Women Aren't Able To Get Sex On Demand

[NiceGuyChad]

Let me ask a simple question that every man should ask himself when confronted with this sentiment. Is this true?

Is it true that a woman, from a very young age gets hit on by a loser every 5 minutes who ignores polite rejection and continues on until he gets slapped down? Is it true that every woman since the age of 13, every guy they meet has been trying to **** her and that they get offered "****" every single day?

Let me answer that. No, it's not true. Women would like you to believe it is true. But it's not. There is a grain of truth to this in that men highly value women in their reproductive prime. Also, highly deviant males sometimes act this way. But it is a far cry from the norm. Although there is a grain of truth to the sentiment, the statement is false. It's actually patently ridiculous.

It assumes that women can get sex any time they want, but don’t want it as much as men. Both of these are not true. You only have to look at the amount of time almost every woman spends desperately trying to attract a man to know it's not true. If it were true, women would just show up. They don't do that. They spend hours and hours finding the right outfit, making sure her makeup and hair is perfect, not to mention a thousand other things, carefully intended to attract men.

There is no way around it. Men pursue and women attract. In most normal cultures, the woman makes it very clear when and who she wants and the man then either steps right up to the plate, or doesn’t, depending on his inclination. Women compete with eachother in this way to get the best man they can. Western women today want you to believe that they are so unbelievably high status that they can snap their fingers and get any man they want and that their main problem is beating them off with a stick. The reality is far different. The average woman either *****s around (ie. takes anyone she can get) or spends long periods of time dateless. Either way, they go to great lengths to attract, but are way too neurotic to choose who, let alone make it obvious that they are interested. Plus, if you are interested, your value plummets and they don’t want you anymore. The problem isn't that the guy is a loser. The problem is that the woman is a neurotic freak who lost touch with reality a long time ago. She can't engage the mating game in any sane way... and loses big time for it. A woman has ten to fifteen years to get herself a man. After that, she is only good for occassional sex. Her status reflects that. Too many women find this out after it is far too late to do something about it.

Understand that when women are playing this game they are trying to fool you about something. They want you to be misinformed about your worth and options relative to hers, not only as an individual but men as a group. They do this for two reasons. They want to get someone much better than they normally should be able to (but are far too lazy and ****ed up to, ummm, make themselves better). And they want you to accept behavior from them that you never would, if you knew you had options.

Don't be fooled by this. Laugh in the face of any fruitloop who thinks she can act bitchy toward you.

 

[YourGreatestFear]

Average woman IS able to get sex on demand, but only with guys she don't want. Funnily enough, if you are a guy with standards, guy who can't be taken away by any hot woman just because she like you, then you could easily become a guy who she really wants. If average or even below average woman, as long as she isn't too ugly, register on Tinder and spend some time there then she would be able to get as much sex as she wants. But people, both men and women, don't want just sex by itself (we like it, but it isn't much better than masturbation), more than it we want to raise our subjective social status (because evolutionary it is very important). We men could raise it by getting laid with a lot of hot women. But women can't raise it by having sex with a lot of random men, instead they raise it by being in demand (having bunch of orbiters or potential mates) and rejecting most guys, while being intimate either with those of higher status, or those who have similar status and ready to commit.

The thing is what women decide your status mostly based on your behaviour (specially if they don't know much about you). It means what you being choosy, non-needy and outcome independent would tell her what you are higher status. If you are being a chooser instead of chaser then things become different.

 

[Serenity]

Most women value good relationship over sex, apparently for many guys they care first and foremost about getting their d!cks wet. So of course women are more picky as sex is secondary. For guys on the other hand a large amount of us are willing to ignore compatibility and everything just for some pvssy.

Yeah women put a lot of effort into making themselves look good, but not for all guys. They do so for the guys they want, they have little interest in guys who neglect relationship. The guys who do not neglect this are said to have standards, are harder to obtain and so women compete over them.

It's not so much that reciprocating interest leads a woman to lose interest. It's what type of interest they get in return and how it's expressed that may cause her to lose interest. Other expressions of interest may even magnify her interest. Many guys incorrectly concludes that showing interest means game over, not realizing that it's either the type of interest they're showing or their way of expressing it that ruins it for them. Showing interest towards a woman is fine, but only if you also display that it's conditional rather than totally uncritical.

The problem is that many guys simply do not understand what women place value on or severely misunderstands it. Women are weeding out a lot of trash men with their methods, you'd be wiser to adopt the same methods than to criticize them because it sure works the other way around too.

And they want you to accept behavior from them that you never would

That is exactly what they don't want you to do. They'll try to b!tch, your reaction to it shows what you're made of. If you accept it they'll resent and disrespect you for the weak spineless man that you are. If you don't tolerate it they'll admire and respect you for not taking sh!t. Having options is merely a way to make it easier to not accept bad behavior, but you could still have a weak frame and fear being without a woman. It's not strictly necessary to have options, if you respect yourself independently from women you don't need options. Those guys would rather be alone than put up with bullsh!t, to them it's not a loss to be without a badly behaved woman. Guys with little self-respect derive their value from having a woman, to them a bad woman is better than no woman, to them it's a loss however fvcked up that is...

A woman will never respect a guy if he can't even respect himself.

Women aren't trying to fool you into thinking they're more worth than you, they're checking whether you respect yourself or not. They're checking your worth. If you make yourself out to feel inferior, then to them you are inferior and you lose. On the other hand if you don't put yourself below a woman and accept sh!t then you'll be way more likely to be regarded as having value. You can essentially do the exact same thing they're doing, assume value.

 

[lamath]

Good post i agree with most of it.

 

[SoSuave666]

7s 8s and 9s absolutely can get sex any day of the week they want, from a variety of different men. Absolutely.







Ab-so-fvcking-lutely

 

[mrgoodstuff]

7s 8s and 9s absolutely can get sex any day of the week they want, from a variety of different men. Absolutely.







Ab-so-fvcking-lutely

Yeah but often they only want to , fvck very certain guys, who might not want to be bothered by them. So while their might be 100 dycks the one or two they want might not want them....

 

[SoSuave666]

Yeah but often they only want to , fvck very certain guys, who might not want to be bothered by them. So while their might be 100 dycks the one or two they want might not want them....

They will find someone. Women settle all the time, but what's missing from the narrative is that even though they settle they ARE getting some needs met. It happens all the time. Epiphany phase: women settle for beta providers. Slvt phase: women will sex any man that is at their SMV, just for an "experience." Betwixt all the settling are the moments when women will fvck the men they truly want. If the guy they want at that moment is not available and her attraction method isn't working, she only has a couple weeks to wait until a new high value man takes his place. Note: this only applies to attractive women.

And then, the last and most crucial point to make, is that women get off on turning guys down. They love the attention they get from men sometimes even more than sex. Never forget that.

 

[glass half full]

If you are being a chooser instead of chaser then things become different.

This is a fact. The other stuff is true too, but that saying is on point.

 

[BeExcellent]

Hot women can get sex on demand. If that’s what they want. All day everyday. In such a landscape a wise woman must choose a man based on her own criteria. And she must reject men in numbers to retain an openness toward the type of man she really wants.

This requires standards, self esteem and patience. Many women lack either standards, self esteem or patience...hence settling.

I’ve got ridiculous choice at 50 from men ranging in age from 30 to 70...granted I’m still very physically attractive & therefore an outlier...and most of the young guys are wanting to experiment sexually rather than get into a relationship. That generally sorts itself out prior to any physical involvement whatsoever...but it’s interesting nonetheless.

But yes, attractive women have no issue with opportunity for sex. I’m bombarded with that sort of opportunity all the time. So I can afford to exercise my standards & criteria to get the relationship I want. That’s the tougher thing. Obtaining sex (if that was my goal) is a complete no brainer.