"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Women are more shallow than men.

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When people say looks don't matter as much to women, it's a half-truth. Men are impressed by overall beauty. Women might take a guy who has more perceived (notice I say perceived) masculinity than a guy who's much better looking but more "pretty." Ask women who they'd rather have, a guy like Vin Diesel/The Rock or Tom Cruise/Bon Jovi. Cruise and Bon Jovi, even if they weren't famous, would get women with their looks, but they'd have to work a lot harder for it even though women think they look really good. Vin Diesel, as much as he wants to claim he was a dnd nerd who couldn't get a date, if he looked like did now back then and didn't have an ounce of fame, he'd still have mass appeal to women.

Women consider guys like wiggers, burnouts, drug dealers, preppy/wiggers with an identity crisis (you know the kind, they look like they grew up in a really white family, wear A and F mixed with Paco and Boss, those really thin sideburns and a popped up collar and talk like a wigger) are the guys that I see getting laid with ease. These guys aren't DJs, alpha, or cool, or even someone desirable. Women simply perceive them as having status, perceived intimidation and respect, when in reality, everyone is laughing at those kind of guys.

On the other hand, I see men with all types of women. True, some guys settle and go for the universal UG0-4 out of desperation, but some guys just have bad taste or like different things. I know guys that like latinas, asians, white women, black women, gothic women. True, not a lot of guys like fat women as an ideal, but just about every other type of woman, there's a market for them.

Some guys on this site only like maxim girls, playboy bunnies, pornstars, and supermodels, but they're mentally-masturbating anyway. These women aren't commonplace unless you live in LA, and you better have something about you that stands out if you want one of these girls because they've heard and seen it all.

Getting back to my point, while a lot of guys on this site are shallow and want some dime when they couldn't even seduce Oprah, a lot of guys on this site and a lot of guys in real life are open-minded about women. Women on the other hand all think they're entitled to the same 10% of the male population.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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:crackup: LOL HAHAHAHA

no disrespect at all but How you emphasized that men are somehow on a deeper level than woman is hilarious !!!
 

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What you are talking about is sort of the keys of attraction.

Really what you are trying to say is men have a scarcity mindset when it comes to women and it hinders them a lot. This is right.

How do you know that a woman would rather have whatever hollywood actor vs. the next? Usually when they say things like "I'd rather have him" that is based on their looks only. Everything else is false, because it is hollywood all they even really know is whats on the surface + a smidgeon of their lifestyles. Their pesonalities on movies might play a part, but they vary so much from movie to movie because of their job description that you don't know if it's one of their performances or what that makes any woman want X star.

Does any of that really matter anyway? If you see they're doing something that works find out what it is and adapt it to your style.
 
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