Women are loads of FUN for a DJ

[PlayHer Man]

When used for the right purpose.. they are loads of fun.

The mistake most men make is taking them too seriously. By this I mean.. trying to bond, commit, marry and get along with them. That's the mistake.

Here is what you should do instead --> Enjoy them.

Think about.. with every new plate you spin.. there are endless possibilities where that relationship might go. It can be a wild ride since women are notoriously unpredictable. Each new relationship is like a movie you've never seen before. Will she flake? Will she be a freak in bed? Will she be a psycho stalker? Will she fall in love? Will she be BPD? Will she try to get pregnant? Who knows!:crackup: :crackup: That's the fun of it.. finding out. Then having stories to tell your friends.

Once you stop worrying about keeping women the game becomes very entertaining. Sure there will be drama and danger.. but you grow from every challenge.

Learn to just have FUN watching their crazy behavior instead of getting p!ssed off. It can be a wild ride and a fun game my friends. Its all about perspective. :yes:

For me.. I'm at the point where I try to see how much I can get away with. Yeah.. I'm kind of a douche. I spin plates recklessly.. not caring if I get caught. Then watch them freak out or fight over me. Its very entertaining to watch women lose control. Its even erotic at times. That's when I know they give a sh!t. Angry sex is fun too.

 

[corrector]

So, translation: If you have the looks that women want, then you will have plenty of options picking them up from either online or anywhere else, and then you'll have plenty of fun since you are spinning plates and won't take any single one seriously. If you do not have the looks that women want, then you'll likely settle for the first woman that is half-decent with you, and you will probably take her seriously. If you don't have the right looks then women aren't fun because who likes to get be rejected or hold on to their only option for dear life?

The OP is probably has the looks that women want and has no problem getting dates from online dating sites or out in public? Correct?

 

[PlayHer Man]

So, translation: If you have the looks that women want, then you will have plenty of options picking them up from either online or anywhere else, and then you'll have plenty of fun since you are spinning plates and won't take any single one seriously. If you do not have the looks that women want, then you'll likely settle for the first woman that is half-decent with you, and you will probably take her seriously. If you don't have the right looks then women aren't fun because who likes to get be rejected or hold on to their only option for dear life?

The OP is probably has the looks that women want and has no problem getting dates from online dating sites or out in public? Correct?

I'm not ugly, but I'm not a male model either. Also.. looks are more subjective with women than men. Some guys do well just looking tough and having loads of tattoos.. even if they're ugly. Looks matter, but there are many "looks" women go for.

If you believe you're too ugly to get laid then you won't get laid. Women will sense your insecurity.

Any guy who is at least 5' 7" in height and dresses well / looks clean can spin plates easily. If you won't f*ck anything below a HB9.. then you'll have less options by default.. even if you're a male model. The HB6-HB8 range is the sweet spot for most men.

 

[Zarky]

Don't even bother responding. He's another "physical looks account for 100% of your dating success" troll from PUAhate.

Damn, this site is now basically 100% trolls.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

When used for the right purpose.. they are loads of fun.

The mistake most men make is taking them too seriously. By this I mean.. trying to bond, commit, marry and get along with them. That's the mistake.

Here is what you should do instead --> Enjoy them.

Think about.. with every new plate you spin.. there are endless possibilities where that relationship might go. It can be a wild ride since women are notoriously unpredictable. Each new relationship is like a movie you've never seen before. Will she flake? Will she be a freak in bed? Will she be a psycho stalker? Will she fall in love? Will she be BPD? Will she try to get pregnant? Who knows!:crackup: :crackup: That's the fun of it.. finding out. Then having stories to tell your friends.

Once you stop worrying about keeping women the game becomes very entertaining. Sure there will be drama and danger.. but you grow from every challenge.

Learn to just have FUN watching their crazy behavior instead of getting p!ssed off. It can be a wild ride and a fun game my friends. Its all about perspective. :yes:

For me.. I'm at the point where I try to see how much I can get away with. Yeah.. I'm kind of a douche. I spin plates recklessly.. not caring if I get caught. Then watch them freak out or fight over me. Its very entertaining to watch women lose control. Its even erotic at times. That's when I know they give a sh!t. Angry sex is fun too.

This is how it was when I was younger. NOW, I actually enjoy BONDING with women. Telling them stories, laughing WITH them. I did the same things back in the day but before it was all about getting into their pants. Kind of still is now but I like hanging out with women that I have some kind of respect level for....where I enjoy it even if we don't have sex.

You're right about viewing it as some type of fun ride though. I've always tried to see it that way. If you don't take things too seriously then you can't really be bothered by it when things don't go your way.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DW7XjA6JL2s

 

[cof33]

This is how it was when I was younger. NOW, I actually enjoy BONDING with women. Telling them stories, laughing WITH them. I did the same things back in the day but before it was all about getting into their pants. Kind of still is now but I like hanging out with women that I have some kind of respect level for....where I enjoy it even if we don't have sex.

You're right about viewing it as some type of fun ride though. I've always tried to see it that way. If you don't take things too seriously then you can't really be bothered by it when things don't go your way.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DW7XjA6JL2s

Great you posted that i find it hilarious how jerry would deal with woman he was a great DJ if u ask me.

Seinfeld wat a funny guy that bastard is :crackup:

 

[Trump]

This is how it was when I was younger. NOW, I actually enjoy BONDING with women. Telling them stories, laughing WITH them. I did the same things back in the day but before it was all about getting into their pants. Kind of still is now but I like hanging out with women that I have some kind of respect level for....where I enjoy it even if we don't have sex.

Are you serious? I'm in my 30s and now its all about sex or get out of my face. Who wants to bond with a women and enjoy their company at our age? What good is a girl now if she doesn't give it up in 8 seconds?

In my experience, I've learned if she doesn't give it up fast, she's going to use me for her ego. Enjoying the experience, enjoying the ride, learning about them, she can do that for the next guy. For me its either: give sex, spend money or me, or get out of my face.

 

[j0504s]

When used for the right purpose.. they are loads of fun.

The mistake most men make is taking them too seriously. By this I mean.. trying to bond, commit, marry and get along with them. That's the mistake.

Here is what you should do instead --> Enjoy them.

Think about.. with every new plate you spin.. there are endless possibilities where that relationship might go. It can be a wild ride since women are notoriously unpredictable. Each new relationship is like a movie you've never seen before. Will she flake? Will she be a freak in bed? Will she be a psycho stalker? Will she fall in love? Will she be BPD? Will she try to get pregnant? Who knows!:crackup: :crackup: That's the fun of it.. finding out. Then having stories to tell your friends.

Once you stop worrying about keeping women the game becomes very entertaining. Sure there will be drama and danger.. but you grow from every challenge.

Learn to just have FUN watching their crazy behavior instead of getting p!ssed off. It can be a wild ride and a fun game my friends. Its all about perspective. :yes:

For me.. I'm at the point where I try to see how much I can get away with. Yeah.. I'm kind of a douche. I spin plates recklessly.. not caring if I get caught. Then watch them freak out or fight over me. Its very entertaining to watch women lose control. Its even erotic at times. That's when I know they give a sh!t. Angry sex is fun too.

PlayHer Man!!!
I can't even begin to tell you how great of a post this is...I feel that most men (90%) are actually intimidated by women...and they take everything they say perssonally and let it effect their little egos, and they lose site of whats important which is clearly Fun and Happiness...What you do pretty much mirrors me, I am someone who is 100% cold approach, so every approach, I am most of the time "Fvcking with the female" if im not having fun whats the point...

Great post +1 rep

tried repping but............
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to PlayHer Man again.

 

[JohnChops]

Don't even bother responding. He's another "physical looks account for 100% of your dating success" troll from PUAhate.

Damn, this site is now basically 100% trolls.

except you zarky

I agree playherman, i love this attitude. Just not care, fvck it, enjoy the ride.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Are you serious? I'm in my 30s and now its all about sex or get out of my face. Who wants to bond with a women and enjoy their company at our age? What good is a girl now if she doesn't give it up in 8 seconds?

In my experience, I've learned if she doesn't give it up fast, she's going to use me for her ego. Enjoying the experience, enjoying the ride, learning about them, she can do that for the next guy. For me its either: give sex, spend money or me, or get out of my face.

Didn't think it would be a popular post. Yeah, banging random sluts you pick up at bars are fun, sweet....but it's not very rewarding. I'm past the age where I'm sowing my wild oats and trying to build my numbers. Don't get me wrong, when I go out with friends or by myself the goal is to bring home a chick....but I'm just as happy meeting a non-slut that I could see myself building some type of relationship with. I'd rather have a few quality girls hanging around, ones I get along with AND have sex with. Going to dinner, movies, concerts, parties....with a chick.... Believe it or not, and contrary to popular belief on this site, that **** can actually be fun!!

 

[corrector]

Don't even bother responding. He's another "physical looks account for 100% of your dating success" troll from PUAhate.

Damn, this site is now basically 100% trolls.

Am I a troll now? Then why some guys experiencing lots of success meeting girls online dating, while other guys may only connect with a girl once in a blue moon? Again, it is common knowledge that the first thing girls look at on a profile is the looks (profile picture), then the age, then the height before hearing that what that profile has to offer to her. Internet dating success is directly proportional to your looks.

 

[Zarky]

And how do you know what girls look at on a guys profile, my friend?

 

[nismo-4]

And how do you know what girls look at on a guys profile, my friend?

My friend, they look at the pics first. Then the profile. Men damn near do the same thing. Pics don't pass, message goes in the trash.

It's all a game dammit. F**k it! I've gotten a bunch of numbers off of POF, and I've got no problems deleting it if they go nowhere or if they blur (call once, never hear from again) or flake.

 

[PlayHer Man]

ALL men should boycott online dating. Its an utter waste of time.

You can pull hotter and less crazy women in person. If you want to meet women, get off your ass. Don't go on dating sites.

Sh!t... even Facebook is better for meeting women than dating sites. Dates sites are full of freaks, retards, nut-bags and nasty fatties. The hot girls are usually attention wh0res or batsh!t medicated crazies. The rest are ugly, fat, cross eyed or retarded.

You're really scraping the BOTTOM of the barrel when you venture Online (in most cases).