Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
you even said it yourself.when I was in the field, putting in a physical effort a normal human being will never experience, for months at a time while eating 1 or two meals I day I could easily maintain or even gain where other would drop 20 or 30 lbs.
Why wouldn't you give props to a girl with "good" genetics? Seems like genes are the most valuable thing especially if they're not lazy and sloppy in other areas.Of course, I don't give props to the skinny girls who eat like crap, don't workout, and still stay thin and hot. Everybody should be in the gym atleast 4days a week.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I always maintain that you can't take care of anyone else if you don't take care of #1 first...Drum&Bass said:Women often wear their exhaustion as a badge of honor. The more you do for your loved ones, the more acceptable it becomes to "let yourself go." Women believe it's okay to become a "sacrificial lamb" within their own families
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
...but they don't get that their blood sugar is on a rollercoaster ride because of their lack of discipline and those bloodsugar spikes actually just pack on the pounds.fuzzx said:I'm too busy to exercise
I can't afford to eat good food
I'm not THAT fat as compared to so and so.
My body hurts when I don't eat
I faint when I don't eat
My blood sugar is really low and I need to eat
I took Acutane and it made me fat
I took Acutane and it really hurt my feet so I cant walk
I have a thyroid problem
I like to enjoy my life
I know what my body needs and you don't
Girls need to eat more than boys
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How to spot a rich guy.maranathaman said:I think women are more superficial than men.
I have seen many skinny men walking with fat women.
But have seen very few slim women with fat men.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.