Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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you know how a woman does that thing when they use one arm and whips at their hair and make it look neatly beautiful / sexy :)

well lately, while working at a super-market. i'd often get looks from woman, most of the times within a short distance, made eye contract, they'd flip their hair and looked away.

i mean maybe they were doing it randomly, but could it be trying to get my attention?

i also noticed when i walk by some hottie, made eye contract, keep walking (not looking anymore) and on my corner of eyes, i'd see them turned head around and looked at me

what does it all mean?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It means they aren't repulsed by you. Go for it!
 
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tom121 said:
you know how a woman does that thing when they use one arm and whips at their hair and make it look neatly beautiful / sexy :)

well lately, while working at a super-market. i'd often get looks from woman, most of the times within a short distance, made eye contract, they'd flip their hair and looked away.

i mean maybe they were doing it randomly, but could it be trying to get my attention?

i also noticed when i walk by some hottie, made eye contract, keep walking (not looking anymore) and on my corner of eyes, i'd see them turned head around and looked at me

what does it all mean?
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Extended eye contact + hair flipping is usually a good sign since the hair flipping is a preening motion, and a subconscious sign of attraction.
 
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BlahUgh said:
Extended eye contact + hair flipping is usually a good sign since the hair flipping is a preening motion, and a subconscious sign of attraction.
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Make sure her feet are 23 degrees apart and her shoulders are facing your in parallel!!!
 
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if that is really it, i have missed 10+ chances...

although most of the women i've seen are older than me (i'm 20)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is the point of this topic? Sounds like waiting for the perfect signal. Thing is your rarely going to get it from people you know let alone strangers. You gotta WANT this for you needs, not for your ego. I believe Freud said there are three parts to your ego: id, ego & super ego. Id is the immediate gratification, super ego is the super conservatibe law abiding citizen and ego is a median between the two. Sounds like parts of your ego doesn't want to be bruised so you bothered not to do anything at all. We are all guilty of the same brother. For example if I masturbate everyday, I'll just sit at home and watch the playoffs everynight.

It's not relevant whether some chick flips her hair. Go over there and communicate something. Most people have low self esteem, girls love it if some guy made them feel good for the day.
 
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but why do they look away?

last time at club i was having so much fun and smiling all night
some girls were smiling/waving at me but i was too high to walk over lol
 
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They look away coz they dont want to behave like a stalk .
if if they like you the moment they saw you , they will make few seconds of eye contact and look away, they way they look away conveys a message

LOOK in : it means they look down, a submissive behavoiur

LOOK away:not intrested after making eye contact.

if a girl makes eye contact it means you should walk up to them and talk to them- they will be checking you out


is this is help full
 
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If girls like you and desire to be with you they often play with their hair, sometimes they will raise their eyebrows at you if they want to be with you as well, if these two things happen then you should just go for it because they definately like you.
I will tell you something else that should be of great value to you, if a pretty girl or lady has a steady boyfriend or a husband who she loves and doesn't want to cheat on if she has a crush on you she will always look at you when she thinks that you can't see or notice it and as soon as you look at her she will always immediately look away from you, but then when she thinks it is safe for her to look at you again she will continue to repeat this and will always look away again as soon as she notices that you are looking at her, if this happens and you want to have sex with her you just about always can, but it can often take a long time before you are able to get her, the way to get her is to wait for the right opening or opportunity, when you get it start by stroking her upper arms, then kiss her, and quickly lead her away to the place of which you want to have sex with her, but be very quick about it or she may get cold feet and run away from you, the next time that you see her she will be extremely nervous, she will try to ignore you and will probably leave the place where you are, she will have hated what she did and you will never be able to develop any kind of friendship with her after this, so I guess you have to take this as well as her only feelings into account, but it is a good thing to know about if you really do want to have sex with her, :yes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hair flipping dosnt mean anything. a physcologist said so and he quoted" hair flipping dosnt mean they fancy you they could just be unconfortable that you caught them looking". guys give up and go outside and sarge and stop wasting time on posts like this.
 
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skeeloo said:
hair flipping dosnt mean anything. a physcologist said so and he quoted" hair flipping dosnt mean they fancy you they could just be unconfortable that you caught them looking". guys give up and go outside and sarge and stop wasting time on posts like this.
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ummm did you actually went to see a physcologist and ask that?
 
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skeeloo said:
hair flipping dosnt mean anything. a physcologist said so and he quoted" hair flipping dosnt mean they fancy you they could just be unconfortable that you caught them looking". guys give up and go outside and sarge and stop wasting time on posts like this.
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I never knew retards were allowed to use the computer.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So last friday there was this reeeeaaallly hot gurl (and I mean hot, let's say HB 12.5) in the subway - she didn't even notice me cause she smooched with what seemed to be her boyfriend - BUT: the small hand of her watch clearly pointed towards me!!!
Now I'm puzzled... did this mean she wanted to marry me and I just missed the opportunity of my life??? :confused:
 
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