“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Women are seduced by appearances.

Luthor Rex

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Women are seduced by appearances.

Have you ever met a greedy person? A person who really loved money? Not a worshiper of the dollar who is a slave to things outside his power, but someone who understands the importance of material goods.

Money is the root of much good in the world. With it we can buy healthcare for ourselves and our families. We can use it to take classes or purchase books or go on trips that will enrich our minds and our lives. Greedy people desire to learn the source of wealth, how it is produced and where it comes from and how to create it.

But women are seduced by appearances.

Women don’t love money; they love the appearance of wealth. Take the diamond engagement ring: diamonds are worthless. Yes, they are. Diamond prices are what they are because a corporation named DeBeers controls 60% of the international diamond market and artificially inflates the prices. When you buy a diamond its value goes down. Silver, gold and other precious metals and stones don’t lose their value like a diamond does.

Yet women love diamonds, because they love appearances. In that way women are the anti-stoics. The Stoics of the ancient world taught men to not be fooled by appearances and to understand the true value of the things in this world. They taught us to know what is in our power and what is not.

Women love bad boys because bad boys have the appearance of what women want. Scratch the surface of most bad boys and you’ll find a coward or an idiot or both. The truly dangerous men, the truly exciting men who secretly have hearts of gold aren’t out cruising singles bars or riding their bikes or doing other things to impress women. Bad boys are just the flip side of the coin of the nice guy, it is just another strategy used in an attempt to make women love them. And love them women do because women love appearances.

Love isn’t flowers and candy and diamond rings or vacations. Love is playing nurse to your woman when she is sick. Love is working extra hours to help pay for that class she needs to finish college. Love is holding your wife in your arms, fighting the grief in your heart, your hands sticky with her blood and her tears, because she just miscarried another child.

If you tell a woman you love her for her character, for her soul or her mind or whatever you want to call it, she will not understand you. If you tell her that you love her for her beauty, her face will light up and she will comprehend your meaning. This is because women are seduced by appearances, and because women will never be who you want them to be.
 

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What you mentioned about Stoics is on point. I agree with the essence of this thread, good stuff. I think Stoic philosophy is great btw.

"That moderation which nature prescribes, which limits our desires by resources restricted to our needs, has abandoned the field; it has now come to this - that to want only what is enough is a sign both of boorishness and of utter destitution".

-Lucius Annaeus Seneca
 

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Its not that I havent ever been with a girl, Believe me if you saw a picture of me and talked to me. You wouldnt believe me that I havent had sex with a girl. I've told girls this before and some guys, and there so shocked that most just laugh at me and tell me nice try. I've been called a player, **** like that. Just this one girl was different. We started making out and one thing led to another, but then my life got flipped and turned upside down. I'd like to take a minute just sit right there. I'll tell you how I became the prince of a town called Bel-Air.
 
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