"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women are like fire

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So having female energy around, when its the RIGHT kind can certainly be a good thing. The problem is that most women/female energy is like fire. It takes a real man to truly harness it and allow it to power him, keep him warm, etcetc..the problem herein lies in the fact most men these days lack the skills and attitude to control the female energy/fire.

Using out DJ skills/redpill thinking we can be masters of the fire, but if misused or a weak man will get burned playing with fire. you can certainly achieve whats needed, lest you go down in flames due to beta ignorance. Good luck again fellas this is just some motivation here. We're all gonna make it brah
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So having female energy around, when its the RIGHT kind can certainly be a good thing. The problem is that most women/female energy is like fire. It takes a real man to truly harness it and allow it to power him, keep him warm, etcetc..the problem herein lies in the fact most men these days lack the skills and attitude to control the female energy/fire.

Using out DJ skills/redpill thinking we can be masters of the fire, but if misused or a weak man will get burned playing with fire. you can certainly achieve whats needed, lest you go down in flames due to beta ignorance. Good luck again fellas this is just some motivation here. We're all gonna make it brah
She's not going to give out the same energy to every man tho. So it might the energy she gives to another might be nice or useless crappy grease.
 

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after 5 years of properly "studying" women & the game id say I just about know how to harness it

it only takes one fvck up though and as you say you will get burnt

discipline is key
 

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Haha, makes sense why Bruce Lee said "become like water my friend".

Women really are like fire, if you're afraid of them you'll surely burn yourself on them. I don't fear either, I follow the safety guidelines. But like fire, women should also be respected.
 

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I don't know who originally said this, but it was someone wiser than myself.

Government is like fire, it is a dangerous servant and a fearful master. Never for a moment should it be left to irresponsible action.
Remove government, insert women. Same thing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The main problem is most men approach women from a position of inferiority: Chasing, bowing, scraping, apologizing, performing, asking permission, etc. Gay sh!t.

When the PUA community pushed the whole "be c0cky and funny" thing it was based on approaching women from a position of superiority. When you believe you are superior to women.. they will believe it too. And they believed it through most of history until men got soft.

Women still believe themselves to be the weaker sex. This is why they cannot respect any man whom they can easily control, frustrate or embarrass. To her, that makes her the stronger one. This is why women "test" men. To find out if he is stronger than her or a faggot.

True Story: This b!tch at work recently tried to manipulate and intimidate me into doing things her way. She even tried to tell me how to do my job and offered to "help me" in a patronizing way. I basically told her "f*ck what you think". I then took it a step further and told management suggestions on how she could better do her job. Now I am basically her boss and management often checks with me first on issues related to her.

Your job as a man is to dominate women at all times and in all ways.
 

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Indeed fellas, glad we are all on the same page here
 

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The main problem is most men approach women from a position of inferiority: Chasing, bowing, scraping, apologizing, performing, asking permission, etc. Gay sh!t.

When the PUA community pushed the whole "be c0cky and funny" thing it was based on approaching women from a position of superiority. When you believe you are superior to women.. they will believe it too. And they believed it through most of history until men got soft.

Women still believe themselves to be the weaker sex. This is why they cannot respect any man whom they can easily control, frustrate or embarrass. To her, that makes her the stronger one. This is why women "test" men. To find out if he is stronger than her or a faggot.

True Story: This b!tch at work recently tried to manipulate and intimidate me into doing things her way. She even tried to tell me how to do my job and offered to "help me" in a patronizing way. I basically told her "f*ck what you think". I then took it a step further and told management suggestions on how she could better do her job. Now I am basically her boss and management often checks with me first on issues related to her.

Your job as a man is to dominate women at all times and in all ways.
Poon I'm very curious. What is your job? Was this girl lower position or higher to tell you how to do it? You can't really dominate if the woman is in charge of the company.
 

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Poon I'm very curious. What is your job? Was this girl lower position or higher to tell you how to do it? You can't really dominate if the woman is in charge of the company.
I manage projects. This b!tch was on the same level as me but different role and different job. I knew from talking to others that her goal was to rise up in the company and later become my boss. So I f*cked that up for her and now she is under me.. though not "offically". Bottom line.. she will never be my boss because not only do I handle my own job, but I give her assignments where she has to be accountable to me. She is pretty embarrassed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I manage projects. This b!tch was on the same level as me but different role and different job. I knew from talking to others that her goal was to rise up in the company and later become my boss. So I f*cked that up for her and now she is under me.. though not "offically". Bottom line.. she will never be my boss because not only do I handle my own job, but I give her assignments where she has to be accountable to me. She is pretty embarrassed.
Top man.
 
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