"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women are scared of men

Hornet

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I've been browsing this forum for a while, and I've read the DJ Bible, but there's something I just don't get.

Women are scared of men. That seems like it should be intuitive. We're bigger, we have tons of testosterone, we play contact sports, we like weapons, and we kill people. Of course women are scared. They should be!

So just think. You approach a woman, then you wuss out. She's thinking "Ooh, a man is hitting on me... oh wait, he's more like a child or a woman, what a shame, what a waste of hormones."

You're a man. You don't have to prove your power. You have it by default!

But you lose it when you forget you could knock her unconscious with one blow.

You have it. Just shut up and feel it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A little uncouth, in terms of the "you could knock her out in one blow line", but the sentiment is on the mark.

Even the hottest, most beautiful, richest, smartest, etc. women are more or less hardwired to follow a man. Almost all women will willingly slip into a position of followership after a short period of time. Even 10s want the same thing that UGs want...to be loved, to have their prince, to be protected, to have the steady hand of a real man guiding them. Not the clenched fist, mind you, just a quiet and steady presence. They just have the luxury (and necessity) of weeding through a lot more guys and are forced to take control to do this.

Remember as you talk to her that, should you drop her defenses, get a couple dates, and get her to like you, that the few minutes/hours/days that society has given her to be in control (even this is subject to how you decide to act) will pale in comparison to how a man basically calls the shots until death do you two part.
 

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Yes. Men are naturally leaders of women.

They instinctively submit... until you give them reason to do otherwise.
 

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Anyone can submit to you. It's not just women. Men can submit to men too. The more important thing to question is how you get someone to submit to you. But there remains the fact that some people will just not submit to you, such as people with power and fame. Remember where you stand. Remember your place.

Get thrown in a party filled with female movie stars, singers, supermodels, politicians and such and have them all deride and ridicule you and you'll almost certainly lose your balls. Believe otherwise and you're just living in a dream world.
 

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Not in this society where men have been de-balled and women's power has increased. Now men are expected to be dumb weaklings who supplicate to the powerful women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Hornet
So just think. You approach a woman, then you wuss out. She's thinking "Ooh, a man is hitting on me... oh wait, he's more like a child or a woman, what a shame, what a waste of hormones."

You're a man. You don't have to prove your power. You have it by default!

But you lose it when you forget you could knock her unconscious with one blow.

You have it. Just shut up and feel it.
Seems to me that most men have forgotten what being a man is all about!

Women are illogical creatures who can't reason very well. They are complicated but they ain't rocket science. You aproach a woman, she either says yes or no, 2 outcomes, now tell me is that so hard? NO! it is not life or death situation, it is not a calculus midterm yet most seem to make it look that way! people make things seem way more complicated than they really are.
 

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Re: Re: Women are scared of men

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
Seems to me that most men have forgotten what being a man is all about!

Women are illogical creatures who can't reason very well. They are complicated but they ain't rocket science. You aproach a woman, she either says yes or no, 2 outcomes, now tell me is that so hard? NO! it is not life or death situation, it is not a calculus midterm yet most seem to make it look that way! people make things seem way more complicated than they really are.
Yes!

Men have forgotten. They must have.

At some point AFCs got the message that they're not the desirable men in the group. (Someone get picked last for dodgeball?) But instead of saying to themelves, "I'm a man, but I'm just a little lower than these other guys," they say, "I'm not a man at all, I'm nothing." That's the great mental mistake they make. Instead of seeing themselves as "lesser-men," they see themselves as "sub-men."

Can a lesser-man pick up chicks? Sure. Chicks are just chicks, and he's still a man.

Can a sub-man pick up chicks. Well, he doesn't even realize he is more powerful than women. Now, when you first approach her, the power difference is in the wrong direction. She's a human, you're not.
 
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