“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jurry said:
I know your failures with women have made you so miserable that you take to internet forums to whine about them and divert arguments with nonsense and flame strangers to feel good about yourself, its ok.
Nice bait and switch considering you've just spent the last two posts hating on"dumbass housewife" girlfriends and women who *GASP* cook.
 

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:yes: "Intimidated" by a certain type of woman is a word generally used by net drain careerist hags and "men" like this and this
Those pictures are the most hilarious thing I've seen in weeks.
 

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Danger said:
If you can't challenge yourself and you need a "strong woman" to do it, I know all I need to know about you. That is the epitome of inner-game issues.

Grow up and become independent. Challenge yourself and you won't need a woman who acts like a man to do it for you. Life lesson for you, women love the dominance they don't want to dominate you.
Except that i dont need a woman for that, you just decided that you think you know anything about me because of one comment. Two people can be independent and do their own thing, they dont need dumb supplicating doormats in their life telling them how special they are.

Again, you know nothin about me so shut the fvck up.
 

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Traditional gender roles? Give her a cubicle and papers to push or give her death!!!

jurry said:
Two people can be independent and do their own thing, they dont need dumb supplicating doormats in their life telling them how special they are.
Uh oh he's? stepping up the shaming. Take that housewives across the nation :box:

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Again, you know nothin about me so shut the fvck up.
Meeoow!!
 

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Uh oh he's? stepping up the shaming. Take that housewives across the nation :box:



Meeoow!!

Not shaming anyone all i did was point out that not every guy needs a housewife who spends all her time sittin around trying to please her man. I prefer to have people in my life with their own goals, their own life, who can teach me new things and vice versa.

But your neanderthal brain can only think in absolutes and idiotic generalities that you copy and paste from manosphere websites, so anyone who disagrees with you is automatically a feminist pvssy who wants to destroy the male race.

Do you ever contribute anything of value here or just try and figure out how to be the biggest cvnt possible each day? Go back and finish high school you relentless chode.
 

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jurry said:
Not shaming anyone all i did was point out that not every guy needs a housewife who spends all her time sittin around trying to please her man.
At what point though does she stop being a "dumbass doormat housewife" to you? What if she cooks for her family but took a few classes on wymenz studies in the late nineties? Would that be sufficient enough of a "challenge" for you?

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I prefer to have people in my life with their own goals, their own life, who can teach me new things and vice versa.
But can she have her own "goals" and "life" without turning up to her non-productive cubicle to shuffle papers for 8 hours a day? That's the million dollar question. Can jurry be "challenged" without her sociology degree?? Hmmmm.
 

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Jurry, are you a woman?
 

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Danger said:
You DID say challenged by.


Ask yourself why is it you need a woman challenging you in order to grow.

  • Is it her anger that motivates you?
  • Her cutting off your access to the vag?
  • Are you afraid to lose her?

Help us understand why you need her for that challenge and motivation and maybe we can help you get past that.
Its actually really simple, let me lay it out for you and see if you can wrap your head around this amazing concept.

When i meet new people (girls included), being an independent man, I am also looking for the SAME in others. I want to be around people who know things I dont know, have tried things I havent tried, in other words present something NEW and different and challenge me. To step out of your comfort zone and try new things and meet new people that will perhaps open up a whole different world to me, this is the definition of growth my simple friends.

You guys keep trying to blow this up into some absurd psychological collapse that has horrific consequences for our society at large, I guess because you're scared of womens equality or you dont want to admit the possibility that a girl could be "better" than you and change you in some way. I dont really get it. If you prefer a deferential unquestioning moron of a woman who only knows how to cook and get her nails done, then cool, to each his own as I said before. But I dont want it, nor do I see why any true DJ would want it.
 

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jurry said:
I guess because you're scared of womens equality or you dont want to admit the possibility that a girl could be "better" than you.
Again, I don't think words like "scared" are accurate. Women are not better than us. That's just a fact. In fact, I believe that men are better than women. I'm not "scared" at opposing viewpoints; in fact, it makes me laugh.

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If you prefer a deferential unquestioning moron of a woman who only knows how to cook and get her nails done, then cool
Nothing wrong with a woman who likes to cook and get her nails done. I really think you are undervaluing this type of woman.
 

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Ya it makes sense since women are the only sex that are allowed to seek validation from people and that includes the opposite sex
 

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jurry said:
You guys keep trying to blow this up into some absurd psychological collapse that has horrific consequences for our society at large, .
That's exactly what it is Jurry, a collapse.

Equality on certain things would be great but it has gone too far. Example:


Equality: Assuming both parties work equal hours at work, the man does 50% of the cooking, cleaning, house repairs, yard work, labor around the house, etc. The woman does the other 50% of the exact same
Reality today: AT BEST there may be women who do 50% of the cooking and cleaning (though rare). But men still do nearly 100% of the house repairs, labor, yard work, etc, etc.


Equality: Companies hire people based on their skills that are equal to what are required for said position
Reality: Opp, too many men here, so let's hire this woman's skills are NOT equal to what we need just because she is a woman (and boss things he might get to fvck her someday too)

Equality: 50% of divorces are filed by men, 50% by women
Reality: (and you can look this up too, been lots on it lately). 75% of divorces are filed by women (and 50% of married women cheat)

Equality: unless there is strong evidence to the contrary, after every divorce the kids should go 50% to the mother and 50% to the father
Reality: in far more than most cases they full time to the mother and the father gets them every other weekend, and pays for mother's new car or new annual vacation with his child support


From the sound of your posts you sound like you are female, you write just like one (no offense, sorta). But I could be wrong. So tell us a little about yourself. Many of us on his board me included are always looking for good stories about women too, we just don't find many.. Why don't you tell us some of your good personal experiences and tell us how you are 28 and every women you have ever been with has been great to you? We would love to hear it.
 

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Genesis 2:18. "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him."
For him. I like that part. It doesn't say "to belittle him". It says "for him".
 

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Darth said:
For him. I like that part. It doesn't say "to belittle him". It says "for him".
I'm Agnostic but open to learn anything about religion that doesn't defy logic.

Dunno about you guys but I have really been enjoying this and the other bible versus we have talked about on SS these past few days. In specific, the ones that talk about relationships between men and women. These verses drive home the core points that most of us here already know: the dynamic between men and women in 2014 is really f\_/cked up bad. And they most certainly don't defy any logic that I can figure out. Seems pretty straight forward to me.
 

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I love meeting new people too, and getting different perspectives, but that is an entirely different subject than you started on, as I have shown by quoting your first response filled with hatred for the woman who chooses to take on the domestic workload.


You can grow, and step out of your comfort zone, and challenge yourself, all while having a sweet, submissive, feminine house-wife who does not believe as you do that nurturing the home is a bad thing.

But your logic still presents the same question you refuse to answer.....

  • Why do you need a wife who challenges you?
  • Why can't you challenge yourself?
  • Why do you need a mentally masculine wife to make you a better person?
  • Why would you hate on a woman who WANTS to stay home and nurture the family and take care of the children and household?
  • Why would you demean the value of a housewife and what they do?

A person with strong inner game does not need these things, and recognizes the value that women bring to the home.
My response was not "filled with hatred for the woman who chooses to take on the domestic workload", it was pointing out my lack of interest in someone who has nothing else to offer besides taking care of the house. Again, you're trying to read so far into everything I'm saying and make it as extreme as possible. The only point I made is that not everyone wants this type of woman, I did NOT say that ALL woman who nurture the home are bad. You're just trying to create disagreement and an argument where there isn't one.

1. I already answered this above. 2. I do challenge myself. 3. I never said I need a "mentally masculine wife", you just decided that you think you know me for some reason. 4 and 5 again are the same point I addressed in previous paragraph.

Most women do housework, I love a sweet and feminine girl as you do. This isn't the point of the OP's original thread. He's saying that EVERYTHING a woman does should be to please you and thats all she is good for. He thinks men are better than women. Can you really not see the distinction I am making? Cooking and cleaning is great, but I'm looking for a lot more in a woman. And I love and respect them as equals, not servants.

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Why don't you tell us some of your good personal experiences and tell us how you are 28 and every women you have ever been with has been great to you? We would love to hear it.
The way you phrase this question (how a woman has treated you) implies that you are a passive victim to the whims of the girl you are with. If you are a man that has control over his life then you would not ask such a question. Women can treat you like **** if they can get away with it, that is the point of so many posts in the DJ bible. If you are a pandering beta just praying for a woman to grace you with her time, then yes you will be crushed by them. If you are a confident man in control of yourself, this would not happen.

My experiences with women on the whole are very positive, they are amazing, beautiful creatures - I'm not going to write down a whole history of it, it doesn't really matters for this conversion. But this adversarial approach a lot of you have with women is very concerning, you seem to make it into this "us versus them" mentality which I can't imagine being very helpful to you. We are here to connect and love each other, and it isn't about men being better than woman or vice versa.
 

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jurry said:
My response was not "filled with hatred for the woman who chooses to take on the domestic workload", it was pointing out my lack of interest in someone who has nothing else to offer besides taking care of the house. Again, you're trying to read so far into everything I'm saying and make it as extreme as possible. The only point I made is that not everyone wants this type of woman, I did NOT say that ALL woman who nurture the home are bad. You're just trying to create disagreement and an argument where there isn't one.

1. I already answered this above. 2. I do challenge myself. 3. I never said I need a "mentally masculine wife", you just decided that you think you know me for some reason. 4 and 5 again are the same point I addressed in previous paragraph.

Most women do housework, I love a sweet and feminine girl as you do. This isn't the point of the OP's original thread. He's saying that EVERYTHING a woman does should be to please you and thats all she is good for. He thinks men are better than women. Can you really not see the distinction I am making? Cooking and cleaning is great, but I'm looking for a lot more in a woman. And I love and respect them as equals, not servants.



The way you phrase this question (how a woman has treated you) implies that you are a passive victim to the whims of the girl you are with. If you are a man that has control over his life then you would not ask such a question. Women can treat you like **** if they can get away with it, that is the point of so many posts in the DJ bible. If you are a pandering beta just praying for a woman to grace you with her time, then yes you will be crushed by them. If you are a confident man in control of yourself, this would not happen.

My experiences with women on the whole are very positive, they are amazing, beautiful creatures - I'm not going to write down a whole history of it, it doesn't really matters for this conversion. But this adversarial approach a lot of you have with women is very concerning, you seem to make it into this "us versus them" mentality which I can't imagine being very helpful to you. We are here to connect and love each other, and it isn't about men being better than woman or vice versa.
And I'm supposed to embrace taking the god damn lead? never have embraced it and I never will, I do it because I have to not because I wan to
 

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jurry said:
Most women do housework,


The way you phrase this question (how a woman has treated you) implies that you are a passive victim to the whims of the girl you are with.
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Yeah, I have been a victim in the past and was beta at one time. Many/most men have been beta at one time. I messed up bad. I married a woman who was a bigamist and had two other husbands in two other States. She cheated on me with 3 other dudes, got me arrested, and made me loose my job as a Cyber Crime Detective for a medium sized city. She NEARLY ruined my life for good but I have recovered.

What changed for me? When did I "get it" and swallow the red pill? It was when I quit listening to people like you.

I am glad things have gone well for you with women. Perhaps you should start a new thread and really get into it? We need more positive stories on this site. Then, come back in 10 years and tell us if women are still just as great.
 
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