"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women are whacked

051AV

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I've talked about how women act around me there are days I wish I was fvcking ugly and repulsive to women then I wouldn't have to deal with women that are so fvcking nervous around me.

A woman I know she's a couple years older than me, divorced, seen her today she was so nervous around me she gave me a quick smile she couldn't even say hi. Any time I do get some words out of her its almost like she's prairie doggin it from nervousness. Would I get involved with this woman? no, too much crap went down in her divorce not something I want to deal with.

Trust me its gets old engaging with women that are nervous, its not scared for their life nervous its I really like you nervous. Women today seem to be drawn to these beta type guys. I'm a lone wolf guy when I speak I'm forward there is no bullsh*t with me, I'm what a man is supposed to be. Insecurity in women seems to be running rampant, its getting worse as the years pass by. How can a guy be with a woman that is scared that you will leave her for somebody else, I will never be a beta man, never been one never will be one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spaz

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What's this?

A self proclaimed man's man is on a forum b1tching abt nervous women?

Doesn't compute with a manly image....
 

Roober

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Prejudice - preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience.

Your experience is limited...
Your lack reason with your expectations of her actions and limited surface level analysis of her situation...

Use your narrow analysis to support your purely subjective ideas and foster your prejudice.

Or

Find the source of your prejudice (mom,grief from past, lack of purpose, etc) and your disdain for women will disappear.

The choice is yours...
 

soulforge

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This thread you created is making me nervous!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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