Women are so ****ing smart! (Always stay Calm)..

[GearsGod310]

I been smashing a new chick from the gym (22) for a month and a half now. In my eyes (Because looks are subjective) she's a solid 8.5 - 9.
Amazing body. Super attractive. Crazy huge EGO! Has loads of guys giving her attention on social media..
Little back story..

I followed her on IG in May and met her in person at the start of July. Before I met her I was doing a bunch of fxk sh1t on Ig posting at clubs having drinks, making out with different chicks.. etc.. I recall her always looking at my stories.

Anyway.. commented on one of her pics and she replied pretty positively, I pushed for a workout later in the week and she agreed. (This was the first time we met).
right after the workout - I said we're going for an açaí bowl, we deserve it, we had a good workout. She said ok.
Got acai bowls had good convo. then she asked me what I had going on for the rest of the day. I said I'ma go to my pool and tan. I said you can come if you'd like but if you got stuff going on, all good. She said I'm down let me just buy a bikini at tillys (we were literally right in front of of it)..
long story short she came over we go tan, got in the pool, I took some mikes lemonades and in a couple of mins of being in the pool we start hugging and kissing, shortly after we left back to my crib and I clapped. We have the most crazy secks chemistry!!

Throughout this month it has been an emotional rollercoaster with her, full of pullbacks and tests. A younger me would have failed miserably.
Now that I'm older I know how to maneuver around them and pass. But the game never ends! IT IS ABSOLUTELY INSANE, AND NOW THAT IM OLDER IT BLOWS MY MIND HOW SMART THESE CHICKS AT 22 ARE. THEY'RE MASTER MANIPULATORS! LITTLE STUPID TESTS ALL THE TIME! PULLBACKS, DELAYED TEXT. INVITING ME OUT THEN SAYING SHE HAVING A GIRLS NIGHT TO SEE IF I CHASE. JUST A BUNCH OF BULLSH1T.

I'VE NOW LEARNED THAT YES, THIS PROBABLY ISNT A WOMEN YOU WANNA SETTLE DOWN WITH, AND YOU GUYS SAY IT'S A HEADACHE AND NOT WORTH IT. BUT CAN YOU BLAME THEM? THEY'RE YOUNG, HOT AS FcK AND SHES PICKING YOU TO BE THE ONE TO SATISFY HER. JUST PLAY YOUR ROLE. YES YOU HAVE TO PLAY GAMES TOO. IT UNFORTUNATE BUT IT'S JUST HOW IT IS.

Just on Tuesday I took her to a resort in Palm Springs. I said something that hurt her ego.
She got extremely mad. I said if you're gonna in a mood let's go home. and she said ok. We started packing our stuff and I remained calmed. I was really gonna leave.

When she saw I was not joking about leaving. This was our convo.

Her: I'ma go to the pool and tan. I'll get an uber home. (We both live over an hour away from Palm Springs)
Me: No, I'm taking you home. I brought us here and I'm responsible for taking you back.
Her: Wtf, no you're not.
Me: You're not taking an uber.
Her: Motherfkr you called me .......... how tf are you going to say that. (YELLING)!

(I GOT UP AND GRABBED HER, PICKED HER UP AND LAYED HER DOWN ON THE BED, PUT MY FACE NEAR HERS, MINE OVER HERS).

Me: If you're going home we're going together because I need to make sue you get home safe. (Super Calm Tone).
Her: I can get home myself im not a fkn child!
Me: You're sure acting like one.
Her: (Whole demeanor changes and slightly smirks and stays quiet).
Me: Thats the last time you ever call me motherfkr, ok?
Her: Ok.
Me: We're going to the pool to tan and enjoy some drinks ok.
Her: Ok. (We both kiss).

She went from exploding to submissive in a couple of seconds. How are you gonna be yelling like a maniac to someone that so calm? she'll look stupid.
Always remain calm and never let her move you.

Rest of the night extremely affectionate. Literally all over me. Why? Because I didn't let her move me off center like a little btch.
Younger me would've heard her call me a motherfkr and probably would've called her a btch.

Point of this story never let a women see you lose your cool. She wins and she wont feel safe around you.
No matter what just be completely cool and handle **** like a man.
I personally think I did hurt her ego but it was one of the biggest **** tests she gave me so far.

Guys, women this age crave an emotional rollercoaster. it's the price you pay dating a 22 year old baddie with a banging body.
is it worth it for you? Idk. The ass hits different. I'm 32 and I don't wanna fk chicks my age who been ran through.

I'd be lying if I said I don't have feelings for her but I try to control them to the best of my ability.

Women this age are fun, they looking for adventure and you know whats the best - they haven't been sexually imprinted yet.
I touch her, kiss her, and fk her like no one else, use toys with her. Take my time with her body, spit in her mouth, make her *** with my hands.
I pull the call the car over on the freeway and bang her.
She texts me (When am I see you amor, I need you inside me).

All women at this age are in party mode and completely fkd in the head, looking for attention and validation.

This Palm Springs trip was on Tuesday & yesterday WEDNESDAY I went completely ghost - did not reply to any of her text the whole day.
I replied today Thursday in the morning at 9 AM, it's now 7 PM and she just replied. You think me going ghost hurt her ego? Of course, other wise she wouldn't have left such a huge gap in between texts, especially since she always takes an hour or 2 to reply. But she's now imprinted sexually and attached.
At 9AM I sent her a video of us fukin and she just texted me saying "UGH baby that makes me wanna see you again".

It hard not to fall for these chicks especially if they're beautiful. Enjoy them! Enjoy playing the game!

Much love boys!

 

[The Duke]

They all want a guy that puts them in their place when appropriate. That's what they appreciate. Be the rock when their waves crash against the shore line.

Job well done.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I’m not sure how to answer this or if she has her hooks on you or you on hers. But from what you describe, she sounds like a classic drama queen, which is someone who can’t thrive without emotional ups and downs. These types of women often avoid stability and calm because they crave excitement, tests, and challenges to feel alive.

The pullbacks, delayed texts, and mood swings aren’t random; they’re part of how she manages the relationship and keeps control. When you stay calm and don’t lose your cool, you give her the challenge she needs to stay engaged. If you become too predictable or “nice,” she’ll likely create drama or pull away to keep the emotional rollercoaster going.

What you’re doing, the calmness and refusal to be moved emotionally, gives her the challenge she craves, keeping her invested. It’s exactly what keeps her hooked. Just remember, relationships with these types of women tend to be intense and short-term rather than peaceful and long-lasting.

 

[Divorced w 3]

All I have to say is, well done. This is a great post. It feels genuine and I hope men here read it.

 

[Beyond It]

I been smashing a new chick from the gym (22) for a month and a half now. In my eyes (Because looks are subjective) she's a solid 8.5 - 9.
Amazing body. Super attractive. Crazy huge EGO! Has loads of guys giving her attention on social media..
Little back story..

I followed her on IG in May and met her in person at the start of July. Before I met her I was doing a bunch of fxk sh1t on Ig posting at clubs having drinks, making out with different chicks.. etc.. I recall her always looking at my stories.

Anyway.. commented on one of her pics and she replied pretty positively, I pushed for a workout later in the week and she agreed. (This was the first time we met).
right after the workout - I said we're going for an açaí bowl, we deserve it, we had a good workout. She said ok.
Got acai bowls had good convo. then she asked me what I had going on for the rest of the day. I said I'ma go to my pool and tan. I said you can come if you'd like but if you got stuff going on, all good. She said I'm down let me just buy a bikini at tillys (we were literally right in front of of it)..
long story short she came over we go tan, got in the pool, I took some mikes lemonades and in a couple of mins of being in the pool we start hugging and kissing, shortly after we left back to my crib and I clapped. We have the most crazy secks chemistry!!

Throughout this month it has been an emotional rollercoaster with her, full of pullbacks and tests. A younger me would have failed miserably.
Now that I'm older I know how to maneuver around them and pass. But the game never ends! IT IS ABSOLUTELY INSANE, AND NOW THAT IM OLDER IT BLOWS MY MIND HOW SMART THESE CHICKS AT 22 ARE. THEY'RE MASTER MANIPULATORS! LITTLE STUPID TESTS ALL THE TIME! PULLBACKS, DELAYED TEXT. INVITING ME OUT THEN SAYING SHE HAVING A GIRLS NIGHT TO SEE IF I CHASE. JUST A BUNCH OF BULLSH1T.

I'VE NOW LEARNED THAT YES, THIS PROBABLY ISNT A WOMEN YOU WANNA SETTLE DOWN WITH, AND YOU GUYS SAY IT'S A HEADACHE AND NOT WORTH IT. BUT CAN YOU BLAME THEM? THEY'RE YOUNG, HOT AS FcK AND SHES PICKING YOU TO BE THE ONE TO SATISFY HER. JUST PLAY YOUR ROLE. YES YOU HAVE TO PLAY GAMES TOO. IT UNFORTUNATE BUT IT'S JUST HOW IT IS.

Just on Tuesday I took her to a resort in Palm Springs. I said something that hurt her ego.
She got extremely mad. I said if you're gonna in a mood let's go home. and she said ok. We started packing our stuff and I remained calmed. I was really gonna leave.

When she saw I was not joking about leaving. This was our convo.

Her: I'ma go to the pool and tan. I'll get an uber home. (We both live over an hour away from Palm Springs)
Me: No, I'm taking you home. I brought us here and I'm responsible for taking you back.
Her: Wtf, no you're not.
Me: You're not taking an uber.
Her: Motherfkr you called me .......... how tf are you going to say that. (YELLING)!

(I GOT UP AND GRABBED HER, PICKED HER UP AND LAYED HER DOWN ON THE BED, PUT MY FACE NEAR HERS, MINE OVER HERS).

Me: If you're going home we're going together because I need to make sue you get home safe. (Super Calm Tone).
Her: I can get home myself im not a fkn child!
Me: You're sure acting like one.
Her: (Whole demeanor changes and slightly smirks and stays quiet).
Me: Thats the last time you ever call me motherfkr, ok?
Her: Ok.
Me: We're going to the pool to tan and enjoy some drinks ok.
Her: Ok. (We both kiss).

She went from exploding to submissive in a couple of seconds. How are you gonna be yelling like a maniac to someone that so calm? she'll look stupid.
Always remain calm and never let her move you.

Rest of the night extremely affectionate. Literally all over me. Why? Because I didn't let her move me off center like a little btch.
Younger me would've heard her call me a motherfkr and probably would've called her a btch.

Point of this story never let a women see you lose your cool. She wins and she wont feel safe around you.
No matter what just be completely cool and handle **** like a man.
I personally think I did hurt her ego but it was one of the biggest **** tests she gave me so far.

Guys, women this age crave an emotional rollercoaster. it's the price you pay dating a 22 year old baddie with a banging body.
is it worth it for you? Idk. The ass hits different. I'm 32 and I don't wanna fk chicks my age who been ran through.

I'd be lying if I said I don't have feelings for her but I try to control them to the best of my ability.

Women this age are fun, they looking for adventure and you know whats the best - they haven't been sexually imprinted yet.
I touch her, kiss her, and fk her like no one else, use toys with her. Take my time with her body, spit in her mouth, make her *** with my hands.
I pull the call the car over on the freeway and bang her.
She texts me (When am I see you amor, I need you inside me).

All women at this age are in party mode and completely fkd in the head, looking for attention and validation.

This Palm Springs trip was on Tuesday & yesterday WEDNESDAY I went completely ghost - did not reply to any of her text the whole day.
I replied today Thursday in the morning at 9 AM, it's now 7 PM and she just replied. You think me going ghost hurt her ego? Of course, other wise she wouldn't have left such a huge gap in between texts, especially since she always takes an hour or 2 to reply. But she's now imprinted sexually and attached.
At 9AM I sent her a video of us fukin and she just texted me saying "UGH baby that makes me wanna see you again".

It hard not to fall for these chicks especially if they're beautiful. Enjoy them! Enjoy playing the game!

Much love boys!

Just curious here. Is there an end game? Personally I never have an end game.
I agree with the handling of her manipulation of feinting anger and emotional intermittent psychosis.
However I seem to recoil a little at the idea that she is “smart”.
They are incredibly adept at judging and then manipulating to their advantage a man’s ego and emotions.
When a woman is analytically smart, she can create real things of use in the physical universe that bring about her optimum survival. She can create a new widget or a new type of product that brings about survival for others. In other words, she will have high mechanical aptitude. This doesn’t mean mechanical aptitude as in fixing a car.
mechanical aptitude is about seeing how something works and makes it better or sees something in the world and devises a solution by thinking through to an end product.

What she was doing was using her inherent biological instincts coupled with her adopted survival strategies in the framework of the social programming of the day.
But it is a good post example of how a man should act.
Using my definition of smart (I.Q.), it would not be part of the equation.

“one buzzed man is smarter (creation), than two women with PhD’s”

 

[Sega Genesis]

This may sound strange coming from a woman but I agree, well done!

She was turned on by (1) your protectiveness in needing to make sure she got home safely (no was NOT an option!) and (2) your commanding style!

I think it was a shyt test of sorts, although it may not have been intentional to manipulate you.

As you said (and I ageee) women are emotional creatures (sometimes irrational lol) and we need a man's emotional strength and calmness in situations like this to balance out our emotions!

I have NO doubt your actions earned you a TON of respect!

And agree more posts like this are needed because (and no disrespect to men) some men (not all) would have 'crumbled' and lost their shyt (especially after she called you a motherfkr which was NOT cool by any stretch)
exacerbating the sitch and come here complaining that women are bytches, for the streets, etc all because they didn't know how to handle the situation with strength and purpose.

JMO

QUOTE="GearsGod310, post: 3167718, member: 139484"]
Me: If you're going home we're going together because I need to make sue you get home safe. (Super Calm Tone).
Her: I can get home myself im not a fkn child!
Me: You're sure acting like one.
Her: (Whole demeanor changes and slightly smirks and stays quiet).
Me: Thats the last time you ever call me motherfkr, ok?
Her: Ok.
Me: We're going to the pool to tan and enjoy some drinks ok.
Her: Ok. (We both kiss).
[/QUOTE]

 

[GearsGod310]

I’m not sure how to answer this or if she has her hooks on you or you on hers. But from what you describe, she sounds like a classic drama queen, which is someone who can’t thrive without emotional ups and downs. These types of women often avoid stability and calm because they crave excitement, tests, and challenges to feel alive.

The pullbacks, delayed texts, and mood swings aren’t random; they’re part of how she manages the relationship and keeps control. When you stay calm and don’t lose your cool, you give her the challenge she needs to stay engaged. If you become too predictable or “nice,” she’ll likely create drama or pull away to keep the emotional rollercoaster going.

What you’re doing, the calmness and refusal to be moved emotionally, gives her the challenge she craves, keeping her invested. It’s exactly what keeps her hooked. Just remember, relationships with these types of women tend to be intense and short-term rather than peaceful and long-lasting.

Yea dude, I'm not immune to catching feelings, definitely feel something for her. Tbh man her ego is huge. I really try to keep the compliments very low, almost none. I think I give her enough validation through the way I bang her and how I setup dates. She's not stupid, she knows I like her. But not saying it verbally is probably what keeps her on her toes and gives her that uncertainty, and I never chase. I agree man this is probably something fleeting, I'm just riding the wave and enjoying it. I think thats all I can really do. The second I push for something else she'll be running for the hills. Made that mistake before too many times when I was younger..

Last saw her on Saturday we had some amazing secks. At around 3 AM walked her to her car, we kissed, TOLD HER "TEXT ME WHEN YOU GET HOME SO I KNOW YOUR SAFE". Walking back to my toward my crib, I got into my car instead and drove off to the gas station to buy some ****. She never texted me when she got home. Her ego is too big to say something like "Hey just got home, where did you go"? instead she texted me at like 5 PM the next day "Amor I keep forgetting to take your chain to my work to get it fixed". When she texts me almost every morning, saying good morning.

Oh yea and she had to work on a cruise for 4 months in September, now she's pretty much telling me she's cancelling. But I won't believe that till the day comes.

Dude it sucks playing these games so much. But it is what it is.. adapt and learn.

 

[GearsGod310]

Just curious here. Is there an end game? Personally I never have an end game.
I agree with the handling of her manipulation of feinting anger and emotional intermittent psychosis.
However I seem to recoil a little at the idea that she is “smart”.
They are incredibly adept at judging and then manipulating to their advantage a man’s ego and emotions.
When a woman is analytically smart, she can create real things of use in the physical universe that bring about her optimum survival. She can create a new widget or a new type of product that brings about survival for others. In other words, she will have high mechanical aptitude. This doesn’t mean mechanical aptitude as in fixing a car.
mechanical aptitude is about seeing how something works and makes it better or sees something in the world and devises a solution by thinking through to an end product.

What she was doing was using her inherent biological instincts coupled with her adopted survival strategies in the framework of the social programming of the day.
But it is a good post example of how a man should act.
Using my definition of smart (I.Q.), it would not be part of the equation.

“one buzzed man is smarter (creation), than two women with PhD’s”

Lmao, love this man. Possibly a very poor choice of a word on my part. But what I mean is they're very good at manipulating us to get a desired result, whatever that maybe... & definitely know how to throw some curveballs to knock you off center. I believe they do this to see if you're a btch like the rest of the guys that worship the ground they walk on. They love when you pass these tests.