Women as horny as men??

[DJ_in_making]

Yea, I hear all the time 'girls want sex as bad as guys or even worse!'
I'm having trouble believing that though. I mean, Men think about it much more often and are always after it. Women seem not to care as much. And when a girl shows a hint of sexuality they're automatically 'as horny'
Well, that's my opinion. What do you guys think? Why do you think they're as horny/hornier than guys are.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

They do, I think......just not in the same way that guys do.

We are all about the chase..the conquest...We need to sow our oats in as many places as possible. That's why we think about it all the time. It's biology.

Women, on the other hand want it as much and if not more so, only they need to know that the guy is right for them...once you get to a certain point in a relationship, and gain their trust... women usually open up and want it alot more then we do.

Usually by this point, if we aren't head over heels for the chick, we're already thinking about that brunetter from the coffee shop or something.. haha that's how it goes.

We want it more, now... They want it more, later.

 

[Black_Italian]

Women love sex they want it but society teaches them this is wrong so they hide there feelings. Men on the other hand talk freely about sex.

This gives us the illusion that men want sex more than women. This isnt true just because they dont always talk about it doesnt mean they dont want it.

 

[DJ_in_making]

I understand what y'all are saying. But do girls watch porn privately or masturbate??

 

[loco2chon]

Correct!

What 'Canadian' said is right, I agree with him. The only thing you need to do when you get 'to that certain point' is not give it to her when she wants it.
Let her suffer a little and only give it to her when YOU decide, if you know what I mean.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
They do, I think......just not in the same way that guys do.

We are all about the chase..the conquest...We need to sow our oats in as many places as possible. That's why we think about it all the time. It's biology.

Women, on the other hand want it as much and if not more so, only they need to know that the guy is right for them...once you get to a certain point in a relationship, and gain their trust... women usually open up and want it alot more then we do.

Usually by this point, if we aren't head over heels for the chick, we're already thinking about that brunetter from the coffee shop or something.. haha that's how it goes.

We want it more, now... They want it more, later.

aw, so they're not horny 'till they get married and you're eternally bonded w/ them? that sux....

 

[undesputable]

i think the sex drives comes from testosterone.... so women have less testosterone, therefore less sex drive. Just compare any man to any women in how much the masturbate if say they were put in isolation and couldnt have sex....i think the man would be rubbing one out a lot more often than a girl would

 

[lebRambo]

well, i was talking to an ex of mine a little while ago about this, and she was like 'girls definitely want sex! its just that they don't want it with just anyone. They have to care a little, not necessarily enough to date them but still a little bit for them to have sex with a guy'. It really does vary as well, from girl to girl. Some girls are just horny ALL the time, and some are like sex camels.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by lebRambo
well, i was talking to an ex of mine a little while ago about this, and she was like 'girls definitely want sex! its just that they don't want it with just anyone. They have to care a little, not necessarily enough to date them but still a little bit for them to have sex with a guy'. It really does vary as well, from girl to girl. Some girls are just horny ALL the time, and some are like sex camels.

sex camels, I like that one.... thank your ex for her input. But like u said girls want sex with only people they care for, and guys on the other hand want sex w/ any girl "bangable" wouldn't that support the fact that guys do want it more b/c they'r not as picky?

 

[Eric Clapton]

Yes, they like to fvck more than guys.

 

[penkitten]

inside tip on women and sex:

women have sex spurts. yes, i said spurts.

there will be times when a woman can not get enough of you, and will keep coming back from more. these are times in which she feels great, there isnt alot of stress going on, and you make her feel absolutely sexy and desired.

if she feels bad, has had a rough day, is very stressed, etc. she isnt going to be wanting sex in the same way, and quite possibly not wanting it at all.

if you get into a pattern or rut, shes gonna want it less and less.

we could never fathem sex in the same way as a man. i know some women say they think about it all the time however its no where near the same.

when guys break up with chicks, often they say they can litterly imagine her with a new guy. see it in their heads. truth is, i do not know any female that could imagine their ex getting dirty with another chick.

guys think about sex every ten minutes. doesnt matter who the girl is, once she passes by, shes now a part of his reference guide in his head to daydream about sex with.
a female, may meet the average of one to two men in her entire life time that she will ever day dream in a sexual manner about.
thats because we have to "feel" something first.


if a female tells you she wants sex all the time, remember that she means " all the time but only when i feel like it".


i think i have now confused you guys even more so i will leave it at that.

 

[DJ_in_making]

tnx for the feed back, I'm getting mixed results....

38.89% say they're hornier than guys

27.78% say they're as horny as we are.

22.22% say they aren't as horny as guys are
and
11.11% say they don't know b/c they haven't ever been girls

now, imagine a world where GUYS do all the horny stuff girls do: like girls gone wild, spring break etc.
and imagine GIRLS doing all the horny stuff guys do: watch porn, go to strip clubs, pay for sex, do perverted stuff.
Do you think the girls got a lot more freakier in the situation above or not?

 

[penkitten]

well im the only woman in here telling you about us, but dont believe me....

and girls watch porn, ask my cable company haha

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by penkitten
inside tip on women and sex:

women have sex spurts. yes, i said spurts.

there will be times when a woman can not get enough of you, and will keep coming back from more. these are times in which she feels great, there isnt alot of stress going on, and you make her feel absolutely sexy and desired.

if she feels bad, has had a rough day, is very stressed, etc. she isnt going to be wanting sex in the same way, and quite possibly not wanting it at all.

if you get into a pattern or rut, shes gonna want it less and less.

we could never fathem sex in the same way as a man. i know some women say they think about it all the time however its no where near the same.

when guys break up with chicks, often they say they can litterly imagine her with a new guy. see it in their heads. truth is, i do not know any female that could imagine their ex getting dirty with another chick.

guys think about sex every ten minutes. doesnt matter who the girl is, once she passes by, shes now a part of his reference guide in his head to daydream about sex with.
a female, may meet the average of one to two men in her entire life time that she will ever day dream in a sexual manner about.
thats because we have to "feel" something first.


if a female tells you she wants sex all the time, remember that she means " all the time but only when i feel like it".


i think i have now confused you guys even more so i will leave it at that.

First off I don't know about other guys but I don't daydream about any girl that passes by, unless she is sexually appealing of course. Next, I interpret your post as saying girls aren't as into sex as guys, its good to get a little 1st person advice once in a while.
Lastly, what u mentioned about sex spurts just made girls a lot more complicated.......

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making

Lastly, what u mentioned about sex spurts just made girls a lot more complicated.......

a man once told me that he used to try to figure out women and then when he thought he did that, the women would change.

so there you go

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by penkitten
a man once told me that he used to try to figure out women and then when he thought he did that, the women would change.

so there you go

wait, why does this site exist again??

 

[Mortukai]

This thread is clueless.

Women want sex more than men. This is a fact. Here's the reality:

Studies have shown that men who have no estrogen have no sex drive. Women, when they go through menopause and lose their estrogen, also lose their sex drive. The parts of the brain responsible for sex are receptive to estrogen.

Remember how Pook used to go on about how girls are sexual beings, and men aren't really? There is a scientific basis for this claim. Girls are chock full of estrogen, and estrogen is what makes the sex center of our brains work. Even men who have testosterone through the roof have zero sex drive without any estrogen.

The reason we all think men are more sexual is simple. We have more testosterone, and testosterone is a hormone that makes us ACT. It makes us actually DO something about our sex drive. Girls have very little testosterone, so they need to have a much higher sex drive before they are willing to act on it. Men, on the other hand, if they have high testosterone, then they will act on even a low sex drive.

Women are way, way more sexual than men. When they run around spewing out bullsh!t statistics like "men think about sex every 3 seconds", they are projecting their own thoughts onto men. Women think about sex more than men, but their thoughts aren't anywhere near as visible as actions, so all we see are men going after sex.

And Penkitten was partially right about the "spurts" thing. Women's estrogen levels do fluctuate over their cycle and according to their moods (actually, their estrogen causes their moods, not vice versa, but let's not get academic). Women can be more or less sexual than normal, but they are always more sexual than men. They just don't have the testosterone required to act on their libido.

I hope that clears up some of the crap in here. It is a scientifically verifiable fact that is backed up by mountains of common sense by people who know women (like Pook and others), that women are way more sexual than men, and way hornier way more often.

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by Mortukai

And Penkitten was partially right about the "spurts" thing. Women's estrogen levels do fluctuate over their cycle and according to their moods (actually, their estrogen causes their moods, not vice versa, but let's not get academic). Women can be more or less sexual than normal, but they are always more sexual than men. They just don't have the testosterone required to act on their libido.

I hope that clears up some of the crap in here. It is a scientifically verifiable fact that is backed up by mountains of common sense by people who know women (like Pook and others), that women are way more sexual than men, and way hornier way more often.

ok, show the proof.....
go ahead, we'll wait....

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by Mortukai
This thread is clueless.

Women want sex more than men. This is a fact. Here's the reality:

Studies have shown that men who have no estrogen have no sex drive. Women, when they go through menopause and lose their estrogen, also lose their sex drive. The parts of the brain responsible for sex are receptive to estrogen.

Remember how Pook used to go on about how girls are sexual beings, and men aren't really? There is a scientific basis for this claim. Girls are chock full of estrogen, and estrogen is what makes the sex center of our brains work. Even men who have testosterone through the roof have zero sex drive without any estrogen.

The reason we all think men are more sexual is simple. We have more testosterone, and testosterone is a hormone that makes us ACT. It makes us actually DO something about our sex drive. Girls have very little testosterone, so they need to have a much higher sex drive before they are willing to act on it. Men, on the other hand, if they have high testosterone, then they will act on even a low sex drive.

Women are way, way more sexual than men. When they run around spewing out bullsh!t statistics like "men think about sex every 3 seconds", they are projecting their own thoughts onto men. Women think about sex more than men, but their thoughts aren't anywhere near as visible as actions, so all we see are men going after sex.

And Penkitten was partially right about the "spurts" thing. Women's estrogen levels do fluctuate over their cycle and according to their moods (actually, their estrogen causes their moods, not vice versa, but let's not get academic). Women can be more or less sexual than normal, but they are always more sexual than men. They just don't have the testosterone required to act on their libido.

I hope that clears up some of the crap in here. It is a scientifically verifiable fact that is backed up by mountains of common sense by people who know women (like Pook and others), that women are way more sexual than men, and way hornier way more often.

Good reply, I'm becoming convinced that women are hornier but some things i have to get clear... estrogen makes women hornier, but testosterone makes men actually wanna act. If women are not willing to act as quick as men are, how exactly does that make them more sexual?

 

[Mortukai]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Good reply, I'm becoming convinced that women are hornier but some things i have to get clear... estrogen makes women hornier, but testosterone makes men actually wanna act. If women are not willing to act as quick as men are, how exactly does that make them more sexual?

Think about it like this:

Imagine a person who has a very low sex drive. This person doesn't think about sex very often, maybe, say once a month. But when they do think about sex, they act on it, they go out, initiate, and have sex.

Now imagine a person who has a very high sex drive. This person thinks about sex all the time, talks about it any chance they get, dreams of it every night, and interprets every social interaction as a potential for sex. But they never act on their sex drive, instead, they simply wait for someone else to make a move, and when this other person makes a move, they simply "don't resist".

Who is more sexual?

By "more sexual", I mean the same thing Pook means: every interaction is interpreted through a sexual "filter". They care more about sex, they talk about it more and in more detail, they get more involved in thinking about it, and they flat out want it more. But they simply don't act on their desires.

Originally posted by penkitten
ok, show the proof.....
go ahead, we'll wait....

Ok, I'll show the proof, but first you have to show the proof to support your claims. If you can't show me the proof which backs up your claims that men are more sexual and think about sex every ten minutes, then why the fvck should I show you proof to back up my substantially more thorough and detailed claims, which also just so happen to fit into reality a lot nicer?

So go on penkitten, I'll wait...