Women Faking Orgasms

[Andromax]

I guess the "majority" of women regularly fake orgasm. Though my girlfriends always told me that they never did, and never would. Atleast a couple of them are lying, according to statistics.


I'm really comfortable and confident with my bedroom skills, but you just have to wonder...

Do you think your woman / Ex's / etc have regularly faked orgasm?

**** I dont know. I would like to think that they were sincere, but statistics don't lie. Women seem to be more honest on surveys than with their men....


How much would it matter to you that you girlfriend faked orgasms regulary?

To me it would matter. Thats a form of lying. I mean if I suck that much in bed, be honest with me so I can improve!

Have any of you caught your woman faking an orgasm, or had a strong suspision because of a crummy acting job?

I personally haven't. If they were faking, they did a damn good job convincing me it was real.


I want some other opinions on this, cause I was thinking about it today, and what sort of things it shows about the woman. It seems like a lack of integrity to me.

60% of women "regularly" fake...

Whats the #$@!$#@ point? If any females read this, could you explain your reasoning to me?

 

[00Kevin]

don't worry about this. Women do that stuff to get you to focus on pleasing them. AFCs worry about this kind of crap.

Does it really mater if she fakes it anyway?

The fact is you can't please a woman all the time. Sometimes they just don't get off. That isn't your fault so don't worry about it. Women like to blame men for this but it is really only their problem.

Men get off every time so what do you care if she fakes it?


I once went up to a girl at a party and asked if she would like to fake an orgasim with me. I told her I liked it when girls faked it. she thought it was funny and needless to say I had her that night. I get off every time so what do I care if she fakes it.

It isn't a blow to your man hood if the girl fakes it.

 

[frivolousz21]

the only thing that blows when she fakes it..is you! who cares if she fakes!

im going to assume 99.999 percent of men want a wife....therefore a girl faking when u bust a nut is meaningless int the big scheme!

 

[Andromax]

I once went up to a girl at a party and asked if she would like to fake an orgasim with me. I told her I liked it when girls faked it. she thought it was funny and needless to say I had her that night. I get off every time so what do I care if she fakes it

That is freakin gold! lol...

AFCs worry about this kind of crap.

Not so much worried, as I am curious..

Does it really mater if she fakes it anyway?

Thats open to debate. Personally, it would matter to me. Especially if she had been telling me that I was the best lover she'd ever had.

Not really bothering my ego, as the fact that it reflects dishonesty.

The fact is you can't please a woman all the time. Sometimes they just don't get off. That isn't your fault so don't worry about it.

True and true, but a women that chooses to fake an orgasm, rather than have the guy stop, is doing NOTHING to improve the sexual relationship. If she were to vocalize her uncomfort, displeasure, or whatever the guy is doing wrong. Stop. Then progress could be made to improve the couple's sex life. But she is saying "**** it. It doesnt matter to me. One of lifes most potentially enjoyable activities isnt worth the effort to work on with this person."

Maybe thats so, maybe she doesnt dig the guy. But in either case, do you disagree that NOTHING is wrong with faking the orgasm? You're entitled to your own opinion of course.

Men get off every time so what do you care if she fakes it?

Call me AFC but I like to have a mutually enjoyable sexual experience. Busting a nut is less than half the fun for me.

I guess my point is, why lie?

 

[Andromax]

im going to assume 99.999 percent of men want a wife....therefore a girl faking when u bust a nut is meaningless int the big scheme!

True enough, though my point was mainly aimed at LTRs.

 

[DJDamage]

I guess my point is, why lie?

Because its harder for a woman to reach orgasm all the time and therefore they do not want to hurt your ego. I don't think you would be too pleased that you are not satisfing her if she voiced her displeasure, its not your fault. It is important when you are with LTR, but when you are just dating, as long as she comes back for more and enthusastic about it, what do you care if she gets off or not?! as long as you do that is important. Besides You should apperciate their theatrical acting because they are doing it for you, it would be pretty sad if she told you that she want to read a book while you were doing your thing or avoid sex all together. That's when you know you have a problem.

 

[diablo]

Anything Else...

 

[rgeere]

Crap you guys are analytical ... Who the hell cares if a girl you are regularly screwing fakes every single time, she's letting you stick it in her, so quit wondering ...

 

[TurboOverCubicInches]

i havent had that problem....its easy to tell if they are or aren't. If they're contracting, grabbin sheets, wet and moanin, congrats, more than likely youve got her to orgasm. Its not as hard as the media would have u believe.

 

[The Darkness Uprise]

Keep her from faking...After she "orgasms," keep going! Even better if she's really mutliple capable.

 

[Island]

Whoa "let" you put it in there. Loaded.

Well anyway, for the other side of the story

1. Sometimes knowing could create more problems, such as performance anxiety, or causing the guy to become outcome focused rather than experience focused. So, some chicks don't feel safe telling this to a guy.

2. Yes, chicks are horny, but chicks use sex to get other things as well. Such as a "connection" or to hold on to you. So that's why they may lie to you.


Now, as to whether her orgasms are important, wasn't it an american pimp that said "Any fool can control a woman's body. A true mack controls her mind."?

You can bet your ass that the hot super models have no problems getting orgasms from the guys they want.

 

[Ice Cold]

1) Not all women are even capable of orgazming. Just like not all women ejaculate. They don't need to evolutionary, so there's a percentage who don't even enjoy it on the physical level...

Smart ones fake, scream and scratch your back so that you'll look like a tiger when you go out with your buddies.

 

[AverageFC]

AFCs worry about this kind of crap.

WTF? I think everyone should be concerned about their sexual performance.

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by AverageFC
WTF? I think everyone should be concerned about their sexual performance.

I'd rather be worried about what kind of women I'm having sex with... someone who would fake orgasms.

Or, looking at it from another point of view, DJDamage is on it yet again. DJD, your advice is amazing.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Plus, you can tell if a woman has a real orgasm anyway... well, not always, but you can tell.

 

[a4k822]

60% of women "regularly" fake...


dont forget Andro.....surveys arent 100% accurate....people lie.....

surveys are good at getting 'perception,' if you understand that's all it is

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

We don't fake orgasms so why should women?

It makes no sense.

They aren't doing you any favors, by doing so...


I'd be pretty ticked off if I found out she was faking it. There have been a few times where i questioned it, though.

The only difference is that women for the most part are quite content not getting off, all the time....men, on the other hand, pretty much have to.

The only reason I can think of is that they don't want to hurt our egos...we are supposed to be the "MEN".


The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[naoi deag se deag]

I faked an orgasm once. During a BJ.

She wasn't pleased.

 

[splinterkb]

Just listen to her breathing.

 

[familyguyfan]

Originally posted by DJDamage
Because its harder for a woman to reach orgasm all the time and therefore they do not want to hurt your ego. I don't think you would be too pleased that you are not satisfing her if she voiced her displeasure, its not your fault. It is important when you are with LTR, but when you are just dating, as long as she comes back for more and enthusastic about it, what do you care if she gets off or not?! as long as you do that is important. Besides You should apperciate their theatrical acting because they are doing it for you, it would be pretty sad if she told you that she want to read a book while you were doing your thing or avoid sex all together. That's when you know you have a problem.

Bingo.

Andromax, you don't seem to get that it's not your fault. It has very little to do with how good you are in bed. The fact is that most women are unable to orgasm from intercourse. Most will only be able to get one through oral, and some won't ever get one. Also, most women that are able to orgasm won't be able to until their older (20s).

So don't worry about it. You should see it as a good thing, since she obviously wants to please you. I can see why you wouldn't like a girl doing it, and I probably wouldn't either, but it's nothing to get mad over. If you really have a problem with it, after you orgasm then switch to giving her oral. Then you should experience some real ones.