldn't be used with people in general.
That's why the "low-inhibition men" you see around, who take the trouble to test and overcome social norms and other people's boundaries, are simply rude and not "womanizers."
The gist of the matter is that many of these men who behave this way are because they have low self-esteem, and
therefore act like idiots to compensate.
The real question is: when do women notice this?
@BaronOfHair The article explain it very well!
