“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women don't care about men

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I think one thing guys should remember at all times is that women don't care about men. Your girlfriend/wife/mistress does not care about you, she only cares about herself. Once she has what she needs from you and you can no longer give her what she wants, she will be rude, talk back, play with your emotions, bankrupt you and eventually disappear for another guy who can give her what she wants. She will do all this while playing the victim.

The only thing a woman cares about is right now and how you can help her image right now. What you have done for her in the past has no meaning for her. It's what's you can do for her in the moment that matters. If you were a rich doctor and got into a car accident, were confined to a wheelchair for the next 25 years, you think the love of your life, your soul mate, your one and only would stick around and take care of you? If you were a famous actor with millions but got cancer and couldn't act again, had to be taken care of for the next 25 years, you think your high school sweetheart and prom queen would do it?

Do not let yourself be fooled. All women care about is themselves. They must protect themselves and make themselves look good at all costs.
 

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Maybe it's not true that she only cares about herself but it's damn close.

When a man loves a woman (when he slips up and loses all control...) he loves her like she's his baby, becomes protective, territorial, codependent on their happiness.

When a woman loves a man she actually loves his fathering potential. He isn't the baby. He is the logic/muscle/money/house/semen that eventually leads to happiness.

He messes up at anything even once and her belief in him immediately starts to waver.

If she's a "normal" shallow lady she gives him a number of chances before she leaves.

If she has underlying mental problems she drags it on and punishes him until he's completely destroyed.
 

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Of course they care about themselves. It's not limited to women though. All men, women, children and animals care about themselves.

Women do care about men, just not unconditionally because that's stupid. This is a balance, not a black or white matter. Just because she cares about herself doesn't mean she doesn't give a fvck about everyone else and vice versa. But in serious situations she will choose herself, the instinct of survival is the primary instinct.
 

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Yes this is good way to describe BRIFFAULT’S LAW for those that didn't read about it in the bible.

Woman do care BUT more than anything it's about the way you make THEM feel. Think about how many times you've heard that.

Grewd nailed it, this is across the board for all people really. It's just the nature of the beast.
 

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Of course they care about themselves. It's not limited to women though. All men, women, children and animals care about themselves.

Women do care about men, just not unconditionally because that's stupid. This is a balance, not a black or white matter. Just because she cares about herself doesn't mean she doesn't give a fvck about everyone else and vice versa. But in serious situations she will choose herself, the instinct of survival is the primary instinct.
What men need to understand is that all relationships with women are transactional. Forget the Disney sh!t.

When it comes to sexual relationships, all women care about is what you can do for them. In a woman's mind, her biological clock is ticking and her youth is fading by the minute. Women are much more hyper-aware of time than men are. This is because time is more harmful to women than to men.. and at a much earlier age. So what does this all mean? It mean's women don't give a sh!t about you because they're constantly watching the clock. Yes.. they believe their time is more valuable than yours. Men have always been the gender that can "take care of themselves". So in a woman's mind.. there is no reason to look out for men in any way whatsoever. Men are the powerful ones. She is just a victim of time and the men who waste her time.

Women only care about men when those men are important to her image, status, safety, security, children, resources, etc. Otherwise she doesn't give a sh!t about you.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Tell any plugged in guy that his gf/wife truly doesn't give a **** about his needs/wants/feelings and watch him implode. Outside looking in now, it's easy to see interactions for what they are with chicks. This guy complains of no sex, another friend has a nagging GF, this guys girl got fat and has no drive.
 

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@Poon King A woman will care about a man because of what she can gain from it. That is in short what I said. Women obviously don't care if if you have nothing to offer.

The Disney fantasy is to be cared about in exchange for nothing, the only woman who might do that in a mans life is his mother.

I have no idea why you quoted and responded to my post, I clearly explained that women are selfishly motivated like everyone else.
 

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@Poon King A woman will care about a man because of what she can gain from it. That is in short what I said. Women obviously don't care if if you have nothing to offer.

The Disney fantasy is to be cared about in exchange for nothing, the only woman who might do that in a mans life is his mother.

I have no idea why you quoted and responded to my post, I clearly explained that women are selfishly motivated like everyone else.
I was agreeing with you fool. Expanding on what you already said.

Just because I respond, that doesn't mean I disagree. Relax.
 

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@Poon King A woman will care about a man because of what she can gain from it. That is in short what I said. Women obviously don't care if if you have nothing to offer.

The Disney fantasy is to be cared about in exchange for nothing, the only woman who might do that in a mans life is his mother.

I have no idea why you quoted and responded to my post, I clearly explained that women are selfishly motivated like everyone else.
yeah but even Your mother (not mine) is a Wh0re (to your father) cause that's female nature (to survive). That is the only relationship where the female doesn't really behave the Wh0re...between mother and son or daughter. Women are much more incestuous these days however, and it's been in the recent news. It's kinda sick and it's due to feminism and single motherhood, where the mother starts desiring her son sexually. Kinda sick, but more prevalent these days, and psychologically harms the boy, but what can you do with this sick political correctness and court system that's totally disrupted the nucleic family?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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To a degree we are all selfish.

Men also care about their image and this and that. Yes we tend to have a sense of duty so may sometimes show more loyalty than women.

But really we want a hot girlfriend or whatever for a lot of superficial reasons and good sex etc.

But let's not act like if she got fat etc we wouldn't start looking elsewhere because we would.

But guys tend to be lazy because let's face it it's more effort for us to secure a decent mate than it is for a woman (no effort) so we will overlook a lot to avoid having to go out sarging again.

Basically pretty much everyone is out for themselves in some way it's just women are more ruthless about it because for them they just need to put on makeup and stand in the club and they will get several approaches where men have to make the same number of approaches to get 1 number who's semi interested and has also given her number to 5 other guys that night.

Don't hate the payer hate the game.

BTW it's thirsty desperate men in their droves who made it this way. I know fat single mums with the personality of mud who get hit up on the regular by these desperados

It makes it harder for us guys with standards because female 5's get the attention 8's used to
 
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