"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Women Are Too Indecisive To Go Shopping

taiyuu_otoko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2008
Messages
5,769
Reaction score
4,870
Location
象外
Says a Japanese politician.

Imagine if Trump said this!


The mayor of Osaka, Japan is taking heat after suggesting that men should do the grocery shopping amid the coronavirus pandemic because women are indecisive and "take a long time."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Georgepithyou

Banned
Joined
Jan 17, 2020
Messages
1,777
Reaction score
2,213
Age
30
Location
Sydney
His not wrong, but as usual the liberal media wants to crucify a male for daring to speak against women
 

redskinsfan92

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2018
Messages
1,827
Reaction score
1,459
Age
34
They go into gatherer mode and take a long time picking the best prpduct. Men go into hunter mode. They grab what they want quickly and leave. I've had women look at me oddly as I quickly walked into a store directly to what I wanted, grabbed it, and checked out 3 minutes later.
 

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,653
Reaction score
6,602
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
They go into gatherer mode and take a long time picking the best prpduct. Men go into hunter mode. They grab what they want quickly and leave. I've had women look at me oddly as I quickly walked into a store directly to what I wanted, grabbed it, and checked out 3 minutes later.
Once I was in the bread aisle and a woman saw me walk up, take a loaf of bread and put it in my cart. She smiled and said its amazing how men can just know what they want immediately and take it.

I told her “Well, it is said that in stores, women shop and men hunt. We already know what we want going in, so to us it’s a mission to be accomplished. We like to get in and get out.” She said “vive la difference” and was in genuine wonder about the whole thing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,653
Reaction score
6,602
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
Umm,,, she was probably 25 years older than I.

I swear I read your comment differently a few days ago. Funny.
 
Top