"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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women don't need you, sexually

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and until there's a kid, she doesnt need you financially, either. Few women and none of any value, just "want" somebody, sexually. they get involved emotionally, or they are trash. Why risk a disease by bedding a trashy woman? What do you get out of scoring a trashbag? You can easily go decades without finding one who's waf, guys. Especially if you dont look to the third world and if you're not well off financially and esperience enough to really be on top of what's what. Which very few men achieve before age 40 and most never achieve, period
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Men dont need women sexualy.... We have FREE internet porn like redtube youporn etc.... There's probably just as many desperados on the female side as their are on the male side.
 

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Well does it mean that if she's with me it's because she wants to be with me and doesn't need to be With me?

I mean women are just human beings, they're not above us, so don't expect them to be perfect angels.
 

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they need us more than we need them....

...Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well does it mean that if she's with me it's because she wants to be with me and doesn't need to be With me?

I mean women are just human beings, they're not above us, so don't expect them to be perfect angels.
you he or she shud only be with someone because 1 you find them attractive 2 your personalities complement each other. Thats in a perfect world.... People stay in relationship for all sorts of reasons.... Many of which arnt that gr8!
 

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Women define their lives by the men they marry. A woman without a man is by definition, nothing.
U really believe that crap..... Sorry but a woman without a man is just the same the other way around.... It means your single...Perioud!
 

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Mainstream culture slowly but surely is removing any shame on women who dont fit to a certain way.

Old single women no longer feel like they are less worth than married women with a family, fat women no longer feel inferior to hot girls, their power to rationalize their sad condition and the reinforcements they get from society are really making them "unbounded".

Dont forget the sheep mentality of women, there are no such things are reality only things shared from the herd which are true or false according to what people say.
 

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Feminists like to think that 'culture' is the reason for everything, because culture can be manipulated. They won't accept that biology is the reason we act like we do, because biology cannot.

Culture allows for a woman to live in a delusion for a short while, but that delusion always breaks.

It surprises me that you think fat girls don't feel inferior. Why do you think women go to such lengths to push the delusion that 'fat is beautiful'?

Competition will always cut through propaganda. The hot girls will always get the most attention, and that is a reality that fat girls have to face daily.
I see your point and I believed the same as you did for a long time, then I realized that evidence and reality has no weight on a woman mind given enough emotional and social feedbacks.

You see if we all tell fat guys that they should be proud and confident and that if women ignore them its their loss, they will simply compare what we say with reality then accepting reality and disregard what we told them, for women its the other way around.

We decide if we like a woman according to our biology, they decide if they like a man according to other women opinion about that man, do you agree that a skinny fat guy surrounded from women at a party is more desidered from women than a tall well built guy who went there alone?

How many old ugly actresses you see chased from men? how many old actors you see having fan clubs full of women?

As much as its annoying to think, we have to acknowledge reality, women are creature based on social connections not calculations, biology or evidences, the same survival of women from stone age to now has been based on being part of a herd and being able to fit into it.


Im not denying the role of biology in what women find attractive but despite it would make sense, they value social feedbacks much more....according to biology a skinny hipster guy should be a prey to bigger violent males yet you see this hipster skinny guys with women while the strong fat guy at the gym has none.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You see if we all tell fat guys that they should be proud and confident and that if women ignore them its their loss, they will simply compare what we say with reality then accepting reality and disregard what we told them, for women its the other way around.


A little off topic but the difference between men and women here is that men can make fun of themselves.


While women must live in some fvcked up safe space with crayons, ice cream and chocolate to hold on to their sanity.
 
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