"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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derby1

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i have a handful of the women on my whatsapp (2 exes 3 one nighters) , and ive noticed whenever i change my pic within the 24hrs they change theres this wouldnt be less of a coincidence but sometimes if i change it to me and my child they change it them and there kid aswell..

i havent messaged them and i dont intend too as i presume there trying to move me off my core to initiate

any advice for a rookie don what else are these women gonna do to up the "mountain moving"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're thinking too much into this...
 

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fair enough pmsl if it was one or two...but more than that plus they change to there parent kid pic when i do, im wondering if its some back door attention immature thing
 

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...plus they change to their parent kid pic when I do, I'm wondering if its some back door attention immature thing
Yes. They do it for attention. Same with expressions like that duck-face trend or snapchat filters, using emoticons in status/username.

A reflection of pop-culture/social media trends.

Just ignore unless you can use it to your advantage to get them to qualify themselves to you, then proceed from there.
 
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