I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Poetry on SS. Surreal stuff.Night-hawk said:Conquer yourself. The more victories you attain, the sweeter you see the once soured fields of old.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Actually there are plenty.Icegreen said:Disregard them and gain wealth. If you do find a good woman, beat up the sides and move on to the next one. I see women as extremely manipulated by the media and consumer products. They are extremely inferior thinkers in my opinion. How many of them have invented something that changed humanity for the good - none. Well, I guess that one gal did back in the 1960s - DNA structure analysis.
Plenty of female social activists who reshaped society. Did they shape it into something beneficial? F*ck no, lolsharkbeat said:Actually there are plenty.
Icegreen said:Disregard them and gain wealth. If you do find a good woman, beat up the sides and move on to the next one. I see women as extremely manipulated by the media and consumer products. They are extremely inferior thinkers in my opinion. How many of them have invented something that changed humanity for the good - none. Well, I guess that one gal did back in the 1960s - DNA structure analysis.
Disregard them, keep a few on the side for sex, don't marry them, adopt a kid, and gain wealth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.