Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women asking lotta questions

San

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Hi all,

Since half a year im following this course (study) with a one year duration.
The general age of people following this course is over 30 years.
We have a few nice ladies in class, and yes.. there is some flirting going on.. also from my side.
I have had intense telephone contact with one women over the phone, although it now subsided and i let her initiate most of the calling, texting.
It seems they like to bombard me with questions of what i like i women and how i am in general and what i like, as if they value my opinion.
I generally answer kindly because i love sharing some wisdom i've learned over the years, also in dealing with women.
Im single and tend to flirt a bit with all of them.
But so many questions are being thrown at me that i feel like just disappearing in the background and let them show how interested they really are. Seems all talk and no action.
There is kino and touching from both sides...
I had a date with one of them already, i invited her for dinner; she couldnt that day, and said; hold that thought, i would love it.
I have the feeling they dont reaally dare, or perhaps they might be viewed as "easy" by going with me (flirty guy).
Any thoughts on this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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abe0

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Play with the answers.....the more mysterious you are that more that they want you. Do not be a sucker into giving all the info they want....they loose interest in you. You could tell them "in time you will find out"....or some bs playful response. Continue to be a mystery and continue to be unpredictable.... Good Luck...Abe
 

MOTU

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San said:
Seems all talk and no action.
There is kino and touching from both sides...
Ok bro you unlocked this mystery right there. Action is the MAN's job. Women talk. Men act.

If you aren't escalating, you are de-escalating in most cases. Now don't take that to the extreme - after all, Pook taught us the patience is the refined sense of confidence. However, once the interactions have started, you have to stay on the gas. The escalation doesn't have to be physical or seem aggressive, but you have to keep the train moving. More flirting, more innuendo, more eye contact, more kino.
 
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