"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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women compete with other women,
only to destroy other women interest in you.
(while she may or maynot be around you)

I was organizing an event(10 to 15 members ),
x is 24 y is 30
when I am taking number from x,y jumps in and asks,take my number
I take y number after X ,
guess what
X no longer answers

I was at another event,x,y
x is interested ,and i got her number,

when leaving y kisses on my cheek suddenly,kinda making me to kiss back,
X no longer answers phone.

Now after these Y is also not interested ,just wanted to destroy X and your chances with a better women,and her EGO.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well the reason X doesn't answer is because you disrespected her and you allowed Y to use you to disrespect X. If you're going to get numbers from two girls you should have turned your attention back to X after getting the number from Y. Then X would think "Oh, he's got options, I better keep this one" and Y would think "Oh, I'm going to have to work harder to get his attention then."

Win Win.
 
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i love girls competeing over me theres 2 girls (both 2 years or so older than me around 25) i flirt with at work heavilly(not infront of each other).
now (girl a) is quiet very nice girl a little posh and reserved (girl b) loud very forward funny.
if girl b sees me talk to any girl she will give her the evil eye and muscle into the convo or will give me sexy looks over the girls shoulder to make sure that she has my attention.

now a few days ago i was walking towards girl a and then was interupted by an atractive older colleague who sits near girl a she proceded to have a long convo(completly work related)with me when i looked at girl a she looked like she wanted to kill someone as she gave me evil looks like i did it on purpose. anyway cut long story short girl a who i actually like is tellin me "she cant compete with other girls" as shes not that type of girl and she doesnt really flirt back any more so she basically gave up at the first hurdle and im not gonna chase her
 
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out of sight out of mind............being the player an advertsing I am a player does not always work in your favor,................Keep it on the down low as not all women adore dating a player.

This is where a little discretion is warrented.
 
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