Women are Each Other's Best Judges

[Frank2500]

The competition among women in terms of who has higher value is generally quite fierce and from time to time characterized in the dating game by tense rivalry. But I have also come to see that because they all understand each other much more than we men do, they are the best judges of each other. Hence it's easier for you to get a more accurate point of view and analysis from a woman regarding certain women's attitudes and behaviors in the dating game.


In the company where I've been working for the past four years, I got a bit close within the past two years to one of my female co-workers (she's our office secretary and both of us talk about a variety of issues) and last week she stopped at my office to say hello so we could chit chat for a few minutes. In the process I used the opportunity to show her some of the pictures I took two weeks ago with the woman I'm currently dating and since we are close, I asked her for her personal opinion on the woman in terms of looks, etc. She said to me:


-"Wow...that's a very beautiful woman, Frank. Looks like the kind of woman you put a ring on and make your wife."


-"Damn...she's got some curves. Hmmm...Frank, you're a player," she said, laughing.


This opened my eyes further to see clearly that among themselves, women rate each other when it comes to looks and dating and relationships and that's one of the sources out of which competition and rivalries stem from. And most interestingly, when we men go after women because we've noticed certain physical attributes they seem to have...other women notice what they have too and can get jealous when some seem to have what the others don't have.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Frank,
"Women are Each Other's Best Judges"...Yes and best critics..... Men will indulge in light hearted banter,but will rarely engage in spiteful criticism of each other.....Another observation from the Dance Scene,you think she wore that outfit and dollied up her hair for you?She didn't, its for the Girls...She wants you to whirl her round the Ballroom,not to please you,but to impress her mates!
But I do agree about the value of advice from the wise old Chooks...These Femmes Sage,have it all worked out,and make far better advisors than the Guys!

 

[dasein]

The problem with women's opinions on anything, especially other women, is that they are not consistent or objective in the least... ever. It's all contextual, making everything they say suspect IME. The reality of almost all women I've ever been with or even known is fluid and subject to the massive female powers of rationalization.

 

[LandingWood]

The problem with women's opinions on anything, especially other women, is that they are not consistent or objective in the least... ever. It's all contextual, making everything they say suspect IME. The reality of almost all women I've ever been with or even known is fluid and subject to the massive female powers of rationalization.

This. X1000000

Always changing opinions.

 

[Frank2500]

Another thing that woman said to me that day was:

"You know, when it comes to marriage, it's better for you men not to get married to a woman who is too hot/too good looking on the physical beauty scale because there's always a great chance she would attract lots of attention from other men, would cheat on you and cause a lot of conflict and drama in your home since she's used to and enjoys getting attention."

 

[dasein]

By her logic she should be rushing under the bridge to marry the first wino she sees, is she? Thought not.

 

[CrimsonPanther]

OP: never listen to what women say about each other. yes, they are good judges, but they are VERY insincere judges also. they will say ALWAYS what they think you want to hear.
just look at facebook, and all the false compliments they spam each other with. or below EVERY picture with a bf/gf, they write: you look so perfect together etc...

listening to a woman's advice is the first step towards failure.

 

[Frank2500]

Re:

@CrimsonPanther: Your perspective is very interesting. I agree with you particularly regarding Facebook. There's all kinds of funny folks on there and you come across a lot of hypocrisy, etc. Very few people on there portray themselves the way they are in real life. No wonder it's called "the face of a book." There's folks on there who just watch what's going on and never comment on a single thing anyone posts, even if it were obvious you would have liked to get their points of view. And perhaps most amazing, your enemies actually check out your profile way more than other people.