Women disgust me after sex.

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Every time I have sex with a woman, after I cumm-ed, I find them totally boring and useless...

Before sex I could feel very infatuated or very horny, what RIGHT after the deed is done, I feel like playing computer games or ANYTHING, except being with her.
This happens to me with every women I have sex with, not just one.

Who feels the same???
 

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Everybody gets a little unhorny after orgasm. If all you saw in her in the first place is sex. Then when your not horny I guess she will not seem very useful.
 

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I think its beacuse all you wanted from her was sex, then after youre done theres nothng there, if you actually really liked her you were dating for a while or she was your gf then it probably would change
 

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GaryUranga said:
I think its beacuse all you wanted from her was sex, then after youre done theres nothng there, if you actually really liked her you were dating for a while or she was your gf then it probably would change
Bingo.
 

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damn you guys are phucked in the head, just the act of having sex is more than just cumming. when i have sex i get off on the fact that I can turn her on and she wants my attention and intimacy and vice versa.

How do you NOT feel any connection with a girl after sex ?!?! you may not see her as LTR material but its damn near impossible to just see another human being as an object.

I NEVER understood that whole thing about guys kicking girls out of their place or leaving immediately after sex. I always thought and still believe people like that are weird or have some serious psychological issues.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
damn you guys are phucked in the head, just the act of having sex is more than just cumming. when i have sex i get off on the fact that I can turn her on and she wants my attention and intimacy and vice versa.

How do you NOT feel any connection with a girl after sex ?!?! you may not see her as LTR material but its damn near impossible to just see another human being as an object.

I NEVER understood that whole thing about guys kicking girls out of their place or leaving immediately after sex. I always thought and still believe people like that are weird or have some serious psychological issues.
I like this guy and he is totally right, however if you have sex with a HB5 I can maybe understand you not wanting to be with her after sex. If she is attractive however...... well you get the point

Maybe you are just sleeping with ugly girls….
 

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Drum&Bass said:
How do you NOT feel any connection with a girl after sex ?!?! you may not see her as LTR material but its damn near impossible to just see another human being as an object.
That's the beauty of the Internet, you get to know people that you couldn't otherwise meet in real life cause of the odds :D

"Originally Posted by GaryUranga
I think its beacuse all you wanted from her was sex, then after youre done theres nothng there, if you actually really liked her you were dating for a while or she was your gf then it probably would change"
Perhaps that's the point... I don't have a connection to these girls...
 

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Well, that means all you're looking for out of a girl is sex, which is WRONG.
 

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Tom Juan said:
Well, that means all you're looking for out of a girl is sex, which is WRONG.
OMG! Truly??? :eek: Can you help me get back on the righteous path, oh brother?

PS: I hope you too are being Ironic, man!!!
 

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It's just stupid. The only reason you show the slightest bit of interest in a girl is for sex. That's just ridiculously selfish and immature.
 

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I sleep with women knowing that the relationship won’t go anywhere, it’s not stupid its just 2 people enjoying themselves. I don't want to play computer games after I ***, I like to stay there and talk to her, play with her hair, stroke her back and kiss her. I only sleep with HB8+ so I actually can spend time with her after sex.

I mean who doesn’t want to look into the eyes of a beautiful woman that has just been totally satisfied?
 
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Drum&Bass you said this,

"I NEVER understood that whole thing about guys kicking girls out of their place or leaving immediately after sex. I always thought and still believe people like that are weird or have some serious psychological issues."

I guess I'm crazy then, because I feel the SAME WAY as the original poster does after sex, sorry lol.

You know, I don't know, I must say first off, I think this is a great discussion topic.

I don't know what it is, I'm not trying to be a jerk or just "use them" but after I ***, it's sort of like I snap out of some trace or something, and now I just wanna go back to my "fun" life, lol. It's really nothing against her, it's just, lol, I don't know, I don't wanna be around her anymore.

Of course in about a day or two I'll wanna come to her house again, but right after sex I have those same feelings brotha. When I think about it, IF I get married, and that's a bigggg fvckin IF considering how I see women cheatin on their husbands(even I've done some wives before), I'm just thinking if I get married would I feel the same way about my wife after sex, lol.
 

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i wish i had this problem....
 

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The reason you are bored with them after sex is simple. You only wanted them for sex.

There's nothing wrong with that, but if you're feeling uncomfortable, then try choosing girls based on looks AND personality. That way after sex you aren't bored.

On the other hand, if you're perfectly fine with the situation, then keep doing it.
 

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AngelusPUA said:
I sleep with women knowing that the relationship won’t go anywhere, it’s not stupid its just 2 people enjoying themselves. I don't want to play computer games after I ***, I like to stay there and talk to her, play with her hair, stroke her back and kiss her. I only sleep with HB8+ so I actually can spend time with her after sex.

I mean who doesn’t want to look into the eyes of a beautiful woman that has just been totally satisfied?
I have a pet Tom Cat who loses interest in the female cat that it has just fu-cked, as soon as he has finished his fu-ck he quickly walks away, either to drink a bowl of milk, or to sleep on the couch.

In a very similar way the Rooster that I have in a cage full of hens in my backyard has a fu-ck as soon as I let them out of their cage at dusk, but as soon as his finished the deed he quickly walks away and begins to eat seeds.

I think it is a very common thing with males of all creatures, Cats, Roosters, and Human guys, that after the fu-ck has been completed we just don't desire to be with the female anymore immediately afterwards.

I am very fussy when it comes to a girls appearance, I won't have sex for months on end unless I can have it with at least a HB8 or better, but even still I just want to do other things after my fu-ck has finished, I wish that it wasn't like this as it causes many problems, but I think it is just in the make up of how God created us, that sex and woman are the last things on our minds after our load has been blown, it isn't uncommon for guys to be like this. :up:
 

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I guess I'm crazy then, because I feel the SAME WAY as the original poster does after sex, sorry lol.
You don't have to apologise to me, but I do feel sorry for you. If you are unable to form a connection with a girl you've been intimate with then sex is about as good as jerking off in your world, so tell me who really gets more out of a sexual experience.

You know, I don't know, I must say first off, I think this is a great discussion topic.
Actually I think this thread is either EXTREMELY DISTURBING or FULL OF LIARS.

After having sex with a girl you must have some sort of connection with her. The time it takes to get to know a girl and evaluate how you feel about her before sex will have a bonding effect on you. it may not be strong enough to make you want to marry her or make her your girlfriend but you will want affection from her as much as she wants it from you.

Unless your all just randomly picking up prostitutes IT IS IMPOSSIBLE (unless something is honestly psychologically wrong with you) to not want to become closer with a girl. AGAIN SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE AN HB 10,9,8 OR WHATEVER. SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE SUPER HOT FOR YOU TO JUST ENJOY HER COMPANY, WHICH IS PART OF THE REASON YOU HAVE SEX WITH HER IN THE FIRST PLACE.

In all truthfullness I think alot of you are probably hooking up with prostitutes or your jerking off to porn and posting that you f-ck women and have no use for them (like your gods gift to the world with a busy life style that allows you to throw people away after you use them).

My goal is to fvuck as many woman as possible...I'm doing them a favor.
don't kid yourself...If your working to get them, MOST LIKELY THERE DOING YOU A FAVOR.

Stop regarding women as helpless, dainty flowers.
NO ONE IN THIS THREAD IS regarding women as helpless dainty flowers and every one of us has been burned, hurt and screwed by women at some point in our lives, but that is not what we're talking about..i think Tom is saying whats the point of sex if you FEEL NOTHING for the other person. do you have low self esteem and you want to brag to your friends about how many girls you nailed ? do you want to know that it is possible to have sex with many women so you can feed your ego ?? what's the point ??

Most women offer their body because they want your soul in return. The best way to prevent this is to make yourself scarce after sex.
Spoken like a true fool who has no idea about genuine interaction between men and women.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
Actually I think this thread is either EXTREMELY DISTURBING or FULL OF LIARS.

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Spoken like a true fool who has no idea about genuine interaction between men and women.
Indeed you are a fool according to the words you've used, I'd recommend you let other men have their own opinion on their take of sex with women instead of forcing your own will on them.
 

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I'm at the point where I refuse to just use women just for sex. Sex with someone that you care about and trust is more rewarding than just fking club HOES. I like feeling close and having trust with the women that I fk. Even if I cheat it is going to be with women that I respect.

That's how I live, and fk all you lames that will reply calling me an AFC. I haven't made an AFC move since 2004 and I live the words that I post here. No theory here 100% real life.
 
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