"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"women can be really cruel sometimes"

princesimba

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"Oh im really sorry for doing said XXX bullsh!t during YYY date. I didnt know what i was thinking. Its just that... women can be really cruel sometimes."

I dunno but that last part in bold... makes me angry. Its just makes the whole apology seem so insincere sudddenly. Not replying seems like a butthurt move in this particular situation

Any good replies ?

My reply was just "LOL" and i never cared about her again
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Greasy Pig

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Lol or K with no punctuation is pretty much the default response to this shyt.
But for me, I wouldn't even grant her the privilege of a reply.
 

plate's_empty

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Trying to blame her behavior on women in general, making excuses. As in, it's not my fault, all women would have acted that way.

Put her in her place.

My response: "you're dumb"
 

Jitterbug

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Send her nothing but radio silence.

On a related note, I've never heard a sincere apology from a woman. A creature with no reason nor accountability cannot produce one. I suggest you stop expecting it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Uncharted

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To the OP - silence is the best. The hamster spins so fast!

Ex - a girl cancelled on me for a group outing (not even a date)

HB: hey I can't make it tonight but i'll text you tomorrow
Me: k
HB: What do you mean k?
HB (few minutes later): You can't just say that and not respond

HB (next morning 7:30am): Well if you're mad that I couldn't go it's because I was sick
HB (12PM): I called in sick to work today too
HB (2PM): Are you mad at me?

Me (6PM after work when I had a chance to respond): Haha what?
HB (6:01PM): Heyy want me to come over?

In this scenario I was at work the entire time and my phone was in my car. But the point remains - silence spins that hamster hardcore.
 
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