Women dont want to meet men in bars?

[yellowstoneman2012]

I cant tell you how many times I have met a woman at a bar who seemed interested at the time and this even includes women I have danced with/made out with.

ill get there number and even Man up and call them instead of texting them, only to have,most of them flake out on,me before first date,is even set up

I dont think its anything I am doing wrong either. (e.g. Being too nice, desperate etc.)

This common?

 

[Burroughs]

don't take it personally

remember any girl above an hb6...ie any girl you might possibly find fvckable....likely has 15-20 close to medium close orbiter dudes contacting her throughout the day

...through text, facecrack etc...she can maintain these orbiters to stoke her attention hore crack fix.

..if you meet a girl at a bar you effectively become number 21 on her list...so unless you are tom brady you don't get moved up on the list

...cause even the hb6s all think they are going to land a guy like tom brady one day bwahahahaha..meanwhile she will keeo giving haandjobs and bloojobs to her most handsome orbiters to keep them around just in case she is single at 32 and needs an emergency wedding from a third level dude because all her friends are getting married...see how this works.

.....just be content with the makeout cause thats all you are likely to get from that situation.....

 

[yellowstoneman2012]

don't take it personally

remember any girl above an hb6...ie any girl you might possibly find fvckable....likely has 15-20 close to medium close orbiter dudes contacting her throughout the day

...through text, facecrack etc...she can maintain these orbiters to stoke her attention hore crack fix.

..if you meet a girl at a bar you effectively become number 21 on her list...so unless you are tom brady you don't get moved up on the list

...cause even the hb6s all think they are going to land a guy like tom brady one day bwahahahaha..meanwhile she will keeo giving haandjobs and bloojobs to her most handsome orbiters to keep them around just in case she is single at 32 and needs an emergency wedding from a third level dude because all her friends are getting married...see how this works.




.....just be content with the makeout cause thats all you are likely to get from that situation.....

Lol....you are right. Thanks for your reply. It amazes me the amount of male,attention even average looking girls get. My two female roomates are hb6 and they
They dont seem to have a problem meeting guys.

Btw, this girl was atleast an hb8 the other night.

Funny about the tom brady reference.

I always say to myself, "who are these girls waiting for matthew mcconaughey?

 

[AW1983]

Also, to add to Burroughs post, we go out to bars/clubs seeking sex. They go out seeking validation. The same **** you mentioned above has happened to me too. I think a lot of these girls have bf's/orbiters but at the time and place, you were the hottest guy there and thus most suited to stoke her perpetually precarious sense of self worth. Once the situational fix is fulfilled, they go back to the familiar comfort of their bf's/orbiters.

Edit: one thing that can be hard at times is - don't ever take it personally. There's just way too many variables outside your control. Plus another HB is always right around the corner.

 

[disgustipated]

The girl that brought me here did to.me.and others exactly like Burroughs described. I have no problem with it. It's the female equivalent of spinning plates except their end goal may be a tad different than ours. My oneitis, picked a guy ....an engineer, wealthy, short, puffy, good provider. Had two babies and got married, bought a house. Look wise she could have done much better, but I'm positive she weighed out each orbiter she was ****ing or not ****ing as to what was the best overall fit to meet her end goal. The guys she was not ****ing she was blowing or giving handjobs to just to be sure she wasn't passing up on a guy that was hung. I mean these girls have their cake and eat it too....hmmm, do I settle down with the nerd engineer that ****s me ok but can finance my dreams or let's see, how bout this factory worker with a good sized **** that I love...does he have potential? Decisions decisions teehee!! I'm convinced this is the thought process. You either compete on her terms, flip it around with solid game, or don't compete. I'm dying to know in my case if she stays with the guy or divorces him.

 

[nismo-4]

Women have lots of power in the game.

Bars and the way Burroughs described it, painfully accurate. Women love getting their attention fixes. Thanks to social media, the media itself, and smartphones, and desperate men, you have a formula for a bunch of entitled women.

 

[zekko]

I'm dying to know in my case if she stays with the guy or divorces him.

My current inclination is that no matter who gets married, chances are it isn't going to last. She could have married the nerd engineer or the guy with the big schlong, either way I bet she gets divorced at some point. That's why I think marriage and unfortunately even having children is a bad deal for men in the current culture.

Thanks to social media, the media itself, and smartphones, and desperate men, you have a formula for a bunch of entitled women.

People blame the social media, but it's like a gun. You have to have the guy behind it willing to pull the trigger. There has to be guys willing to provide these women attention and hit on them, and as has been said, if the girl is decent looking there isn't going to be a shortage. And don't think all these guys are betas either, because they're not.

As for bars, to look at the flipside, I don't really want to meet women in bars. I guess trolling for sex in bars is okay, but as a friend of mine always says: You don't find a rose in an ashtray.

 

[Burroughs]

People blame the social media, but it's like a gun. You have to have the guy behind it willing to pull the trigger. There has to be guys willing to provide these women attention and hit on them, and as has been said, if the girl is decent looking there isn't going to be a shortage. And don't think all these guys are betas either, because they're not.

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facebook is very much beyond the norm however..it is the proverbial tipping point a la gladwell

facebook is like pure peruvian coke to a crackhead junkie....it provides women with constant interveinous access to the one thing they crave beyond all things....attention take a woman's phone away its a lock she goes into shaking spastic withdrawl.

facebook takes away all true leverage from men in a real sense...not a perceived sense sadly...to most morons perception is everything they have no concept of the real....and semiotics is not taught in schools so they never will :crackup: :crackup:

the impact will be felt for years to come...in fact the world after facebook and whatever social app comes next is a vastly changed place....this combined with the dominant paradigm of feminism and vag centric courts and government as well as the constant stream of pornographic data keeping men in a reptilian hindbrain stage...the day of the utterly enslaved man is soon at hand....if is not here already

 

[HalfAddict]

This is why you need to collect tons of numbers and call them all.

One is bound to not flake lol

 

[timmylivingalie]

Women have lots of power in the game.

Bars and the way Burroughs described it, painfully accurate. Women love getting their attention fixes. Thanks to social media, the media itself, and smartphones, and desperate men, you have a formula for a bunch of entitled women.

Very true