"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women are whacked

051AV

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I've talked about how women act around me there are days I wish I was fvcking ugly and repulsive to women then I wouldn't have to deal with women that are so fvcking nervous around me.

A woman I know she's a couple years older than me, divorced, seen her today she was so nervous around me she gave me a quick smile she couldn't even say hi. Any time I do get some words out of her its almost like she's prairie doggin it from nervousness. Would I get involved with this woman? no, too much crap went down in her divorce not something I want to deal with.

Trust me its gets old engaging with women that are nervous, its not scared for their life nervous its I really like you nervous. Women today seem to be drawn to these beta type guys. I'm a lone wolf guy when I speak I'm forward there is no bullsh*t with me, I'm what a man is supposed to be. Insecurity in women seems to be running rampant, its getting worse as the years pass by. How can a guy be with a woman that is scared that you will leave her for somebody else, I will never be a beta man, never been one never will be one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's this?

A self proclaimed man's man is on a forum b1tching abt nervous women?

Doesn't compute with a manly image....
 

Roober

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Prejudice - preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience.

Your experience is limited...
Your lack reason with your expectations of her actions and limited surface level analysis of her situation...

Use your narrow analysis to support your purely subjective ideas and foster your prejudice.

Or

Find the source of your prejudice (mom,grief from past, lack of purpose, etc) and your disdain for women will disappear.

The choice is yours...
 

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This thread you created is making me nervous!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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