"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ThisNThat said:
There had this women I had been communicating with on OK Cupid, I came to the conclusion after a couple of weeks that she was just catfishing (never wanting to meet because "I am not ready")

I cut ties completely and I noticed something that she ADDED to her profile since our conversation?

I am the one who will decide when I provide my PHONE NUMBER and I am the one who will decide when is time to MEET A PERSON.(Good and sure things takes time) If you are looking for something easy or one date night, I'm so sorry you are in the wrong page!

She followed that up with, "This isn't directed at anyone specific" when I think it actually MAY have been directed at me, or the men that got tired of being texting buddies with. (Yes, I did get her digits, but she kept claiming she "wasn't ready to meet yet.")

I almost feel like sending her an email saying she may want to ease up on those demands, otherwise she'll wind up not even getting a FIRST date (or meet).
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Ditch this b**ch and move on! She's not that attractive, and you can do better anyway.

Avoid controlling women like the plague. Sending her another message won't do you any good.

When a woman says online she isn't interested, you can tell her she's not that attractive. Otherwise, just block her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nismo-4 said:
Ditch this b**ch and move on! She's not that attractive, and you can do better anyway.

Avoid controlling women like the plague. Sending her another message won't do you any good.

When a woman says online she isn't interested, you can tell her she's not that attractive. Otherwise, just block her.
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Yeah, I think where some men get suckered in ....their fault too...is they FINALLY get a woman that's interested in them, but....these women want to CONTROL them. Since these guys only get one date per year, they'll take it.
 
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