Pandora said:
I have never heard it put this way before. It makes alot of sense now.
The reason i started this thread is because its become hard to talk to women on a non superficial level. I have a couple hot female friends now and a girlfriend. It seems like their favorite topic of discussion is other people. It good to know that other men have experienced the same thing. With my girlfriend sometimes i want to have an intellectual convo about philosophy or sumthin with her bringing up some useless topic.
Once u have gotten past the whole im just trying to get chicks thing, you start to notice things like this.
damn brah lol, you don't have to be so extreme. you act like, we are either going to talk about her favorite shoe, or we are going to take about cap and trade regulations lol,. There are t hings you can talk about that are not serious, but aren't superficial.
It seems like their favorite topic of discussion is other people.
well there is your problem with there, you aren't leading. a conversation with a woman is like a good dance, the man leads, the woman follows, but does most the dancing. I can talk so this has never been a problem for me.
With my girlfriend sometimes i want to have an intellectual convo about philosophy or sumthin with her bringing up some useless topic.
that's why god invented internet forums. to talk about **** you can't talk about with women
Once u have gotten past the whole im just trying to get chicks thing, you start to notice things like this
lol that has absolutely nothing to do with it. **** i'm engaged and I don't talk with my finacee about the **** you talk with women about. she asks me (seriously) why charlie sheen can smoke crack and function and i can't lol. we had a good night long debate about that, **** good for him. we talka bout the colors for our wedding, well she tells me about what they are going to be is more like it, I made a suggestion and she came back and had ignored it, i just gave up then. we watch netflix, talk about food we want to eat, we play hide and seak with our son, we play super mario, we tak about how much arknasas basketball sucks and i explain to her how we used to be pretty freaking sweet back in the day and what 40 minutes of hell was. we have fun, even after 3 years. why would i want to come home or stop working as i work from home, and talk to my woman about the uprising in the middle east or the 2012 presidential election. That tells me you don't have an outlet. men never talked to wmen about that type of ****, they talked to other men about that.
“Men are the warriors, women are the relaxation to the warriors." ~ Nietzsche