"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women constant attempts to promote older age

DJDamage

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http://tv.yahoo.com/news/heather-locklear-49-steps-skin-tight-cleavage-baring-175056514.html?nc

I hate those kind of articles.

Basically this article is lavishing and praising the fact that Heather Locklear is close to 50 and looks as good as she did ("age defining figure") when she was half that age. I am sorry to say but Heather Locker has aged noticeably and isn’t the sexy bombshell she once was. She is still bangable (if you can ignore all that plastic surgery) but the excitement levels are much lower when in comparison when she was much younger and fertile looking like this: http://images2.fanpop.com/image/photos/11000000/melrose-place-heather-locklear-11097547-800-600.jpg

Its laughable how women keep on nudging each other and say that with a few beauty secrets here and there they can be as good as they were when they were in their 20's.

The fact of the matter is that majority of women are average looking at best and by the time they reach the age of 34 most men have stopped looking at them. So comparing themselves to Heather Locklear in her 50's and trying to convince everyone that at 50 they can still be sexy too as they did back then is crazy. Even Jennifer Aniston or Denise Richards aren’t as half as good looking as they were when they were in their 20's.

Where were the articles praising Heather looks by other women when she was in her 20's?! There aren’t any because women hated her good looks back then (the feedback were from men as she was spreading her body across magazine covers) and the fact she could have gotten and did get most men she wanted (mostly famous rock stars albeit short terms) but only now its “you go girl, you still look as good as you did!!” being parroted back and fourth by other women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Agree. I thought the same when I saw that article. It's like they are trying to convince someone.....too hard.
 

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Women getting old and ugly doesn't help anyone at all. I'm not really comforted that I don't age as poorly as a woman because all it does is shrink my dating pool. I hate the slightest wrinkling on a woman's face, so unless I can somehow manage a non-stop flow of 22 year old's (yeah right) then I'm just as fvcked as some old woman.

A billion dudes who all didn't age as poorly as women all vying for women in their 20's doesn't seem like Advantage: Men to me regardless of game abilities.

I can just imagine me being the one running away from the wife who wants sex when she's 35. It's a goddamn tragedy watching some tv show from like 2000 and comparing the hottie 22 year old to the hideous 33 year old version of the same actress. Bah. If an actress can't keep her looks where her job largely depends upon it, how do other women have a chance? They don't. Yuck.
 
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