"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women asking lotta questions

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Hi all,

Since half a year im following this course (study) with a one year duration.
The general age of people following this course is over 30 years.
We have a few nice ladies in class, and yes.. there is some flirting going on.. also from my side.
I have had intense telephone contact with one women over the phone, although it now subsided and i let her initiate most of the calling, texting.
It seems they like to bombard me with questions of what i like i women and how i am in general and what i like, as if they value my opinion.
I generally answer kindly because i love sharing some wisdom i've learned over the years, also in dealing with women.
Im single and tend to flirt a bit with all of them.
But so many questions are being thrown at me that i feel like just disappearing in the background and let them show how interested they really are. Seems all talk and no action.
There is kino and touching from both sides...
I had a date with one of them already, i invited her for dinner; she couldnt that day, and said; hold that thought, i would love it.
I have the feeling they dont reaally dare, or perhaps they might be viewed as "easy" by going with me (flirty guy).
Any thoughts on this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Play with the answers.....the more mysterious you are that more that they want you. Do not be a sucker into giving all the info they want....they loose interest in you. You could tell them "in time you will find out"....or some bs playful response. Continue to be a mystery and continue to be unpredictable.... Good Luck...Abe
 
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San said:
Seems all talk and no action.
There is kino and touching from both sides...
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Ok bro you unlocked this mystery right there. Action is the MAN's job. Women talk. Men act.

If you aren't escalating, you are de-escalating in most cases. Now don't take that to the extreme - after all, Pook taught us the patience is the refined sense of confidence. However, once the interactions have started, you have to stay on the gas. The escalation doesn't have to be physical or seem aggressive, but you have to keep the train moving. More flirting, more innuendo, more eye contact, more kino.
 
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