"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women Follow You Around

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OK, so I've had several recent experiences with this.

I was headed to the cafe to get a little work done.

A very hot blonde is on her way out. Too bad shes leaving I thought.

Get inside, order my drink settle in to work.

A few minutes later, to my surprise, the same hot blonde has re-entered the cafe. She only stays about 10 minutes or so.

I have had multiple instances in the past few weeks of women following me around.

I tend to suspect this was yet another example.

Any one else experience this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yewki

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1) I see no indication in your post she came back because of you

2) How does a girl follow you, when you're not moving?

3) You were disappointed that she was leaving as you came in, yet when she came back you still did nothing?
 

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Maybe...she went out to her car for money? She wasn't following you bro.
 

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There could have been a million reasons why she came back,, or yes maybe because of you,, but the fact is that you didn't even approach her to find out about it,, so it doesn't make sense to rationalize,, learn from it and be a man and find out next time.
 

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You're reaching.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Had girls follow me in college. Or let me put it better and not so pretentious. They seen me and probably liked me and POSITIONED themselves where I would be or around me to get me to notice them. I was in my best shape so my EGO was big. Only time I can really recall being followed was around that time. Went to the mall and had these two girls behind me following me. Didn't notice at first till I heard them giggling and saying how cute I was. Never experienced that before. They followed me till the end of the mall where I paid my cell phone bill, before I entered that cellphone place in the mall, they said ok that's enough let's turn around
 

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I've not only had many chicks follow me, but almost all of them were hot.

They are usually very obvious about it. Sometimes, they will follow me and then approach me explicitly, chatting me up.

This latest girl surprised me, maybe because there aren't very many hot girls in the city I currently live in.
 

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Okay it CAN happen, but is very unlikely if I'm not peacocking extremely (or am otherwise socially validated).
 

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It doesn't happen enough for me to have a "gameplan" for it.

What's interesting about this latest gal is that this is the second time in a few weeks, which is a bit unusual.
 

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new_hotness said:
What's interesting about this latest gal is that this is the second time in a few weeks, which is a bit unusual.
I like how you completely ignore the points made that she actually displayed no signs of interest, and you just carry on assuming she was following you or whatever
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I can't lie that I position myself to get in a womens peripheral lol. I use to do it a lot to the point I would think to myself...."hey this feels unnatural and she probably knows what I am doing" hahahaha
 

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Maybe she is a trans and you have a nice ass lol /s.

Girls will make themselves accessible by making themselves in your peripheral vision. Laugh out loud to make you notice them. Drop sh!t in front of you when you are near them or pass them
by ....sh!t like that but who knows maybe you look that good lol
 

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Maybe she is a trans and you have a nice ass lol /s.

Girls will make themselves accessible by making themselves in your peripheral vision. Laugh out loud to make you notice them. Drop sh!t in front of you when you are near them or pass them
by ....sh!t like that but who knows maybe you look that good lol
 
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