"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women come to false conclusions...alot

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Feel you out
To carefully and cautiously try to gain knowledge of something. A noun or pronoun can be used between "feel" and "out."

This ugly woman(fat, stinky, below average face) was at work and I asked if she is STILL married(mere curiosity)cause I thought she told me she was divorced couple months before. This was when she was on a video chat with husband, friend, 2 other people

During our conversation she was calling me pathetic, Mr. Lonely, stop bugging her, etc. I said I didn't know she was and that I wasn't interested in anyone that works here. She never apologized and we changed the subject.

Something similar happened the other day and she told me was feeling me out after I asked why she said I'm pathetic , etc..this one was also ugly,married, and wanted me to come over where she wants her husband to watch...I said nah

It made me think of other times when I sat there saying nothing and laughing how delusional they are or wasn't catching on at the thought that they really thought I was attracted to them. There are other times this happened but very rarely where I didn't think of it as something till now...whether the woman is married/not married, bf/no bf...basically false concluded things..

It makes me want to be careful when talking to women because I'm the guy who respects relationships and on the guy's side. At the same time Anti-dump machine book mentioned how women come to false conclusions and that is so true. This whole time I was thinking it was part my fault and maybe I was mis-stating something along with they misunderstood...with small part of them flirting. Now I truly get it's a lot of that plus them coming to false conclusions fast anyway.


I'm putting this on here for examples of other guys to know I'm not the only who sees this. Plus I kind have to get it off my chest...I can't stand ugly biches believing I'm into them.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Work is for work. You're going to get into trouble talking to these sows at work. They do misinterpret, usually intentionally, if you leave room for misinterpretation. If you speak the way you write, you leave plenty of room for misinterpretation. Practice communicating here and not to those obese sows at work. They love the attention and will be happy to use your words to destroy you.
 

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Work is for work. You're going to get into trouble talking to these sows at work. They do misinterpret, usually intentionally, if you leave room for misinterpretation. If you speak the way you write, you leave plenty of room for misinterpretation. Practice communicating here and not to those obese sows at work. They love the attention and will be happy to use your words to destroy you.
Not only at work but even other places...gym, community events, etc.I really don't talk to women (with intention)like that at work unless it's my last day/week there...I might ask the ones out that are cute. Now that I think about it the ones at work who say this crap are usually ones I made fun of before so they might have something against me lol..but oh so illogical it'll drive you crazy. But I get what ur saying...to be more specific in conversations
 
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