"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women are *****es!

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How do you guy's cope with all the hate you have for women?, and yeah they're are alot of guy's like me who feel that way.

I was sober going out for a few weeks, i got to see all the stupid **** women do to guy's .. which has just made me really ****ed off with em.

Now i'm back on the drink tonight and going out to do my thing.But it's going to be hard considering i cannot stand they're **** and the fact they think they're **** does'nt stink.

Anyway, what's the point in us a a sex to worship they're useless worthless bodies?.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Demonicale said:
How do you guy's cope with all the hate you have for women?
Sex.



...... And, not all women are that way. I know you've heard that 324 times. So have I. But there are gems out there (seriously). You just have to find them.

It's hard because most of them are already in relationships (smart men know to keep these girls around for the long-haul.)

We often (aka always/constantly) forget this - and that's really the reason why it's so difficult so get into a solid relationship. Time is the only constant, and with time you can find quality women. They do exist. It's a numbers game, no matter what anyone says - It's a numbers game.
 

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I don't hate women.
The fact is that the situation is what it is, women have a certain brain make up and we have to learn to succeed with it.

It really is that simple.

Bitterness and resentment will get you no where, the key is to learn how to avoid being the guy that has all the horrible things done to them by women. The unfortunate thing is that I think in most cases you have to fail in order to know how to prevent failure.
 

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not all of them man. half of them are yes but not all. there are some real nice quality girls out there... i'm with one atm.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LoneWolf said:
not all of them man. half of them are yes but not all. there are some real nice quality girls out there... i'm with one atm.
Ok i'll admit their maybe SOME who are'nt *****es, but it's getting to the point where like 80 - 90% of them are.

I mean when i go out i'm a real good guy, in a way as in i'm not a jackass .. but they just seem to take the piss or just treat me badly.

I HONESTLY believe they want men to be absolute ****s to them ..
 

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Demonicale said:
Ok i'll admit their maybe SOME who are'nt *****es, but it's getting to the point where like 80 - 90% of them are.

I mean when i go out i'm a real good guy, in a way as in i'm not a jackass .. but they just seem to take the piss or just treat me badly.

I HONESTLY believe they want men to be absolute ****s to them ..
bro i feel you, i really do. i been in that stage my whole life. i've always had this hatred toward most girls. i just look at them and give them evils cause they sh1t me. especially them real b1tches who wear skimpy clothes and act immature. i despise them. i won't lie but it's a fuking mission finding a real nice girl. dime a dozen man but it will happen one day bro. it's like finding gold... you gotta get all the rocks (b1tches) out the way and dig dig dig until you get the gold (nice girl) :p
 

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rocket87 said:
Nah. The good ones are just taken.

Adjust your frame.
Yeah your right there!

Maybe i've just gotta harden up and play the numbers game?, like approach every girl i see and i'm bound to find a decent girl like that ... right? ;p
 

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Demonicale said:
Yeah your right there!

Maybe i've just gotta harden up and play the numbers game?, like approach every girl i see and i'm bound to find a decent girl like that ... right? ;p
that's how it is man. gotta just keep hooking up with girls until you find the gold :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ugh, so much anger towards women.

If I wasn't such a nice easy going guy, I'd probably be in jail right now.

Right now I can only see women as nothing more than a spoiled 5 year old who can get everything she wants.
 

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You guys should sign a petition to world war III, the old good times when there were fewer men than women allowed those men to get the best side of women.

5 yrs old kids could be the biggest pain in ass if you are their babysitter but at the same time they can entartein you with songs if you are one of the few guys with the ticket to the zoo.
There's nothing wrong with them or you,it's just that the surrounding environment create the frame.

People spit and make fun of communism but the more I read you guys here the more I realise that what is good for your wallet is not always good for your quality of life.
 

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I really hated making this thread and joing the "trolls" and everything, i just honestly wanted to know how many of you actually like women at your point in your lives.
 

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There are as many sh1tty women as there are sh1tty men in my opinion.

I've seen cool dudes with lameazz controlling girlfriends.. and i've seen cool chicks with lameazz controlling boyfriends.

And I'm not talking Alpha boyfriends, the opposite of that.. Just straight up beta dudes that use their girlfriends to buy them sh1t and take care of them. That's not alpha at all, that's more like a living at your parents' house when you're 30 mentality to me.

I usually just try not to think of this whole "women suck" mentality. Takes all the fun outta the game for me.
 

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Women, make it very hard to like them.

As streiok mentioned, they can entertain you if you bribe them.

But it's just so much work.

What's really interesting is that I've recently became friends with a lesbian and she tells me all the shit she has to go through dating women.

After having a fight with her girlfriend, she said to me in an exasperated manner, "It's like getting lectured at by a three year old."

I'm starting to believe that women have been given too much power and this society. They don't know what's good for them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maxtro said:
Women, make it very hard to like them.

As streiok mentioned, they can entertain you if you bribe them.

But it's just so much work.

What's really interesting is that I've recently became friends with a lesbian and she tells me all the shit she has to go through dating women.

After having a fight with her girlfriend, she said to me in an exasperated manner, "It's like getting lectured at by a three year old."

I'm starting to believe that women have been given too much power and this society. They don't know what's good for them.

I hear you there, i'm starting to see them for what they are .. inmo .. just sex objects that offer nothing else.

I wish that attitude would change, but i can't be blamed when they act the way they do.
 

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Demonicale said:
How do you guy's cope with all the hate you have for women?, and yeah they're are alot of guy's like me who feel that way.

I was sober going out for a few weeks, i got to see all the stupid **** women do to guy's .. which has just made me really ****ed off with em.

Now i'm back on the drink tonight and going out to do my thing.But it's going to be hard considering i cannot stand they're **** and the fact they think they're **** does'nt stink.

Anyway, what's the point in us a a sex to worship they're useless worthless bodies?.
You're seeing the bad points in the night. Focus on thinking about the girls who are in love with you and and want you more than ever.
 

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That's just the way chicks are, we as guys tend to forget that females think differently from us so what a the modern man has to do is understand the female mindset and take everything from there.
 

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LoneWolf said:
i won't lie but it's a fuking mission finding a real nice girl. dime a dozen man but it will happen one day bro. it's like finding gold... you gotta get all the rocks (b1tches) out the way and dig dig dig until you get the gold (nice girl) :p
quote of the day!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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