DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
good tip. Even though it goes against the some dj rules like "women want sex more than guys!" but sometimes you have to think for yourself....
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Women don't want sex
- Thread starter Royal Elite
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I'm not saying not to ever tell her she looks hot. what i am saying is that i'd rather grab her and giver her the loving that she never had before
. Don't just come out and say that you love her. Do something that will make her feel special. If she comes by when you have friends over, move all the attention onto her (stop you discussion pull her on you knees and kiss her).....
telling her haw special she is with out actually SHOWING her gets dull....
. Don't just come out and say that you love her. Do something that will make her feel special. If she comes by when you have friends over, move all the attention onto her (stop you discussion pull her on you knees and kiss her)..... telling her haw special she is with out actually SHOWING her gets dull....
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
women do not want sex more than men.
its not even remotely close.
you think of sex how many times per day?
constantly?
she doesnt.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
I created a poll about this a while back. It was a controversial topic many Dj's said they want it more, and some said men want it more. But the reasons u gave above left me unconvinced that they actually want it more.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
physically...its not possible.
emotionally they want it much much more than us.
but they also want it emotionally with one guy the one they love.
now...a lot of hors sleep around for attention/emotional fix...they believe sex makes them feel loved or in love.
other hors are just horny freaks.
the reason so many guys here think women want it more is because they are nerds who have this perception sosuave gives them that isnt true about women.
im not saying women arent horny...they are, and you need to let them know that u are a sexual being and into them in that way. when ur sarging.
but as a whole..women do NOT come close to how bad men PHYSICALLY need sex to live.
how many days can you go without beating off if ur not getting laid?
i have sex 6 to 10 times a week and still do that everyday.
i know women dont crave it like me
emotionally they want it much much more than us.
but they also want it emotionally with one guy the one they love.
now...a lot of hors sleep around for attention/emotional fix...they believe sex makes them feel loved or in love.
other hors are just horny freaks.
the reason so many guys here think women want it more is because they are nerds who have this perception sosuave gives them that isnt true about women.
im not saying women arent horny...they are, and you need to let them know that u are a sexual being and into them in that way. when ur sarging.
but as a whole..women do NOT come close to how bad men PHYSICALLY need sex to live.
how many days can you go without beating off if ur not getting laid?
i have sex 6 to 10 times a week and still do that everyday.
i know women dont crave it like me
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
case-closedI can see this. It's like women want sex but there are certain conditions that must be met (emotionally) first. I think the only condition for a man to have sex is that his partner is attractive enough to get off with, which honestly isn't all that strict when it comes down to it.
Yes, they want it. And yes, they want it more.
But for different reasons than us.
They want it for the emotional connection that they crave. They want it to feel good about themselves, and so forth.
Saying women want sex more than us, it is easy to just picture sex-crazed man multiplied by 10. But that's not the case. To them, it's a tool to be used in order to satisfy her emotional needs.
(of course, there are physical needs too. everyone has those).
Just thought i'd throw in my $0.02
But for different reasons than us.
They want it for the emotional connection that they crave. They want it to feel good about themselves, and so forth.
Saying women want sex more than us, it is easy to just picture sex-crazed man multiplied by 10. But that's not the case. To them, it's a tool to be used in order to satisfy her emotional needs.
(of course, there are physical needs too. everyone has those).
Just thought i'd throw in my $0.02
These are words of a guy whos experianced with women. Your original post on the other hand...sounds like a post of an inexperianced guy. lol I dont get it, how can you understand so perfectly how women want men to make them feel but then completly be unaware of their sexual appatite??
penkitten
Master Don Juan
let me tell you from a womans point of veiw
i love sex , really i do
i buy sexy lingere and the works
and i love sex with my fiance more than anything in the world
however i could never compare my sexual appetite with his.
im just not driven by the same force
i love sex , really i do
i buy sexy lingere and the works
and i love sex with my fiance more than anything in the world
however i could never compare my sexual appetite with his.
im just not driven by the same force
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dr Box
Don Juan
HAHAHAHA women don't want sex HAHAHAHA
I think that tip is very misguided, but if you guys want to believe it go for it, but maybe you should find a good female friend (not someone you have slept with) and have a convo about sex you would be amazed. HAHAHA classic
Oh just so we are clear I don't quite agree with that statement
I think that tip is very misguided, but if you guys want to believe it go for it, but maybe you should find a good female friend (not someone you have slept with) and have a convo about sex you would be amazed. HAHAHA classic
Oh just so we are clear I don't quite agree with that statement
i disagree, i would hhave agreed amonth ago, but after being with this girl
she alway's horny and wet and up for the touching
omg, she is so much hornier than me, though it was probably due to the fact she hasn't gotten any in a year (HB8 btw), and that it was just after her period
well, good news for me i guess
point is, some women are, some women arn't
she alway's horny and wet and up for the touching
omg, she is so much hornier than me, though it was probably due to the fact she hasn't gotten any in a year (HB8 btw), and that it was just after her period
well, good news for me i guess
point is, some women are, some women arn't
If it was all this simple a lot of guys wouldn't be having the trouble that they are. Your advice is OK in maybe a relationship, but for in the early stages of PU you're basically advising to be AFC. I know for a fact that if you compliment most girls in the beginning it validates them and then they screen you out as having no value.
I think you credit women with more virtue than most of them actually have. I just disagree that if you boost a person ego they're going to love you for life. Usually girls will use you and move on.
There's a reason why a lot of guys are indirect and use challenge. That way it's not obvious to the girl "we're chasing sex" as you mentioned and we're also not validating them too much too early on.
MindOverMatter
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friv can read minds now. what's this opinion based on? your open conversations with your gf? just because she doesn't think about sex that often, ALL women don't? that's ridiculous. personally, i've had girls text message me out of the blue during work or class, at weirdest times to tell me they're horny and want to have sex as soon as they get out. if a woman is fully attracted to you (i.e. she sees you as a 10 [face + body]), and the sex is great, they will think about it very often.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This is probably true, but not terribly helpful. How many of us are, or will ever be, Perfect 10s? If it just comes down to looks, then most of us here are doomed.
Hence seduction, appealing to women on more than just a physical level. Women aren't always "on", this is true, they require a great deal of warmup. It's probably neglecting this warmup that makes women unresponsive to a man's advances; she's just not into him enough.
If a man is in a relationship, he actually has an advantage. He can stimulate his woman's sex drive over a much longer timeframe than a guy looking for ONS can. If you're living with her, it's even better. Make an impression on her in the morning and she'll think about you all day and be starving for attention and sex by night.
Royal Elite, I will now look forward to reading your posts.
Now.... since when do we have a way to measure sexual need? I´ve never heard of such a thing like a ... sextron. How can one possibly know if a woman or a man wants sex more? By now we should have learned us men and women are different. Does she want sex more.. or sex at all? Its none of our buissines.
What is it that´s in our nature? To be men, to go in for the approach, to enjoy to see them fall to our feet. I mean... do you really approach a woman to make her feel good?... or to make yourself feel good? Do you care if she feels good when she gives you her phone? No. Why should you care if she wants sex, etc, etc? Let´s mind our own buissiness.
Btw, Sexy_Malibu is a ****ing *****.
Now.... since when do we have a way to measure sexual need? I´ve never heard of such a thing like a ... sextron. How can one possibly know if a woman or a man wants sex more? By now we should have learned us men and women are different. Does she want sex more.. or sex at all? Its none of our buissines.
What is it that´s in our nature? To be men, to go in for the approach, to enjoy to see them fall to our feet. I mean... do you really approach a woman to make her feel good?... or to make yourself feel good? Do you care if she feels good when she gives you her phone? No. Why should you care if she wants sex, etc, etc? Let´s mind our own buissiness.
Btw, Sexy_Malibu is a ****ing *****.
We care about a woman's feelings and whether or not she's enjoying herself because we're not getting laid any other way. A man used to be able to sleep with his woman even if she didn't want him to, but those days are long gone.
It´s also in our nature as men to enjoy making them feel good.
My point is to don´t go looking for something on a 20 mile radius when the answer is in the tip of your nose. Don´t complicate things. Make her feel good when you are with her. Don´t worry about the rest of her day... on wether she thinks about sex, or whatever. It´s none of our buissiness.
My point is to don´t go looking for something on a 20 mile radius when the answer is in the tip of your nose. Don´t complicate things. Make her feel good when you are with her. Don´t worry about the rest of her day... on wether she thinks about sex, or whatever. It´s none of our buissiness.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
guys Im not saying women dont want sex.
they just dont want it like you do.
i think of it every 2 min.
they dont.
considering just about none of us here are 10's....or even close I dont see how that applies....
if we stimulate her emotionally..she will want to fyck one of us...like she would look at fycking brad pitt.
they just dont want it like you do.
i think of it every 2 min.
they dont.
did you lose your humilty after you lost your weight?
considering just about none of us here are 10's....or even close I dont see how that applies....
if we stimulate her emotionally..she will want to fyck one of us...like she would look at fycking brad pitt.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.