"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women do have it better than men. But that's ok.

JaegerPilot217

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Perroloco said:
Men don't have periods. That's got to be worth something?
Yes even though women have to go through that, that does not stop them from getting a boyfriend or getting laid, the list of things that turn women off is far longer than the list of things that turn men off
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JaegerPilot217 said:
Yes even though women have to go through that, that does not stop them from getting a boyfriend or getting laid, the list of things that turn women off is far longer than the list of things that turn men off
Women do the choosing. I cosign this.

They say men are the gatekeepers of relationships (commitment). I think that's bullsh*t because the woman has to choose you first. A woman can get turned off for a random-ass reason. Women by default, have near infinite options. Men, not so much. And men are easily replaceable. If a man wants a girlfriend or sex, he has to have a laundry list of things on the woman's list and go through hoops and mazes. But if a woman wants it, she can just sit and look pretty. She'll have suitors easily!
 

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nismo-4 said:
Women do the choosing. I cosign this.

They say men are the gatekeepers of relationships (commitment). I think that's bullsh*t because the woman has to choose you first. A woman can get turned off for a random-ass reason. Women by default, have near infinite options. Men, not so much. And men are easily replaceable. If a man wants a girlfriend or sex, he has to have a laundry list of things on the woman's list and go through hoops and mazes. But if a woman wants it, she can just sit and look pretty. She'll have suitors easily!
Yup, and I hate it when people argue that real men with balls have more options, because the real definition of an option is that you can say yes or no, and women usually have the final say
 

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don't be angry, guys.
who cares about who says yes or no. let them wyminz do the "choosing" we bang them anyways. i know it is against general SS guidelines, but i am no stranger of playing a little mind game woman style (if they think they can be the only creatures without logic, they're wrong), to get the poon i want. and if i had to play games, or she plays hard to get, she just dug her own grave so to speak. she has a one way ticket to pump and dump land.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CrimsonPanther said:
don't be angry, guys.
who cares about who says yes or no. let them wyminz do the "choosing" we bang them anyways. i know it is against general SS guidelines, but i am no stranger of playing a little mind game woman style (if they think they can be the only creatures without logic, they're wrong), to get the poon i want. and if i had to play games, or she plays hard to get, she just dug her own grave so to speak. she has a one way ticket to pump and dump land.
and women don't need confidence and don't need to be comfortable and content, secure with themselves
 
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