"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women/girls use sex toys..why shouldn't we whack off?

Bumsniff

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So I hear spanking the monkey/petting the dolphin is prohibited by DJ's..

Most women or girls these days have and are using sex toys to get their coochie off whether YOU like it or not.

If they are satisfying themselves which makes them LESS horny for a man..why shouldn't WE be able to make the bald man cry?? Equal opportunity? :yes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you make a good point

women masturbate and they have their own damn section on every porn site on the internet. men masturbate and they are seen as outcast losers


there is nothing wrong with stroking it from time to time, but just that. time to time.
 

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f283000 said:
Check out the link in my signature.

A woman gains power masturbating while we lose it. Metaphysically speaking/ancient sex knowledge when we ejaculate we lose our life force.

Perhaps a few Duracell's do help women gain power.

Life force? Mine hasn't been drained yet even though the ceiling above my bed looks like a stalactite cave placed inside of a marshmallow factory.
 

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Bumsniff said:
Life force? Mine hasn't been drained yet even though the ceiling above my bed looks like a stalactite cave placed inside of a marshmallow factory.
One of the funniest things I've heard all day. :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think it's a problem for both sexes.

Too many guys whack offf to porn and then have trouble getting it up or keeping it up with a real girl. They are training their body to respond to erotic images on a computer screen instead of a real girl.

Too many females use toys, but have problems climaxing with their partner. She's training her body to respond to some vibrating pocket r o cket rather than a real cawk.
 

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girls enjoy watching a guy wack off, they may not admit it (although a couple girls have said so to me) i would say most like it same way a guy enjoys watching a girl play with herself.
 

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ScottMustaine said:
Not to mention when I am horny I try harder, once the porn is over and I finish spanking the monkey, I lose ALL SEXUAL INTEREST. I become asexual being for another 5 hours. Now if you jack off before a date because you think you'll be more relaxed, it's more of a 1 way ticket to friend zone.
Yes. I've noticed this for a long time. I never brought it up because it seemed superstitious. Whenever I mb before a date, I never see the chick again. For a while, I was superstitious about it and thought it "jinxed" me.

The reality is that it drains your sex drive and sexual energy. Unconsciously, she senses that you are an asexual guy, ie you have no sexuality to make her gina tingle. She then calls her girlfriend after the date, "Mike was handsome, bit there just wasn't any chemistry. I don't think I'm going to see him again."

Of course every guy is different, so your mileage may vary.
 

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Meh... Who cares what is or isn't "prohibited". This isn't a bond, or elite group with specific rules. We're not in a priesthood, here. You don't have to do everything by the book. I jerk off just fine, and have no problems with dating and sex. :rockon:
 

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The last girl I came close to dating admitted that she pleasures herself almost every night, and often uses porn to do so. Not something I realized girls were into!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Women don't have to perform, for one thing.

If men lose a significant amount of minerals through ejaculating, I don't believe that bit about the vagina replacing them. Sounds like a wive's tale to me.
 

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Believe me you want to stay away from Porn and Masturbation.

It makes sex with real women awful, I got to the point where I often didn't ***. Ruined sex.

I had to go on a 60 days masturbation and porn abstinence.
 

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Masturbation is better, IMO. 99.99% STD free, don't have to deal with women's bvllsh!t, tones down your horniness etc.

After a while, you get tired of dealing with women's craziness.
 

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You have a drive you just don't have when you're beating your meat. I don't think you should abstain from it, but no more than once a week.

The problem is that guys start beating everyday, and to porn. Which often throws off your sexual chemistry with women. You start craving the dopamine fix you get from bussing. And the more you do it, the more times you'll have to spank to get that same amount of dopamine.

Once you stop doing it as often, you go back to getting your dopamine from achieving goals like your supposed to. And then when you finally do crack a big one, and, fūck a bítch, the dopamine you get from that is crazy, making sex and women as a whole more pleasurable.
 
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