"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women be ****blockiiiiiin you can't STOP a Woman from ****blockin baby- little FR

women haze

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hey guys My main point in this topic is why in the hell do women try to prevent their friends from meeting a decent guy?

fri had a rock concert and met this cute colombian HB7...Dudes was all over her the whole time, so I had gotten discouraged to talk to her after i initally talked to her, but here is the kicker...she said to me "I was wondering when you would come talk to me"

I was drunk as hell couldn't remember HALF of the convo but i guess we had a nice one lol her friend gives me the look like...back off son I'm like ooooookay...and I return to my friends.

Like i said before so many dudes kept talking to her wrapping their arm on her I was like forget it no point in talking to the HB7 anymore. Her friend didn't try ****blocking them.....only me but whatever

So when we got back I just said F it walked up to her and told her

"You a cool girl we should have lunch sometime, let me get your #"

I got her BBM contact anyways at the end of the night and am setting up a small ice cream date anyways to which she said she was interested so we'll see...., but still her friend tried to drag her away to separate us after that again!!!!:mad: she looks back at me says bye

Thing is though Fellas...why ****block me what is it with women and interfering in the game.

If her friend only knew I'm one of the good guys, not a dog that she has to protect her friend from....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Solomon

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If her friend CBing you that hard and not other dudes, she probably was feeling you as well. I'm curious was the "7" the hottest chick in the venue? cause I don't see why guys would sweat a chick like that unless she the only one in the venue.

I've been CB'd before hard even by a bartender, the best is when her friend is actually trying to help you pull, those are my favs. I call those wingchicks lol
 

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women haze said:
why ****block me what is it with women and interfering in the game.

If her friend only knew I'm one of the good guys, not a dog that she has to protect her friend from....
Dear Hazy,

I have no definite idea why women ****block each other, i know from personal experience its damn annoying. I think it stems from this "came together, leave together" and "I'll look after you" philosophy, that women have.
I have often thought that during particular kinds of events, women will automatically ****block no matter what, i.e. night clubs, gigs, at the bar, anywhere that serves alcohol really, as to protect each other from the bad elements. I suppose in some ways, it does make sense, but its still an inconvienence.
I think you did the best you could have done in getting her contact details and it would appear that shes interested in meeting you again so its "a win".

Regards and Good hunting,

Adrian

P.S. Remember to tell her to leave her friend at home when you go on your date :).
 

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She might've had a boyfriend, or it could've been simple jealousy.

Could've been too, seeing as you "don't remember" half of the conversation, that you were drunker than you thought you were and her friend wanted to keep her from having a ONS with judgement compromised.

Could be a dozen things. But you got the digits...set up the date and forget about the silly c*ckbl*cking. :)
 

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They cokblok because they are jealous bytches who dont want there friend to have what theyre not having.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's simple. Most women have a policy that everyone around them is only allowed to have exactly as much fun as they're having, no more, no less.
 

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Zunder said:
They cokblok because they are jealous bytches who dont want there friend to have what theyre not having.
^^^
This

Jitterbug said:
It's simple. Most women have a policy that everyone around them is only allowed to have exactly as much fun as they're having, no more, no less.
^^^
and this

And I add that as usual their overboosted ego play a part, the fat friend
c0ckblock you because she doesnt want to go home alone and be reminded of how unworthy to men she is.
 

Lexington

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The main motivation I've seen for female c0ckblocks is the fear of being left alone. Sure jealousy etc. also play a role, but girls cannot stand to be by themselves with no one to talk to.

You could get a wingman to go in there and talk to her friend. One tactic I've seen that works surprisingly well is to simply recruit any random dude that happens to be in the vicinity to talk to the c0ckblock. Then there's the old trick of talking to the c0ckblock more than the target initially and then shifting focus and isolating.

That last technique is beautiful because it's got that divide and conquer element to it.
 
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