"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i have a handful of the women on my whatsapp (2 exes 3 one nighters) , and ive noticed whenever i change my pic within the 24hrs they change theres this wouldnt be less of a coincidence but sometimes if i change it to me and my child they change it them and there kid aswell..

i havent messaged them and i dont intend too as i presume there trying to move me off my core to initiate

any advice for a rookie don what else are these women gonna do to up the "mountain moving"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're thinking too much into this...
 

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fair enough pmsl if it was one or two...but more than that plus they change to there parent kid pic when i do, im wondering if its some back door attention immature thing
 

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...plus they change to their parent kid pic when I do, I'm wondering if its some back door attention immature thing
Yes. They do it for attention. Same with expressions like that duck-face trend or snapchat filters, using emoticons in status/username.

A reflection of pop-culture/social media trends.

Just ignore unless you can use it to your advantage to get them to qualify themselves to you, then proceed from there.
 
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