"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women are "Oppressed"

KingofPuss

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Read this article where NBA coach Stan Van Gundy was interviewed about the election.

http://www.sportingnews.com/nba/new...-interview-pistons/1vmykg1o2z5ok1qhrbxbh35rvd

SVG: I was always for equal pay and things like that. But there are so many other issues. Like when you see the Brock Turner case at Stanford. Here’s a man who got caught sexually assaulting a woman, and the courts don’t see it as a big deal. He got a six-month sentence because some judge said his life was important. But what does that say to women? Or you see this study from Harvard where a woman sends in the (same) resumé as a man and she gets called back four times less. All they did was change the first name and the men got more call backs. This what my daughters are up against. A lot of the time when you sit in a position of privilege like I do, you don’t realize how things are until you live closely to those are dealing with oppression. It’s the same with my players, staff and other people around the NBA.
This is madness.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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speed dawg

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Read this article where NBA coach Stan Van Gundy was interviewed about the election.

http://www.sportingnews.com/nba/new...-interview-pistons/1vmykg1o2z5ok1qhrbxbh35rvd



This is madness.
Men are their own worst enemy. I consider sh*theads like this a bigger enemy than I do the women he says are oppressed. If the revolution ever comes, guys like will be the first ones offed. The enabling cowards. People who have made it and are in a position where they will never feel the effects of their white knighting.
 

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"Beta males are essential to the system
…the matriarchal system could never operate efficiently without the hordes of male drones it has created. These men, preconditioned by their mothers and suffering from a self-imposed order of chivalry, consistently front for the system and its predatory female masters."
 
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